Why would he nail and bail or hump and dump me?

[Anonymous]

This guy I have liked for awhile finally asked me out we were already on and off for awhile because his mom yea that's right his mom said she doesn't want us to date by the way he is old enough to make his own decisions. Well he liked begged me to date him so I did because I like him then one day we were at his house and we had sex then the next day his sister and me and a few other friends went swimming at the local pool because it was are day off well he showed up didn't talk to me at all and flirted with other girls and pretty much ignored me witch made me pissed so about 5 days later which was today I texted him and said we need to talk about us then he said he thought there was no us then I said you have to be f and kidding me then he said I didn't want to date him and then he said he had to go wtf does this mean I'm really pissed and this weekend our family's are going camping together ( long ass tradition) what do I do talk to him like nothing happened or talk to him about us please give me any advice !

[kelsay333]

He probably only asked you to date him because there was nothing else going for him at the time. I'm only saying that because for him to completely ignore you the next day after having sex, he was only looking for something to boost his ego because something or someone brought it down. There's a lot of guys that'll do or say anything just to get into your pants. I mean hell, it's a guy's human nature, but most take it to the extreme without emotion, or the status it holds over them.

When your two families go camping together, act like nothing's wrong. Smile, laugh..even ask a few friends to come with you. Ignore the loser, and if he tries to talk to you..act like you're best friends. But never get together with him again, or try to have a relationship with him. Nothing drives a guy more crazy than to see a girl that thought was attached to them ignore them, and seem happy.

[myegoisbroken]

I remember learning this in health a couple years ago my freshman year in high school as I was going through a major decision to have sex or not with my bf. I remember my teacher saying that guys are from mars and girls are from venus, meaning that we are wired differently. Women, to be in a serious relationship and have sex, requires some sort of emotional bond while for most men, their main goal for a point in their life is to "nail and bail" by playing with our emotionals, using the "L" word, love. They would say things to get to our heart, and most of the time, its just an act, and once they "get some" they leave you, hence the "bail" part. My best guess is that he never liked you in the way that you liked him, and only wanted to get into your pants, and once he did, he moved on, and is trying that tactic with another girl.

[alwayswonderingg]

Two options,

Either he's an a**hole who just wants to get it in once, leave you, and pretend it never happened. Or, he could be worried about his family being mad and after this weekend he could text you and apologize.

Either way, what he did is real rude and unacceptable.

[lkjhg69cum]

Well, either you were a sexual conquest, and are now another notch on the bed post, or he is very religious and feels extremely guilty forhhaving pre-marital sex. One or the other.