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I've noticed black girls give a huge emphasis on d*** size comparing to girls of other races. Why is that?

Especially from the posts I've read on here. Like one black girl said 5 to 6 inch d***s are small as hell and their vibrator is bigger, the other black girl said 7.5 inch is small (WTF?) and would leave if the guy she really liked whipped out a d*** 7.5 or under, and another black girl said she would take a big d*** guy who was out of shape over small d*** guy who is in shape with both being equally good in bed, and these are just 3 examples of many I've noticed from black girls. Girls of other races like white girls, Hispanic girls, Asian girls hardly ever put that much emphasis on the penis size from the answers I've read. They just said they would be happy with whatever if they really liked the guy and it's how you use it that counts. So why do black girls really put so much emphasis on the penis size? Just curious. Are they loose? No offense to black girls but naturally since black men in general have the biggest d***s, black women were probably designed loose enough to fit black d***s perfectly so they don't like average size or even above average, just really big penis I guess.
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  • Just because a size is average doesn't mean it's not small it just means it's most common. What's small or big is up to the individual. The only thing penis size does is tell you what's most common, what's less than it, and what's more than it.

    So why do black girls really put so much emphasis on the penis size?

    Reasons why they're black so the guys are packaging and they hold that standard against other guys.

    Are they loose?

    No. Just because a girl likes a certain size doesn't mean she's loose.

    It's like saying a guy who likes tight vaginas is small.

    It's about the pleasure.

    Actually the vagina opening (penis girth here) & length (penis size here) differ by race.

    From big to small the opening goes Whites, Asians, Blacks

    From big to small the length goes Asians, Whites, Blacks

    So black women are tighter but longer. They need length more than girth.

    Sadly no research done on Hispanics. Yep that study was claimed racist for that.

    Side note:

    That how you use it counts is only restricted to d*cks because for sex girls don't get much.

    Guy's have preferences over vagina size, a girl's experience/number of partners, and an innie vs outie but a girl can't prefer a d*ck size, a guy's experience, or circumcised vs uncircumcised without a bunch of guys saying that's average/a virgin guy can please you/circumcision is evil.

    Please Hispanic girls put emphasis a whole lot.

    In fact the d*ck chain goes

    Blacks

    Hispanics

    Middle Easterns

    Whites

    Asians

    If d*ck size is important than a fat guy with a big one is preferred thn an inshape guybwith a small one since weight can change. Make the guy lose weight & you have an in shape guy with a big d*ck.

    • Hey, why did you take a sh*t all over the internet? This stuff you're supposed to say in the bathroom.

    • * From big to small the length goes Asians, Whites, Blacks Should be From small to bigbthe length goes Asians, Whites, Blacks @irykiryk Why do guys get so emotional online? If you don't like it just down vote it. No need to be a whiny b*tch. You are aware men are far more crude online. As for sh*t on the Internet- you're a guy you should know about p*rn.

    • im not angry or emotional. But your reaction is funny. And I don't really like you, so I don't care...

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  • im a virgin but I have SEEN penises. I've had girl talk with women of all races and yeah we all like big penises (white and latinas that I've talked to) its just that they aren't going to tell YOU because they don't want to hurt your feelings. also I really think the "average penis size" statistic is skewed because I don't believe the average male is 5 inches. I think 7 is average..my vagina isn't loose but it is pretty deep. I remember having a conversation with an italian girl and she was saying why do women need huge penises since half of the length will be hanging out and won't be able to go in anyway..i was like wtf? my friends that have had sex with really huge guys (like 9+ inches) say they have had to either take pain pills before sex, or it took him an hour to get it all in..so its not like a big penis is automatically gonna slide right in, you have to train for it.

    but you seem to be confused. there is a difference between length and girth. if you can take an 8 inch penis that doesn't mean your vagina is loose, it just means its deep. there are some men who are short and fat down there and some who are long and slim. a guy with a long 8 inch penis could have the same width as a guy with a 4 inch penis.

