At what age is a guy considered a loser if he's still a virgin?

[Anonymous]

16+? 18+? 21+? 25+? etc.. Because I'm 24 and still haven't kissed a girl yet so that's why I'm asking. Plus how many of you girls would go out with a virgin guy?

[Anonymous]

So, I am 20 and still a virgin. I make it clear that's how I want to keep it and if he can't deal tough. (:

I want to be married when I lose my virginity.

However, this question is about you. SO! You are 24 and haven't kissed a girl...humm...do you have any friends who could set you up on a date? or get on some dating sight?...creepy I know, but still, I know people who have found each other on it and maybe it will help you gain more confidence to ask that girl you've probably had your eye on for a while.

I'm saying this in all sincerity, a lot of women like a confident man. He doesn't have to be a 10 by any means for some women. And a lot of the women are waiting for a good guy to come along. Just remember, you to win anything you have to bet something too. You have to take a risk!

[Anonymous]

i don't think of people as losers just because theyre virgins, but I notice a lot of people who fall under the label of "loser" in society happen to be virgins ...

ill notice if someone is not only a virgin, but very unattractive, with poor social skills, bad body odor, etc. and ill understand why they're a virgin. I wouldn't call someone a loser for no reason or treat them like trash for being an older virgin. that's just mean and uncalled for.

personally, though, I probably wouldn't date a virgin because I'm a very sexual person and I don't think it would work out. he may be religious, or he may think I'm a slut for being promiscuous, etc. lol

[CheckHerOutBruh]

I agree with a lot that you said especially the first part and the part about him probably being very unattractive, and bad body ordor, and poor social skills. hahaha. It makes me chuckle.

[Asker]

i don't smell bad at all and I don't really have that bad of a poor social skills. But yeah, I may be quite unattractive.

[Opinion Owner]

yup.

[Asker]

But that's something I can't control though.

[Opinion Owner]

okay? what's your point?

[CheckHerOutBruh]

lol ^^^

[Anonymous]

I remember when I was 16 and my 2 little friends were 15 and we had a discussion about how if the guy was still a virgin by 18 there's something wrong with him. She said that, not me, and I think I could agree alittle, but now that I'm older and 18, hmm. Um. It would be okay, I mean maybe you had morals. I don't think I would want to date a virgin guy though, I know when I was younger I wouldn't want a virgin. *gag* I've been cellibate for almost a year, and if I got into a serious relationship with the guy and he was a virgin, but I really liked him, maybe I wouldn't mind...maybe.

[Anonymous]

u should loose your virginity by the age of 25 at the most.

anything beyond is not good if a guy wants to have a relationship in the future,and if the guy is happy being a virgin and do not wish to be in a relationship than it does not matter if he is a virgin at 35 also.

coz if a person does not loose his virginity uptill 25 ,then most of the sexual anxiety is lost.

so,girls do not prefer virgin guys as they want to be with sexually exited partner.

17-25 is the age where guys must loose their virginity,i feel.

some girls maybe go along with a virgin guy too but they may be few in number.

[pandaninja]

being a virgin dosn't make one a loser, usually virgins become losers because of the effect their virginity has on their self esteem but its not the virginity initself that makes them losers

[naturally]

I'd go out with a V guy in a second.

Being virtuous is a turn on. (at least for me)

[Thiezz]

Ah, but what if he's still a virgin because nobody is interested in him? Involuntary celibacy does not sound particularly virtuous to me

[naturally]

True. But who knows, maybe I'd want him. Maybe he's a darling, maybe we get along so easily, maybe we're perfect for e/o. There's a lot to consider, not just his sexual history. (or lack there of)

[xzinax2]

165...cause seriously,that's SOOOO lame *rolls eyes*

[chunri]

Being a virgin at any age is fine. I think someone would be a loser is they went to strange circumstances just to lose their virginity, like paying a prostitute just so you didn't have to be a virgin.

I would definitely go out with a virgin guy, unless he has the intention of keeping it until marriage.

[madiocre]

I would so long as we got along. though I don't personally believe in keeping yourself for marriage so if he was expecting that I might have issues. However if he wanted to wait I could do that.

I wouldn't think think of being a virgin as a sole reason to call someone a loser. most people I know who are virgins and get called losers have a whole lot of other reason about then that get them that label.

[ilovecookies]

I like virgins a lot better, but well...still a virgin after 35 is kinda odd.

Just wondering why haven't you kissed a girl before? too shy? high expectations? religion? I don't know what else...but you should be brave and go ahead and try it, it's not bad :P

[JulieJxox]

I don't think being a virgin makes you a loser, some might want to wait until marriage and I respect that. But if it's because he can't get a girl then prob 33+

[Tentacle_Therapist]

If he still cares so badly about being a virgin, he's a loser.

[monica94]

In my opinion it doesn't make you a loser if your still a virgin at 21, 25 or whatever. You're just waiting for the right person. I would go out with a virgin guy.

[Anonymous]

Jesus was a virgin all the way to the age of 33 when he was crucified and He was never a loser...He was actually a eternal life saver.

[Asker]

Yeah, but none of us are Jesus or will ever come close to being great as Jesus!

[Asker]

But hey, I'm a Muslim and we believe Jesus as a prophet that god saved from the crucifixion and replaced by a sinner in his position and is still alive to date but will come back when the judgement day nears. Well this is completely different topic though but yeah.

[Opinion Owner]

Nice answer! But for real though, I know especially living in this time period we all think we have to be sexually active in our younger years in order to be accepted..well at least it feels that way. But I will tell you that no one is a loser just because they haven't had sex yet or are waiting til marriage. It think it's really cool to wait til marriage. If you haven't had sex yet you should value that. Your wife will! Sex is overrated and not an ego booster.

[Anonymous]

30+

[Anonymous]

if a girl thinks your a loser then she's not worth it