Whats the deal with blow jobs and swallowing cum?

why do men like it? and how can you women stand it? it's really gross! I mean, if she has a perfectly good vagina, why do you want to put in her mouth? and what's the deal with making her swallow it? do you like to torture your women for your own pleasure? that is really disgusting... I heard guys say come is good for you if you eat it. Well why don't you eat your own? lol I would rather eat some fruit thanks.
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  • Well as for me, I enjoy playing with his package. I love the pleasure I can give him. It is as much for me as him, if not more for me. I don't see what is disgusting about it at all, his semen is going in me one way or another and if he eats healthy it is kind of sweet tasting. Yea I swallow every drop, it turns both of us on. I like the taste of him and I love watching the way his whole body flexes and then slowly relaxes as I am caressing his balls with my hands and have his penis in my mouth. So in short, yea I love it on several levels.

    When I let him go down on me he is getting my juices in his mouth and I would not feel very loved if he told me I was disgusting. You have to give good loving to get good loving. Humans were designed to share our bodily fluids, after all its how we were made literally.

    Not judging and not trying to sound condescending (some how it comes out that way anyhow, so sorry about that in advance), but when you get some more experience you may find that you can derive an immense amount of pleasure from pleasuring your man.

    • Wow!

  • You sound like such a prude lol

    Penises and come are natural. It is a natural part of his body that he cannot help lol I don't see the problem as long as he's clean down there with good manscaping. Cum tastes different depending on the guy's diet. I see it no different from a guy giving a girl oral. How would you feel for some guy to be bashing your vagina, something you can't help the way it was made and the way it works saying he thinks drinking vagina jucies is nasty and he doesn't want to swallow it and why can't you just take his d***? The way you're asking this is kind of bitchy.

    • I would never ask a guy to eat me out, because I know it's disgusting too.

    • wow speak for your own vagina! lol you sound very immature and close minded. Vaginas and penises are natural. There is nothing wrong with the way they are designed. What are you 12? I also wanted to add that I think some guys like oral sex because of the variety and the different sensations possible with oral sex. It's like trying two different massagers, one of them can just give you different feelings that the other can't.

    • I know they are natural but they aren't made for eating.

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  • I rather some fruit too

    • ok...keep your fruit...dont us to lick vagina...

    • I never said I don't like it, I just really like fruit.

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  • If you have ever received expert oral sex from a man, you will know how different and often more satisfying it is than intercourse. It is pure pleasure without effort. There is no need to defend wanting to receive it.

    It is important to the best enjoyment of oral sex to have orgasm while being sucked and stroked (not stopping just before "the moment") just as having an orgasm while f*cking and not pulling out is more satisfying.

    The semen has to end up in your mouth in a BJ to completion. What you do with it (spit or swallow) is up to you. It's not torture if you love him and more than swallowing a flood of vaginal mucous, pee (from "accidents") and real ejaculate (tastes like semen) is for me.

  • I think It should just be up to the women. My guy friends call me weird for this but I get more pleasure knowing my girl is getting pleasure from our sexual act. From a objective stand point I can see how this would be disgusting. With my girlfriend actually I come on something while she strokes. It still gives a great feeling so it has the same effect still because I'm still wet from her mouth. Once again as I always say p*rn ruins sex for a lot of couples because many men get their sexual standards from watching p*rn and wanting to emulate that in their sexual lives. That's just my opinion.

    • thanks I think its true that men get their sexual standards from p*rn and its disgusting

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  • First of all no guy has the right to make you do something you don't want to do. Why would someone want to force their girlfriend to blow them if the girl says she hates it isn't into it?

    Personally, it's not something I find disgusting so I don't mind doing it. Same for my boyfriend, he doesn't find going down on me disgusting so he would do it.

    From what I understand it's a different sensation.

    To each his own though. If you don't want to do it then don't. If you're with a guy who's trying to force you then you're with the wrong guy.

  • I'd feel bad for a guy who can't even get a blowjob from his own girlfriend. And there is nothing gross about sucking my boyfriend's d***. He loves it and I love him and why wouldn't I want to make him happy?

    • i feel bad for the guy that marrys a women that's swallowed another mans cum

    • dudeman you're such a prude. you act like you're some amazing, awesome guy in every way when you wouldn't even deserve that ype of female if she exists

  • I think whomever wrote this suffers from some senseless hangups and needs to see a shrink. I for one enjoy swallowing. I don't see any reason why I shouldn't. Sure, just like some other foods cum has an acquired taste. If you don't like it at first you just have to keep swallowing it and you'll get used to it. The very last place I would ever want cum is my vagina! I want it in my mouth and I want to swallow it. It's good stuff.

  • Speak for yourself. I personally enjoy it. It doesn't taste that bad at all, plus it's fun.

    • How is it "fun" seems like torture to me.