    bigger penises will be able to hit more of your walls. it doesn't mean that you won't be able to be tight with a guy with a shorter penis, he just won't be able to hit the back of it

    even though I'm a virgin I stilli wanna marry a guy with a big d***. what's wrong with that? I think we all have our thing. black men like big asses, white men like really skinny girls, why can't we like big penises? variety is the spice of life

    • Really, the stereotype that white men like really skinny girls, im white i do not at all like skinny girls, not all white men like skinny girls its just preference, like me my preference is girls with big asses and thick thighs, im also attracted to black women more than women of other races o yeah the stereotype isn't always true

  • I have noticed this aswell. I'm white and my black friend (who wants to wait until marriage to have sex) told me before that if the man she married turned out to have a small d*** that she would divorce him! which in my opinion is going tooo far! For me its not about the size but how he uses it and there is also oral or foreplay etc. that will make sex more interesting. If Ireally like a guy I won't care what size he is down there! And I would prefer my guys d*** to be like 5/6 inches or smaller, nothing above that because I'm really tight and a dik like 7 inches long won't fully go in, I think it would be better to have bigger grith/like the width than to have a long skinny one lol

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  • Great posts> I am a white guy who is very large for my type. My "tool" reached maturity in the 8th grade (glad it stopped). To get to the point, I am 7-1/2" flaccid and 9" fully erect. What's more, I am also 7-7/8" in circumference. A buddy of mine says he is 3-1/2" flaccid, however Pinocchio's out to 6" erect. It is interesting that my tool flops around at 7-1/2", however only extends another 1-1/2" erect, where as my buddies almost doubles in length when erect. I hear this a lot about "small" guys. Perhaps it is because so much of my size is already prevalent in the flaccid state. I have been with many ladies of all ethnicities, with the exception of Asian. I have not had one complaint about size, however, will say that black and white women respond differently when I am drilling. Black women generally want me to pound them "hard" and also like doggy-style which utilizes every inch of my tool - whereas white women prefer it slower and more gentle (just saying). I have an affinity for black women (just love their personalities, however also, seem more physically strong and womanly than White and Hispanic women). Black women seem more concerned with me feeling like a man (give it to me baby) and illustrate a "you with a real woman" vibe, than white women who seem more concerned with hitting their "G-spot. Like I said, never had a woman tell me that I was too big, but Black women seem to more effortlessly accommodate me.

  • There is some biological reasoning behind it, many will try to shoot you down with exceptions, but in reality there is more than enough evidence to prove a size disparity. But, you just can't assume that only black girls are the ones fretting over size. Maybe they are the ones willing to spout their opinions, while others remain coy in order to not burn any bridges. Yes, girls will keep you around and play nice so they can reap your benefits later on. That's why they keep their mouths shut about that sort of thing.

    This brings up my biggest pet peeve about girls in general. When a guy mentions his "junk", girls will rattle off comments like "oh I hope it's big!" or "Big hands mean big d***!". Then when you confront these girls with a question stemming from an insecurity (based on those comments), they try to soothe you by saying it doesn't matter. Like really? Were you not just speculating on a guy having a huge d***? Where did all the girls who were giggling over big d***s run off to?

    The bottom line is, most girls will say what they have to say in order to keep you around on good terms. Why? So they can reap the benefits later. The truth may never be set free...

    • and the funny thing is, that a huge d*** isn't even that much better if you look at it from an anatomic way.

    • Wow. That makes so much sense. Because girls say a lot of things that sound nice but their actions speak otherwise.

    • Best answer this, the truth must be revealed!

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  • I have never ever noticed this.

  • Black men don't have bigger penises. Black women aren't looser.

    • Umm, SUPER WRONG!!! Lol. Black men having by far the biggest penises is one of the most known things in this country. And also, what’s not so known, is black women do have bigger vaginas

    • @jamesdoggybiscuit umm, super dooper wrong.
      www.google.com/.../

    • Someone is clearly racist. That’s a damn shame. We’ll never be fully accepted by white people

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  • LOL.

    • Just a lol and no comment ehh. I guess that's probably true with you too :P

    • no. not really. I am a virgin..and I can't even use one of my fingers...without feeling pain...for now the smaller the merrier.

