He says I leave his d*** sore after sex, what can I do about it am I too rough?

I like to work out a lot. I do lots of yoga, Tae Bo, and I especially like to work on my legs. I especially work out my inner thighs, I have very tone legs and they look great. I have a very tight, thick and muscular vagina. I Camel Toe even when I don't want to and it usually happens when I wear shorts. When I'm having sex with my f*** buddy I like being on top, I don't like to just go up and down because his d*** is not wide, so I like to swing my hips around from side to side or around in circles like I'm hula hooping while I go up and down so his d*** can reach all areas inside me. In the morning he says he will see tints of blue all over the shaft of his d*** and they are bruises, could this be because his d*** is not strong enough to handle me? Is it because his d*** is not thick or wide enough? I've tried to slow down but it doesn't help. He has tried to have sex on top of me but it doesn't do anything for me, even doggie style to help him reach farther inside me but it doesn't work. I like being on top so my vagina can grip his d*** and move it around however it wants it too, its never a problem during sex, but the next morning his d*** will be very sore and sometimes gets swollen.
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I decided to use mirrors in front in back and all sides around me to see what exactly I do when I swing my hips in all directions. I notice his p-enis twists and bends in many directions and I think that's the problem. Also, I never noticed myself doing it but with him, I squeeze my p.ussy around his d.ick in a very tight grip, and even being still, the pressure of the grip squeezing the sides of his **** causes his entire p.enis to turn sideways.
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We came out of the hospital right now and found out from the doctor that it has nothing to do with sensitive penis, but me. The doctor told me it looks like several very small injuries throughout his c.ock. Doc told me I ripped some erectile tissue, very minor. We asked about the 2 hard vessels that bubbled out in a V shape from the center of his penis, its because that's usually where I clench my vagina around his d*** and rotate my hips, so constant bending caused that.
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Doctor assured me that p.enises are very flexible and resilient and I should give him about a month to heal. Although his p.enis was never veiny before, it is very veiny now and the Doctor told me that that would never go away. Aesthetically, his p.enis will never be the same again, lol. X-D Anyways, I have to give him a month to heal, otherwise If I continue I could crack his d.ick in half for good. It's fine because I met a new guy now so I'm going to end things with my phuck buddy.
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  • It seems like a very sensitive penis problem to me, but does that happen in a different position like doggy? If so then I would say that either A. He is just very sensitive, B. Your vagina is just beating the living crap out of his penis and so the fault lies with you.

    Try different things, give a little oral maybe and see how that affects his penis, like a little biting perhaps? I know that sounds horrible but test things out somehow to get to the conclusion of where the problem is.

    • its happened to more than one guy I've been with

    • biting? no way : (

    • Then what you came to the conclusion of that your vagina is just very muscular might be the answer. You also could be thrusting very hard and sounds like a lot of movement that your doing also. Perhaps if you could, let the guy take a little of the control sometimes?

  • So this is what happens if you don't have enough girth? lol. Like the guy below me said your vagina is beating the living crap out of his d***. The hula hoop thing you mentioned just makes my penis hurt thinking about it. I know this sounds horrible but you might need to find a bigger penis so you don't rip his apart.

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  • will you marry me?

    • hahaha, apparently lots of guys like this, Loving a strong vagina they can submit to. Letting their **** lose the battle to my tight strong p.ussy.

    • my rock hard d*** with tare that tight strong p.ussy. up!

    • put a shirt on

  • I'm so glad you posted this, i was starting to think i was the only girl who has had this problem lol

    • How n when?

    • @Ankitrajaa about a week ago, i haven't ever really had that problem before though i mean I've always been tight but never like hurt someone or made them sore just from having sex. Now i like feel bad...

  • What is his girth?

  • You need to f*** a thicker, stronger d!ck. I think it would work out best for all people involved.

  • That sounds awesome to me. My d*** wouldn't get sore, but my balls might because they'd be working extra hard to really pump a lot of come out if you were giving me really strong orgasms, which it sounds like you could.

  • Wow, that sounds like a good thing lol. You say say you like to go on top because his d*** is not wide? How 'big' is he then?

    • He is polish, he is long but his d*** is like a pencil, I have to rotate my hips around in circles just so I can feel his d*** on all sides inside me, unfortunately I end up mangling up his penis really good because it will be all bruised up, like a tinted blueish purple around his entire shaft, and nowadays he can't erect as much as he used to and his d*** looks more veiny now

    • Oh lol, what is his girth?

  • How long do you usually f%$& him for?

    The hula hooping action sounds WAY hot! I'm pretty sure my d*** would LOVE it!

    • When we f***, he tells me it hurts real good, and in the morning his d-ick is sore and it hurts until he gets horny again, then the soreness around his d-ick feels good again, sometimes I don't even give his d-ick a chance to recover and before it heals up I'm back to humping him again, when I hula hump him his d*** twists in many directions, it loses the battle to my p-ussy that's for sure

    • Are you riding him bareback or with a condom? And how many minutes do you tend to ride him in one go before you cum? Maybe swtich to oral after you come to give his c0ck a break? Or does he have a better orgasm in your p***y? The way you churn him that might be the case.

    • riding him bareback? churn? I'm sorry I don't know what you are saying, but yea we use a condom

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  • I sometimes get a very sore penis myself after s** or even when I pleasure myself. I have never understood the reason behind it. It is totally unpredictable. It does not get blue or anything, but it really hurts. So much, that even going to sleep becomes a problem. Basically, I have to somehow keep it absolutely unexcited until that soreness goes away. Usually takes 2-4 hours.