How much does a girl's body matter?

How much does a girl's body matter? Is it okay to have curves, (not fat, but boobs and hips) or do you like them stick thin? Is it a deal breaker if the girl is 10+lbs overweight? Are stretch marks (most likely from growth, not weight gain or loss) okay? Do guys still like hourglass figures, or have times changed? Will your initial attraction to a girl be because of her body?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, this will probably confuse you, but here goes:

    Her body matters A LOT.

    Its FINE to have curves OR be stick thin to me.

    Being 10-15 lbs overweight is not a deal breaker.

    Stretch marks from growth are a joke, take a look at the stretch marks some women have from pregnancy (which STILL aren't a deal breaker).

    Guys like girls who have a waist smaller then their hips. That will never change. Guys can have mild preferences for fuller figured or thinner, but waist/hip ratio preference is pretty universal (around 2:3 ratio).

    I think what confuses women is that men care a LOT about women's bodies BUT we are less fussy then you imagine. We care tremendously that you have a generally attractive and female shape. But if you have that and a great personality, we're pretty excited.

  • It doesn't matter that much, to be honest. But at your age, in your age group, guys will place far more importance on the body.

    If I was being selfish, I could say you should date / sleep with older guys who will be happy to spend time with a younger girl.

    But honestly, that's crap. Stay healthy for your own sake, and then don't worry about your body type.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Every guy is different.

    Guys don't understand female sizing, so he's not going to know if a girl is 10lbs overweight, as some girls carry weight well, and some don't. The majority of guys won't go for fat, girl, though. But everyones definition of fat varies.

    Stretch marks don't matter, so don't worry about it!

  • I have to agree with everyone's comments. I DO say that your confidence is the sexiest. Men are attracted to women of all different body types and sizes, and yes, there is a standard. But I think that if YOU are confident in the way you look, it's hard for a man to resist :)

  • It matters a lot so can you wear a bikini and are fine with it? Then good otherwise many guys won't care about u

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  • Every single guy is different. There is no one size fits all woman for us men. Although the media would have you believe that there is. Also stretch marks, are not going to be a big deal to any man that is worth knowing.

  • if your insecure of yourself.. why don't you send us a picture? For me.. I care more about a pretty face... A pretty smile is a huge turn of for me... the body..mm as long as your not fat.. and as long as your ass and boobs have meat to grab them I'm OK.. I'm more of a romatic/elegant type of guy so a dress with discovered back.. Would be a super WOW for me.. :) and I get enchanted my pretty, big and shinny eyes!

    • What.. Hourglass bodies are the best!

  • it's important but not as important as personality and such. It's okay to have curves, stick thin girls are a turnoff, it's not a deal breaker if the girl is 10 lbs overweight, stretch marks are fine, hourglass figure is ideal, the initial attraction will be because of her body because that's what you see from a distance before you ever meet her in person.

  • 100%. if her body doesn't turn me on, then I make no effort to go beyond that first step, and nothing she could do could make me want to be anything more than friends

  • i like athletic girls who are in shape, that's my preference