Ladies - do you think about specific men when you masturbate, or do you just make up people and scenarios?

Just curious how common this is for women vs. men. For guys, it seems they often are picturing hot girls they've known or seen recently for their masturbation fantasies. For me, I've never gotten off on thinking about specific guys when I masturbate, I get more off on picturing random situations/scenarios that turn me on like threesomes, or picture situations that happened in erotica I've read. Even when I've liked a guy or been in a relationship with a guy, I cannot fantasize about that person when I masturbate... I'm married and I love my husband, we have a fantastic sex life and he turns me on in so many ways... but for solo masturbation, if I don't have p*rn in front of me, I revert to making up fantasies about random situations and I tend not to think about my husband. So how about you - do you picture yourself with guys you know or do you make up scenarios or scenes with random made up people for your masturbation fantasies?
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  • I don't remember what I used to think last time I was in serious relationship because it's been a while but now I am flying solo in both senses so I think of real guys I know who turn me on. It has to be a guy I know to do the trick. Lately it's been this guy I met and we were really attracted to each other but I didn't do it because it wasn't appropriate so I think of how badly I want him and everything he'd do to me and also my last encounter with him (we didn't "hook up" though the mind is key to feeling turned on, especially for a woman ;) ..I find that thinking about it with concentration turns me on more than actually touching myself. The mind is very orgasmic lol.

  • I think of people I know and am attracted to. And the few occasions I do watch p*rnography, I prefer when the man looks most like the man I am currently interested in. It may be weird and awkward, but since I get off more over a guy's personality and sense of humor, visualizing a stranger I've never interacted with doesn't work for me.

    I REALLY want to know what men say about this question; I hear they usually masturbate to women they've had sex with.

    • I think I used up my question quotient for the next few hours, but yes, that's my impression for what men think about - that or any hot women they may know. But go ahead and ask that one as I can't pose another question for a little while.

    • Done

    • Yeah! I'm not attracted to the pretty boys, at least not for MB.

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  • I watch p*rn when I masturbate. I prefer amateur and hardcore, but more than often, it's amateur for me.

    The sounds(of both people) turn me on...I'm not very creative and don't have a wild imagination:/

    Specifically, I like the scenes when the girl is riding...but that has nothing to do with it lol

    • Thanks for the reply... have you ever had to masturbate without p*rn? If so, did you use people you knew or celebrities for your fantasy or did you make up stuff... or just picture things you'd seen in p*rn? I need sound in p*rn too, I hate when it doesn't have sound, or when the guys doesn't make enough noise :)

    • There HAVE been times when I haven't used p*rn or pictures and I did fantasize about a person. My goodness, this guy has the body of a GOD. He's tall(like 6'3), toned, lean, very defined slight muscles(because he's a fb player) and just gorgeous. I imagined him going down on me...and I have to say, that IS one orgasm I can remember, cause it was last year in January lol Amazingggg He was someone I knew :P All in my head

    • Haha, thanks - and I could understand that if he has the body you describe ;)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • When I was 16 or 17 I would masturbate to random girls I would see that day either at school or out in public. I would make a mental picture and go at it. Now that I have a girlfriend I still think of her but watching p*rn makes it much easier.

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  • I have regular fav scenarios but interchange partners.

  • All of the above.

  • I think of my crush at the time

    I sometimes think of Jason Voorhees too

    • WTF, Jason? You must love horrors. Do you get turned on by Freddy Kruger too?

    • Hell no, Freddy Kruger is ugly. Jason is hot piece of ass though, I wanna screw him until the sun goes down.

  • specific men. crushes to be more specific