Guys Answer this: Booty Call Rules? Is this what you do?

Ok, So, I was talking to a guy for 2 mths before we met and had sex. We were talking everyday before we met. I have met a couple of his friends and all but one time I have seen him, I have spent the night and he drives me home the next day. A little about his past, he's divorced because his wife had an affair, has full custody of his young child, works 50+ hrs a week and goes to school. So, needless to say, doesn't have a lot of free time, which is OK with me. We still talk almost every day but neither of us wants to rush into a relationship yet because of our past. I've been learning so much more about him every time I see him, he is opening up more and more. I don't want to be a booty call and don't want to ask him what we are because I don't want him to think I'm rushing things, I like to see what happens and go from there. If I was just a booty call, would he do the following things? -Have me spend the night except for the one time his child was home? Cuddle and hold me? Tuck me in and kiss me on the forehead? Talk to me on almost a daily basis? Introduce me to friends and have my friends come over? Kiss and hug me hello and good bye every time we see each other? Talk to me for 2 mths before even meeting me and still continue to talk to me? The reason I ask is honestly, I'm scared to death to get hurt and I think he is too. I have had a booty call before and we never communicated unless it was just to hook up, in which I rarely spent the night or learned too much about them. I just don't know how guys think when it comes to this stuff. Please help me understand where this is going because I am starting to care for him.
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  • You are going to feel like a dumb ass when you start to get feelings for him and have to come face to face with the reality that he is just simply using you for a piece of ass. It's no secret that most guys are kinda sorta really pigs who can't control their sexual desires and will cheat, masturbate non-stop, pay nasty prostitutes, take advantage of filthy whores, do whatever it is they have to do to satisfy their sexual desires. This guy is using your holes because your dumb ass is letting him. You are going to catch feelings then realize that if he really wanted to be with you and had a genuine desire to have you in his life, you would have gotten the title first then sexual activity would have came later.

    I think it's insulting if a guy will have a booty call with you but he won't put in the time and effort needed to get to know you or introduce you to important people in his life and just overall cut out all of his other dating and relationship possibilities for you.

    I have a sh*t load of male friends and cousins and I'm telling you; this guy just views you as a booty call. If it was more, than he would make you his girlfriend not his f*** buddy.

    • he's probably just being affectionate because some a**holes, I mean guys lol, really get off on feeling desired and wanted. So they'll fake affection and caring so that they can feel like the girl really wants them. Also to make sure she doesn't go off and find an interest in someone else. I've seen it happen all of the time

    • I too have a ton of male friends, all whom tell me they would never be affectionate or interact with a booty call. They would simply hit it and quit it. I just wanted advice from people who did not know me. However, I can rest assured that he is not the type to cheat, sleep with filthy whores or prostitutes. He is a man, not a boy, with a very successful life, and great head on his shoulders. He has been putting in time and effort, like I said, we talk almost daily, & I have met his best friends

    • Cheat? HE.IS.NOT.YOUR.MAN. that's what you seem to be forgetting here! it seems like you're starting to care about him so much that you're failing to realize that at the end of the day, no matter how he acts, the only thing he seems to be pursuing in you are booty calls. I honestly think you just came here to listen to people tell you that you're more than just an easy piece of ass he's using and now that I'm not you're trying to collect any reasons you can find that contradict what I've said

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It seems he doesn't regard you as a booty call. He shows signs that he really cares about you, guys don't do that with a booty call.

    • Ok, thank you so much! I hope this is the case! I thought the same thing, but you never know, some people in general just like to play games!

  • You're not just a booty call.

    As for how serious it is? Who knows. That's a different question entirely.

    • Thank you! Yeah, it's pretty much that awkward phase right now with no label. But since I've posted, he has since called me when he was out with his friends just to say hi and see how I was and invited me to a friends wedding as his date. So, clearly, he is slowly but surely answering my question.

    • No kidding. You don't take a booty call as your date to a wedding.

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