Why does my girlfriend want to be watched while we have sex?

When me and my girlfriend have sex she always wants to have the blinds open and the lights on, even at night. Does this turn girls on when your not sure if people are watching you or not? Our bed faces a large window and she likes to position herself facing the window while she rides me and makes her boobs bounce like crazy. She is a pretty skinny girl with D cups so it is pretty visual from outside. Also recently we have been have a lot of sex outside by our pool and even on the diving board in broad daylight. When outside I usually just pull my shorts down a little but she always takes everything off of her even when she is up riding me.. We do have a privacy fence but most of our neighbors have two story homes. and can see our pool anyway. My girlfriend is 24 and I am 25, is this normal for a girl this age? We have been dating about 8 months now. I am not complaining at all about this situation. I am just curious to know am I the only one with a girl like this? does the mystery is someone watching us a big turn on for girls? because my other friends never seem to talk about things like this.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • It's pretty normal.
    Some girls like to be watched. That's why dogging is so popular.
    Some girls like the risk of being caught. That's why sex in public is so popular.

    One of my exes used to really get off on the prospect of being caught by hotel staff. She'd be looking through the fish eye lens to see when the cleaning ladies were just a room away, and then we'd start having sex. Never loudly, and often with the TV on. Sometimes in the shower or just having sex in the bathroom with headphones on. Invariably the chamber maid would catch a quick glimpse and back out of the room very fast. I always made sure to leave a large gratuity for them, because while I wanted to please my ex, I hated the thought of dragging any third party into her little sex game, against their will. Even if it was only for a few seconds.

    I accused her once of trying to find a willing chamber maid who'd try to get into a 3 way, and told her life was not like a p*rn movie. She got really mad at that. Really really mad, actually.

  • It seems girls just love to be watched. My girlfriend is the same she wants to open the window (frosted glass) even though people passing might b able to see.. when she opens the window i press her tits frm outside her clothers but she removes it all to show her entire tits to the outside world. She even presses herself against the window it just makes it easier for people to see her body. With time i realized it best to go with the flow and dirty talk her. I once said " show them your body. Make them wana cum" she went nuts.

Most Helpful Girls

  • My fatasy is to do it in a place where people can catch us doing it but not that extreme like her. I would like to do it in aally where people are passing by but don't notice, but I wouldn't take my clothes off only pull down my pants and panties.

    • Have you ever been caught

    • I've never been interested in a guy so much as to do it with him. I don't want it to be just our hormones acting up.

  • I would be way too nervous to do that! Haha but whatever floats her boat

    • You would think so but once your in the moment its pretty hot. the best is on the pool steps lol

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  • If that's normal, I need to divorce and get a 24 year old gf.

  • Its totally normal she just likes to do it in way more open spaces. My fantasy is in public loos and stuff like that, you could be caught but you never know and its pretty cool haha

  • Yes she gets turned on by it as long as it makes the sex good don’t worry about it

  • You CAN get into trouble if someone calls the police. So be careful.