    • Lol @ smaller the merrier. You're funny.

  • I think it makes more sense that they would be deeper. Prefering more length has nothing to do with tightness.

    • No I'm black I actually prefer shorter like 5 in or smaller for example I had sex with guys that were 6 in and to me that was very big like 9 in the the average woman. Bigger than a 4 in girth and 6 -7 in long I don't orgasm and above 5 in girth I can't fit it in my mother is small too it's genetic and yes my mom is black too

  • well, black guys have large d***s, from what I hear, so maybe they're used to that. so they compare you to black guys.

  • You wrote a complete theory there.
    Sources to prove it?

  • Reading all this, it's safe to say I'll never date a black girl lol.

  • Im a black guy who is very handsome... Im about 5 and half in. I've experienced it all... my most recent relationship ended mostly because of my penis size and we have a child... its sad that women just can't admit they just want bigger... so they make lame excuses. . I get a lot of attention from women but when they discover my size... that attention changes. I think more women need to learn how to be honest with things like this.. so now I just put it out there before any feelings develop... and all I've dated were black girls.. I get a few sexual encounters then they all quit on me.. most likely to find a bigger dick.. I've been cosidering finding an Asian. girl but most Asians dont date black guys

  • Black women have larger clit and more pleasure from sex

    • RU just making things up cause it sounds like you have never really been with a black girl. If there's any physical difference it ain't that. I'd more guess the opposite, based on my own experience, and my familiarity with other black women. If you're talking about more pleasure from vaginal sex, then you're so wrong. Even this very thread reflects that black women often can't feel enough pleasure from vaginal sex, even with "above average" penises... is that not obvious why many of us demand bigger dicks? So that we can get enough pleasure! Of course! Think about what you're saying. If we had MORE pleasure than other races then we would logically be EASIEST to satisfy. And especially, if black women had orgasmic clits, then why would we even care about long dicks to climax vaginally? I went to a very suburban high school and I specifically remember the white girls apparently avoided real sex by dry humping their clits all over their bfs, which apparently did the trick for them (yeah wou'dnt for me)... THEY are the ones with orgasmic clits, not us. Yet still people insist on imagining that black women are just wild and lust-crazed animals on a nonstop quest for ultimate sin and pleasure... we aren't.

    • @AngiMori90 Y’all are the reason guys feel insect Why would you want to objectify men this way Do you know how guys with smaller dicks feel when feeling objectified like this Like being inadequate I bet if a guy tells you you are too loose you’ll feel really bad If a guy literally says he can’t be with you or he breaks up with you because of your body i am sure you’ll feel depressed I am from Nigeria and i loved black ladies and they are beating but hearing things like this makes me despise black ladies Black ladies truly are too loud They say things like if he doesn’t have a big dick i can’t date him and all sort of things Black girls are so concerned about things like this Penis Like this is how we are created, we can’t change it And people saying all black guys have big dicks it’s a big lie Yes black guys on average are bigger but there are small ones too Good luck And this had verified my notion that women are fcking shallow You won’t find a guy saying he won’t date you because you don’t have a huge ass or boobs or you are not curvy I’ll rather go for a white lady or Asian Y’all black ladies suck and are so shallow

  • Let's think about this from a logical point of view, do women really want a 10,11,12 inches dick in them all the time? Black women are just idiots and general and think about it, most of them are single un-married and in general the least desired female on the planet. Most sane and logical thinking females are MORE than content with 7-8 inches attached to a guy who they like for all the right reasons. Only black females would dismiss a good guy for all the wrong reasons. Hence why they are mostly single and when they are with someone, it's usually a THUG. the thug has the 10 inches they must have, yet he has all the wrong qualities in a person, human being, boyfriend, etc. This is why the black race is so messed up.

    • Yeah I'm a black woman 8 inches is definitely too big it's annoying when other races of men think you're black so you must be big despite knowing you are 5'1 and 110 lbs like if I was any other race you'd know I was too small for big penises but since I'm black logic evades you. Shows how dumb some people are in my opinion

  • From my experience this is very true. I consider myself average for a male may below average for a black male. I am about 3.85 inches flaccid in length about 4.4 inches flaccid in girth, 6.8 to 7.2 in length errect and 5.25 in girth errect. I've been called small by black women. I have been cheated on ended relationships and what not.

