How do you keep a boy hard during sex?

like what can you do?

or how can you help him?

Most Helpful Guy

  • First of all, you need to stop worrying if you are any good or not. If he can't get hard or keep it hard, there is either a problem with him, which is likely if he's over 40 or you are not keeping it interesting for him. If you are more into your own thoughts and not into the moment, that can reuin it or at the very least make it difficult for a man who cares about you to keep it going. Durring sex, a good partner is feeling what you feel, he's reading your body language and everything. If your body is saying "Am I any good? Do I smell ok? Do I look ok? blah blah blah" He's going to pick up on that. You need to take more control and be in the moment. If that does not work, than it is safe to say he is the one with the prob.