Carnal sex can be really good sometimes. I don't mind a little hair tugging, biting, spanking, pinning each other. But don't ever choke me; that crosses a personal line for me and will kill the mood instantly.
I think it's good to talk about things like that before doing them, to avoid any surprises or knee-jerk reactions if the other person is unprepared.
Absolutely, great point. Best to communicate so no-one is surprised or feels awkward. A lot of times you can just tell by demeanor and body language in bed too.
when I'm in the moment, I really can't feel the pain of being spanked or having my hair pulled, its just really kinky and makes me feel sexy!
having a guys hand on my neck is just as good as being kissed on the neck. its a sensitive place no matter how you touch it!
and being pinned is always fun! I love feeling weak with my big strong man!
I'm alright with being spanked every so often and hair pulling as long as it isn't too hard. I really like it when a guy pins my arms down. Choking me or trying to grab the front of my neck either lightly or hard has a weird effect on me...I just start laughing and try to get whoever's hand off of my neck.
Yea I can imagine laughing works really well with that. haha
I don't know why I laugh but I do...I'm not really that ticklish but that's just my reaction.
I'm not sure I'm okay with "choking" somebody during sex.. I mean, I don't really know how to make such a thing pleasurable. I'm quite down for spanking and hair pulling. Don't mind scratches and bites, too.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!ME. Most of the time. 9 times out of ten I prefer sex rough.
Same.
Oh, but choking must be prearranged. Just for safety reasons and never TOO hard.
Well I'm def not trying to kill a girl, just turn her on. haha. How does a pre-choke convo go btw? Do explain. ;)
Everything but choking, I love my hair being pulled, arms being pinned I wish it happened more often and spanking is good too. Lately I've fantasised about being gagged.
I like they way you think. ;) What turns you on about gagging?
Never considered it until my boyfriend tied my hands behind my head so I couldn't touch him and had complete control, kept going to kiss me but didn't, I was so turned on by it that at that moment I wanted to be gagged too so I was even less in control.
Nice. You like to be a little bit submissive huh?
i like all of the above
but I don't think id like it if he spanked the same spot continuously lol or if he really tried to hurt me.
i wouldn't want this every time we have sex though...itd get pretty boring :/
Everything except choking.
I just absolutely adore when he has total control over me. Hands pinned, his body weight on mine. I can't do anything about it. I'm powerless. And just does whatever he pleases.
F***, now I'm turned on.
Hott. You are not the only one ;)
*Cheers* All or none, All or none! x DDD
Spanking, pinning and a little hair pulling can be really fun.
But who wants to be choked? I know some people have that fetish but I will never let anyone choke me, not even during sex!
I like it a little rough but I'm not sadistic...
Hey choking isn't for everyone, but believe me some girls like it. I like pulling the hair and spanking a girl more than choking personally. Rough is def fun tho.
Nothing wrong with that. Choking isn't a turn on for all, some girls hate it, others love it. From my experience most girls like spanking, pinning (esp pinning), and hair pulling in some form way more than choking. Its all about what you like and what you are comfortable experiementing with.
True. And I respect that, people like different things.
I was in Seattle with my wife & kids following a car that had a bumper sticker that said "If you're riding my ass you better be pulling my hair" LOL
Thats classic haha
I love it wild!
Everything except the choked, part, sure.
light grabbing of neck then.
I guess that'd be okay, lol.
absolutely all of the above :D
Quite the appetite huh? ;)
most definitely ;)
i just wouldn't choke a girl, I'd do all the rest if she wanted me to. I looove spanking girls.
Everything and more...
It's nice to have it relaxed sometimes but most of the time rough.
Same
All of them are fine except being choked. I would probably have a panic attack if a guy choked me, even if he wasn't being rough.
u choke me then.
Its not for everyone.
I love being spanked hard for a long time, I love being held down and I don't really like rough sex (Im still new to it so it really hurts!) I love it when a guy pulls my hair from behind while he's spanking me or during sex. Id get mad if a guy choked me though. But sometimes I do like normal sex, just laying there and exploring each other untill you can't take it anymore and then taking it slow(=
everything minus choking!
Neither, I'm always the dominant and on top, I usually pin my boyfriend's wrists, I like the sense of control, power turns me on.
I prefer to do the pinning.
I like being pinned by some hot girl ;)
i do not like being spanked but I do enjoy being choked and having my hair pulled,
and when he's on top and pins my hands downn mmm it makes me want to get out so badly but he doesn't let me and it turns me on so badly, and honestly I don't think its just a mood, I mean sometime I will like to be gentle but once we both get horny, I get agressive, and he notices it and starts to act the same, or sometimes hell just pick me up and slam me on the bed and hell get his way :)
You sound fun. haha
i am :))
i like it rough but stay away from my neck, I'm really senistive about that area and can't stand being touched there, not even for kisses
I take it you never had many neck hickies huh?
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