I'm so sorry your hurting and he has treated you like this, but thank god youdidnt have sex with him! I think your instinct was correct, you obviously felt things weren't 100% right if you weren't ready to lose your virginity to him.
Believe me, if you had have had sex with him this story wouldn't have ended any differently. He sounds like a player and an immature one at that.
you've tried to make peace and he's not interested. I fear all he wanted from you was the sex and when he realized it wasn't on the cards he's moved on to someone else. It's nothing you've done, if a guy genuinely likes you he wouldn't let you go.
All I can say is cut him out of your life. Your hurt won't stop if you keep trying to contact him or leave communication open (such as Facebook). Delete him as a friend, delete him from your phone, grieve and move on. I promise it'll get easier, but only if you truly cut communication and can't see what he's doing on Facebook/msn/etc.0 0 0 0Girl I am so glad you didn't give in, cause believe me even though he says it would have been different if ya'll had sex, it wouldn't have. I don't know him but he sounds like a real jerk and you deserve someone who will wait until your 100% ready to go all the way. You're strong enough to hold back and wait, and beautiful enough to do better! Don't let any guy tell you otherwise cause guys like him, are not worth your time :) He sounds like a playa out for one thing and you deserve better, find you a real man baby girl!
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I see how one might think there is still some uncertainty as to whether you two might hook up. My sense? It's over. Totally, completely, and utterly. There is nothing you can do that will ever change him on this. The obstacle is insurmountable.
I'm not saying this to be mean; I'm hoping I can help you get over him and move on.0 0 0 0Really?.. I feel like he could have been with me but he chose not to because of his "rapping" career. I really do miss him, and this is super hard
I think so, yes. When a guy really wants you, other committments won't really stop him. He'll suggest an alternate time to meet. Also, he won't tell you that he's not the guy for you. I think the ladies posting here are correct: he was interested more in sex and not so interested in you. Knowing this doesn't make it less hard. But it does help you start to get through it. When you start getting though, it, you'll maybe start to meet other guys, guys who are better for you! :)
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