I don't feel much when my guy sucks on my nipples, is that weird?

[Anonymous]

When my guy sucks on them, I don't feel much of anything. The main thrill I get is that he seems to be enjoying it. Is this weird? Shouldn't I be more sensitive there? Or is he maybe going to strong or gentle? Am I just not aroused enough to have this blow my mind? I want to thrill my guy by reciprocating, but he a.) has a hairy chest and b.) I'm worried he's going to think I'm about to go down on him. Any advice? And finally, I have small breasts; I mean, I'm thin, what do you expect. This doesn't seem to be a turnoff for this guy, but I'm worried. Is he just making do or is this attention signaling he's into it?

[christian2724]

It's normal. People's bodies are different. I know some girls who really get a rise out of breast stimulation and others that are kinda 'meh' about it. There's nothing wrong with you.

You don't have to reciprocate. I've had girls try to suck my nipples and it's not wanted. My nipples do nothing for me. Plus I have a hairy chest and wonder if she's really cool with that. Don't do anything you don't want. Find something else to do if you want to reciprocate - fondle his d***, or start f***ing him if you don't like oral sex.

Small breasts are awesome. Definitely not a turnoff. I imagine he's into it if he's paying attention to them.

[KERMlT]

Some women aren't that sensitive in the nipple area. That's not uncommon. You can ask him if he has any erogenous zones he would like kissed or just take an afternoon to find them for yourself.

Why would you worry he's going to think you are about to go down on him?

[Asker]

I'm not totally ready and I don't like the fact that the relationship is undefined right now (he's a friend of mine who seems to have been working on getting me naked for a while). I am really worried about coming off like too much of a tease.

[lorahayes]

instead of sucking on them, get him to flick his tongue REALLY REALLY lightly over them, until you can feel it. it takes a while for you to feel it and if he just starts sucking on them when you're not aroused it will do nothing. for a long time I thought mine werent very sensitive but I discovered this and doing it gently first makes all the difference.

[NessielaKee]

Some girls just don't feel aroused when their breasts are sucked.

From what I'd read in Cosmo, small-chested girls should be more sensitive because their nerves are shorter in the chest area. But then again, it doesn't apply to everyone.

[bel42]

It's not weird. Maybe that particular part of your body isn't that sensitive. We all have particular areas that are more sensitive than others. It's nothing to be concerned about.

[RockyHorror]

Is he maybe sucking them too hard so that it numbs it?

Otherwise, your nipples probably aren't that sensitive.

[Asker]

It's likely true that I'm not that sensitive there...which really sucks...because I'm having a really hard time finding my erogenous zones...should I tell him? Or is he enjoying it?

[RockyHorror]

Make a game out of it, tell him you want to learn where his erogenous zones are & you want him to know where yours are. Both of you take a turn laying down & have the other basically kiss, lick, fondle your partners body. Let your parnter know if you really liked some places & make sure he tells you if he really likes something. He may still want to touch your breast, but once he knows what you really like, he'll touch those areas as well.

[Anonymous]

thats surprising most girls with small boobs are super sensitive,im a DD and mine are so sensitive, but everyones bodys are diffrent...youll find it!

[Anonymous]

I don't have any nipples

[Anonymous]

You boyfriend is sucking on them to hard he need to do easy and just lick them and see if that help,s or your nipples are just not that sensitive if you what to make them to be more sensitive try use some ice that may help as well

[Anonymous]

Some people have more sensitive nipples than others do. I guess yours just aren't that sensitive.

[Asker]

It's likely true that I'm not that sensitive there...which really sucks...because I'm having a really hard time finding my erogenous zones...should I tell him? Or is he enjoying it?

[Opinion Owner]

If he's enjoying it and it doesn't bother you and he is giving you pleasure in other parts of his body, may as well let him if it pleases him. But if you actually dislike it or he only focuses on your nipples and doesn't pleasure you anywhere else, I would tell him.