    The funny thing is when these women move on to the bigger guy he usually treats them worse and inturn does do the same thing to them that was done to me. I also hear a lot of black women saying a good black man is hard to find. I wonder if they would accept a good black man if they didn't fit their narrow criteria?

    Now I know all black women aren't like this and there are some who are perfectly fine with the average male as long as he holds her interest and can either provide or meet them half way, but it seems like societal influences are breeding more size queens which inturn leads to more unsuccesful relationships and a lowrer rate of successful marriages.

  • To all black women who say size doesn't matter, that this and that is too big: you're a bunch of damn liars. I live in an all black neighborhood, i stand 5'7, and have just about 7 in when im really turned on, yet i'm being slandered ALL across town as the guy with the small dick. I recently had a (black) girlfriend cheat on me because of it. Not surprised, because black women have done that to throughout my life. Like the one guy said, it's no wonder black women end up as single parents. They leave a good man with an average/above average dick for Thug Mookie with the 10 incher, who hits them with the pump-n-dump, then wonder "where have the good men gone?". Fuck em...

    • Yeah I can't even fit agirth above 5 in in and that's with foreplay average guys have to foreplay and be a little patient

  • Plenty of other reasons to stay away from black girls than just penis size. I'm a black man myself and have 6 inch length and about 3.8inch girth and I've also had relationships fail because of the length (one girl had the guts to say it finally) that seems to be what they care about the most. I have been looking at Spanish and Korean girls lately

    • Wow, something tells me it wasn't just the dick. You've been "looking at Spanish and Korean girls lately"... you seem to be really into objectifying women I must say. I'd be willing to bet thay is the root of your romantic issues. Not your penis. Sure there are some (even many) black women who might require more dick than what you've described to give them enough pleasure vaginally. But obviously there's other ways to please many sisters that doesn't require as much dick to get the job done. So I don't buy this excuse at all. Sorry.

    • Yeah I don't prefer Asian men and I find it annoying people assume Asian men are small they're not I was trying with a Eurasian guy and I couldn't get him in because he was 9 in 6 in girth so that's not true that Asians tend to be smaller. Now Spanish men I'm definitely attracted to but I get more white men with blonde hair blue eyes. So as far as black women no we don't all want big I personally prefer a small size average is big to me

  • Black guys have longer penises. Black girls aren't looser in circumference but we are deeper so we can fit a longer penis. No reason to insult black women because you feel sad that someone made your penis feel inadequate. We aren't loose we just want a guy who can hit the back. I'm not gonna lie and say that sexual satisfaction isn't an important part of relationships. I mean who wants to be that person who is in a long term relationship years later complaining about why your woman only wants sex once a week...well maybe if she was pleased she'd want it more lol so I'm trying to prevent bad sex here

    • That’s bull. I’m a black man, and I can tell you black women do have bigger vaginas on average, just like black men have bigger penises on average. So don’t try to make him or any other man feel inadequate because black women have big vaginas. It’s not his fault black women have big vaginas. Average isn’t good enough to most black women. Above average isn’t good enough for most black women, but it’s perfectly fine with all the other women

    • @jamesdoggybiscuit you exaggerating and plus this is stupid since you have not even mentioned the fact that anal is the fix for all of this issue. Obviously any dick feel a lot bigger in the ass. It can do more with less. Totay this what most sisters r doing even if they deny it, so I don't know what sisters you r talking about here. Also u can also eat the booty if you really care about HER climax...

  • Most people on this site overestimate penis size, or are just plain lying. 5 to 7 inches is average. I've never even seen one bigger than that in person and I've been around. 8 and 9 inch penises have to be pretty rare. You wouldn't know it by reading these advice sites, because everyone claims to have them, or prefer them, behind the safe anonymity of their computer screen. It's misinformation like this that gives people a complex. Most people are average size, and average works just fine. Chill out people.

    • Exactly!

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