Help!! Fantasies about my flatmate?

[Anonymous]

I had a ridiculously real sex dream about my flatmate the other night and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to know if there's any advice you can give me? I kinda had a minor crush before the dream but now things are out of control. I'm worried I will make some sort of move or something and ruin our living situation. We get along really, really well and my friend thinks that there is chemistry but we have only been living together for about 2 months or so and we have a 12 month lease. I know the rule - don't sh*t where you eat. I'd very much love someone (or many someones) to just explain in great detail why not? I seem to be forgetting this rule at the moment. Please help! Thanks!

[Anonymous]

just because you had a sexy dream about some one dose not mean that it going to come true. just because your flatmate is a guy and you may think you have a crush on him dose not may it true you are not going to do much about are you. it just a dream and that it ever one has dreams about what they would like to do with there room mate at some point I know I did in collage she was real hot I had real sexy dreams about her to but that all they wear just dreams so don,t get your paints in a bunch of this it will pass and you not go to lose you room mate just keep it your self and life will be o,k good luck

[suavaye]

dreams about sex with someone don't necessarily mean you have a crush on them its more of your subconscious trying to tell you a deeper meaning to something that's going on in your life.

unless you already had a crush on them in which case your just fantasizing

[Asker]

yeah I already had a it of a crush on him. We also have a bad habit of getting drunk and snuggling on the lounge. Thoughts?

[suavaye]

sound like your fantasizing, I'm pretty sure he's thought of sex with you too while snuggling or he'd never have gotten that close. if you don't think itll make for a wierd/awkward morning after. I suggest you run the idea of a relationship or even casual sex by him, see where it goes...

[Randomzzgirl]

You just have a crush, it was the same as before but know it's just built up a bit more, I live with 3 gorgeous guys and I have had dreams about them in fact I pretty much always have dreams about them lol anywhoo its normal and if you like him, ask him out :) I don't believe in that don't sh*t where you eat thing and plus you could just not have sex in the kitchen and you A OK :)