My boyfriend likes to watch me sh*tting?

[rgdguhar]

after 7 months of our relation, my boyfriend started to hint that we need to refresh our life to avoid getting boring from each other ! I feel that he was trying to spy on me while I am in toilet and wanna watch me inside then he asked me directly not to close the door but I couldn' do as I was so shy I can not pee or poop in front of anyone specially a man even I like him I don't want to lose him but I am afraid if I agreed what would he ask more for ?! he told me that I am old fashion and we would broke up ! what should I do ! is that normal

[niceneasy]

Well if you like him talk to him about it in letters. Or film yourself, without your face for him. Tell him maybe later in time you can warm up to him. Or just tell him to watch p*rn in the mean time, if he likes you he can watch it and also make love to you normal. Fetishes aren't everything, they are just triggers for sexual arousal. Some people want to share their fetishes because it makes them feel close/trust. If you still like him, he is obviously a good person. The best would be sharing something your not comfortable about or a fetish, the bonding might be fulfilled in that act alone.

[AltTech]

If he wants you to do things that make you uncomfortable, and threatens a break up if you don't- then he isn't worth your time. Any guy that threatens a break up over something like that is probably just a prick trying to satisfy a fetish.

[chunri]

Sounds like he has a scat fetish. If he wants to break up with you just because he can't watch you, It sounds like he was just into you for your poop. ( never thought I would be saying that to anyone...) He doesn't sound like a guy worth your time and I would dump him.

[Lifesbeautiful]

LMAO at, *( never thought I would be saying that to anyone)*, ha ha :D So true!

[WashingtonLoveWizard]

Tell him to go roll around in some dog sh*t and call it good.

[Vasillilaw]

If you aren't comfortable doing something you shouldn't be pressured to change your mind. If your boyfriend is actually going to break up with you because of this he isn't even worth your time.

[rgdguhar]

honestly he did not say break up directly but I felt that

[Vasillilaw]

Oh. Then just tell him you aren't comfortable doing that, but you're willing to try something esle...as long as you're OK with it of course! (:

[rgdguhar]

what other things that I can do instaed

[Vasillilaw]

What is the craziest thing you guys have done to date?

[rgdguhar]

the most thing he likes in bed is anal but I don't like it so we made it rarely ... I would rather prfer let him watch me in toilet than pain of anal do you have other ideas

[Vasillilaw]

Sure. Have you done a strip tease for him before? Have you woken him up naked? There a lot of things you guys can do, but I don't know if you'll be into them or if you've tried them already.

[rgdguhar]

we tried all of that and more in short time

[Vasillilaw]

Hmmm...how about in public places?

[rgdguhar]

ohhh no ... he tried but I refused but one day while we were in train he was drunk and started to touch in front of people and I could not stop him so I persuaded to follow me to toilet so we have sex in a very small toilet quickly

[Vasillilaw]

Try dressing rooms! (;

[rgdguhar]

WOW we didn't try that before dressing room on beach then get a shower in sea

[Vasillilaw]

Sure. Me and my boyfriend didn't have sex in a dressing room, but we fooled around in the dressing room of a mall. lol.

[ShootingStar5]

Any guy who would break up with you because you don't want to let him watch you poop isn't worth keeping. You're better off.

[WashingtonLoveWizard]

It isn't normal. Google the church of fudge, I'm sure he is a member and wants you to become a nun.

[Raelin]

This made me smile.

[MarkMyWords]

Try giving him a BJ as You poop. Everyone is happy.

[Shaun]

That is a kink that very few people are into. If it were me, I'd say go ahead and find someone else to sh*t on you.

[actricalian]

If the guy is into scat, he's got problems. I'd tell him to take a walk if I were you.

[garinator1]

A lot of people are saying he should indulge you, but if you really value the relationship, give in and satisfy his desire. In my book, the needs of the partner with the fetish outweigh (providing their not harmful) the uncomfortness felt by the other partner.

[Anonymous]

If that gets him off, he should find someone that is sexually compatible with him. It was probably for the best.