Girls would you mind if you got asked to shave down there?

[spartom]

OK I was gonna finger my girlfriend for the first time the other day (check out my other question for full story) and its her first time too and I felt down there and could feel all the hair and it was not a turn off or anything for sure but I wondered about one day cos she told me she wanted to give me a bj if I wanted to give back that way would she mind if I asked her to shave it or something cos I don't mind the feel or look it's just I don't wanna have hair in my mouth. Also, its the first time she will be giving a bj. Should I shave my pubes?

[redheadbabygirl]

I wouldn’t be offended AT ALL.

Not currently in a relationship, but when I was, I absolutely LOVED doing sexy little things for my boyfriend! Such as shaving down there, wearing clothes he liked, doing my hair how he liked it, etc. It was really fun. Not only is communication in a relationship key, it makes things more fun for both of you as well!

The only time we girls get offended is if guys ask us to change or complain about our “unchangeables.” Not speaking for myself, but for some girls it’s weight, boob size, height, lips, w/e they don’t like about themselves but they happen to be stuck with. You don’t want to say…”ohhh….if only you had a meatier butt….” to a flat-butt girlfriend for example lol. (sry for a poor example, just the first thing that I thought of lol)

But I’m sure you’re a great boyfriend and have already figured that one out : ).

Should you shave? It’s advisable. You don’t want to gross her out her first time, and if she prefers hair, you can always grow it out. Don’t be scared to ask her about it, if you feel comfortable enough to do that at this point. Otherwise, surprise her! : )

I hope this was helpful!

~Katie~

[spartom]

Thanks, I think I will ask her after I finger her or she gives me a bj and say it will be easier if I ever go down on her. I will just trim myself with some scissors lol thanks

[sensru]

Well I can understand you worry about the hair in your mouth, that's not fun.

But I also think it's great that you asked if you should do it too. Shows that you're not selfish and are being really thoughtful.

The answer is yes, the fact that she hasn't shaved may mean she's probably comfortable the way she is. It's not comfortable for every girl to shave down there, it's sensitive and can cause irritation etc. So you're asking her to do alot.

Besides that however, if you wouldn't find hair in your mouth that great, then I don't think she would either, so it's the reasonable thing to shave if you're going to ask her to. When you bring it up with her, mention that you are willing to shave too. And that will make her not feel so apprehensive bout it.

Best of luck. =]

[spartom]

Might ask next time, she text me today saying she will give me a bj next time we get really into it (making out) and I said don't make arrangements for stuff like that, if it happens it happens (I don't want her to feel pressured into it like she has said she will so now she has to) Gonna ask her to trim and that I will too so if we ever do oral on each other its easier lol

[Celiene]

okay I wouldn't ask her to do it I might just suggest it to her or mention that your going to and tell her that it feels a lot better when your shaven, well it does for me anyway. I get more sensitive when I'm shaven.

i' glad your thinkin of her in the means of should you shave ur pubes. you don't necessari;y hav 2 shave it all off but just clip around it so the hair is quite short. get in close to ur dick so there are no longish hairs at all there is no worse feeelin the going down on a guy or a girl when they are all hairy, well that's my opinion anyway

each to there own

[spartom]

OK thanks lol good answer and I will probably just ask, we can just say anything, that's what's so great about this especially after today lol don't ask but yeah after today we can say anything

[LaidBackTraveler]

Now I'm gonna have nightmares of accidentally cutting my dick off. hahaha

[spartom]

What do you shave with a knife or somethin?! lol OW!! D: I have only ever cut myself shaving once, and it was bad but it was cos I was rushin to get to work lol! and yeah with razor, you can't get cut if you use an electric shaver ;)

[Raven42]

Interesting question. It isn't bad to ask her to shave because I think pubic hair is disgusting. If she takes it the wrong way just tell her you want to pleasure her too and it isn't fun to be facefirst in a wad of pubes. You shouldn't shave your pubes entirely because it looks kinda weird and you'll get ingrowns which look kinda like herpes which is a turn off. Just get an electric razor and clean it up make them short and manageable so when she gives you head she's not stopping to pull pubes out of her mouth. Women should shave though, constantly because not only does it look nicer and it shows some care for the guy but its more sanitary and clean.

[ItalianMystery]

No its not ad to ask I would say more to suggest. I would talk to her and tell you how you feel let her know your not trying to be rude or that its not that you don't like it. ya know? and then I would groom yours up too. you can shave or trim it. its good that you are thinking about her in this matter to (grooming yourself) Best thing to do is communicate. Good Luck!

[ggazelles]

Don't shave, just trim. Shaving will itch and feel stubbly when it grows back. What you should do is suggest that both of you guys trim for each other so that you won't have to deal with the hair the first time. That way it will be something that you're doing for each other instead of something you're just making her do.

[UnicornLoveChild]

I think that it is probably a good thing for most people to shave down there. I wouldn't get offended if a guy asked me to.

I think in the future, everyone will shave down there. It's just easier and a lot less gross looking.

[jaycee777]

you don't need to shave, although some prefer with both sexes.by the way you would not be going down to go for the hair, you do part the ways as such :). its personal choice, you should ask your girlfriend how she feels about that and vice a versa. open up the communication highway.

[kay-lo]

wouldn't be offended.

I think it more of a courtesy thing. Although some girls are scared to shave down there. But if its some thing she not use to then she might get a little offended. If you feel like maybe she's upset by your request, ask to maybe help her shave, may be a little more intimate. Depending on how comfortable you are!

[missjazzy]

no its not bad to ask her to shave it. and yes you shud shave ur pubes because if you dnt like hair in ur mouth then its possibly that she won't either!hahaha

[Anonymous]

no I like feedback but I already do shave down there so.

[Anonymous]

if you ask her to do it, you should do it too.

this is kind of sad really. you could just ask her to trim them, I don't think you should get her to shave or wax all of it off if she hasn't before, or its her first time. I notice you're under 18, so I wonder if the majority of the vaginas you've been exposed to are the completely shaved ones from porn.

If you expect her to shave, you have to shave as well.

its not about it being her first time its about it being principle.

[spartom]

I have never done anything and neither has she. I don't mind the hair its just I want to go down on her one time and don't want to get hair in my mouth too much cos if I stop to like take hair out she might think I am not enjoying it at all.