    • Thank you. I don't find it gross to taste a girl...Ever ;-)

    • Have you ever played with a penis? They're a hoot, and so's the stuff that comes out of them. Besides, blowjobs are really intimate to me, and swallowing just adds to that feeling. If I think about blowing a stranger, that definitely doesn't sound appealing. But when I think about blowing the guy I love? Huge turn-on. Hopefully you'll find out when you get more experience.

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  • I personally love when my girlfriend gives me ablowjob and she seems to not mind it.

  • why do woman enjoy a man eating her out? This is a rather dumb question. I don't know it feels good to be sucked off?

    • I wouldn't enjoy a man eating me out I would find it embarrassing. It's a bit selfish of the guy to ask for a blow job. Also why does she need to swallow it? that's really disgusting. how would you like eating it? I bet you wouldnt.

    • Have you ever had a man give you an australian kiss (a french kiss but down under)? If not than don't be so judgmental.

    • No & I never want a man to. I'm nicer then that. I don't make people do disgusting things.

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  • What goes on in the bedroom between two people or however many is their business, not yours.

  • I've never asked a girl to suck me off, they've all done it voluntarily. I even had a few girls tell me they WANTED to swallow me. It turns on a guy like no other and it gives them the assurance that they accept him. Besides, she may not want it in her vag because of the risk of pregnancy; the pill doesn't always work. We don't eat our own come for the same reason you don't eat your own vag juice.

    • "Besides, she may not want it in her vag because of the risk of pregnancy; the pill doesn't always work" thats what condoms are for.

    • Condoms aren't 100% effective either.

    • yeah but the pill + condoms is better then pill + pulling out and eating it. That's gross.

  • blowjob, blowjob, nobody is horny in the tongue

  • You are absolutely right, why in the mouth with the penis, where you can have a perfectly good vagina. Oh yeah!

  • Have you ever trying it? Don't knock till you do.

    • yes I got forced to do it, worst experience ever I nearly vomited because it was so disgusting.

    • If you would have actually vomited, it MAY have been the first interesting thing to come out of your mouth.

    • Oh my god, well of course you're averse to blowjobs if you were forced to do it. That's enough to make anyone think they're awful. Trust me, it's so much better when there's CONSENT and you do it with someone you love.

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  • i agree. its nasty.

    • juuust my opinion, don't hate please.

    • yeah very nasty!

    • Honestly, I think that it was just the experience that really got you to not like it. i don't enjoy it, but if he asks for it and kinda "deserves" it, I would do it, but I wouldn't let him come in my mouth.

  • "you women"?

    • yes I'm asking the women on here how they put up with it

  • idk I couldn't date women that did this with other men

    • but you would let her do it to you?

    • of course

    • well your a hypocrite.

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  • Seems only fair. A guy goes down on you for 10-15 minutes, he has to taste your juices for the whole time. You go down on a guy for 10-15 minutes and all you have to do, is taste it for the 5 seconds it takes to swallow. To your other point, always finishing in the same place is like having sex in the exact same position every time. Variety is the spice of life.

    • Most guys won't go down on a girl

    • Really? Cause I work with a bunch of guys, and not one of them complains about going down, as far as I know most men enjoy doing that.

    • Yeah going down on a girl is my favorite thing to do will do it and nothing else and lick her for hours if she wants noting is hotter then tasting her sweet pussy and hearing her moan in pleasure and then shack in orgasms over and over again till she is a quivering mass of orgasmic jello nothing beats that

  • It's like acceptance. If you spit it ruins the moment and makes us feel like we're gross. If she doesn't swallow I won't come in her mouth.

    • well it is gross. would you suck your own d*** and eat it?

    • No. Would you eat your own p****?

    • no, I wouldn't eat a d*** either. That's dirty.

  • its just hot to come in a warm mouth. there's something to it. especially when she swallows. its like, my DNA is in her, you know.

  • it is an acquired taste and it really gets us going to see a what a woman is willing to do for us

  • i love cum, I would suck my mans **** if he didn't ask me to. I dated my ex for 2 years, I sucked his d*** everyday. swallowed every time, which probably equates to about 4 liters or more of cum. you're probably disgusted. good luck keeping a boyfriend with that attitude.

    • lucky bastard...

    • eww your a slut! and your only 16! good luck finding a husband when your older.

    • good luck keeping your husband. he'll be f***ing around in no time.

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  • Good luck with your single life.

    • Guys are pretty pathetic if they think relationships are all about sex and blow jobs.

    • They're not. But if you're going to react with such disdain towards what is one of the more pleasurable and intimate aspects of an adult relationship... well, you're not exactly going to be inundated with suitors. So good luck with that. Your ugly attitude will do more to keep you single than any ugly face ever could.

    • Pleasurable to MEN. I would get no pleasure what so ever giving a blow job. It is more like torture! And I hope no guy ever asks me to do it! It's so selfish Of the guy to expect the girl to do that to him.

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