Does it ever make you uncomfortable to notice your partner getting aroused during sex scenes on TV?

[Anonymous]

This one is more for girls noticing guys as it's hard to tell when a girl is aroused, plus there's more scenes on TV or in movies that are sexually stimulating to guys than girls (IMO, they don't show naked men in general so it's kind of tough except for if I see a hot guy's butt or something). My boyfriend always starts getting shifty, suddenly puts his leg up in the air, if I was laying with my head on his lap, he has to move me, and/or he'll stick his hand down his pants to adjust himself. This pretty much happens during absolutely any scene with boobs... kinda makes me uncomfortable, especially as I'd never noticed other guys I've dated have to readjust themselves for every single sex scene.

[Anonymous]

L...M...A...O!

Yes, if a certain actress is on screen, a guy can hardly help it. The actress doesn't have to be naked.

Yes, if a certain actor is on screen, a girl can hardly help it. The actor doesn't have to be naked.

Um. I'd advise you to stop putting your head on his lap while you're watching a movie. Cuddle into his shoulder or something.

Every guy reacts to certain stimuli a little differently. From what you're describing, your guy is easily excited. Just try to keep things in perspective -- it's just a movie, after all. If he starts adJusting himself when he's looking at live people around you, then start worrying...

[Arctic_Fox]

That would be so uncomfortable! I would really hate that! I thought it was bad enough that I notice my bf’s breathing change at nudity or sex scenes!
And yeah, they’re always focus for guys and never girls! It’s so wrong, always objectifying women for mans pleasure and never doing that with men for women! 😂😂

[cun7n1nja]

Naw, doesn't really bother me. My dude doesn't like pop a boner or anything, but he'll show his appreciation with a sarcastic remark like, 'That girl's legs are DISGUSTING!' hahah. In which case he obviously means the opposite of disgusting. =P It doesn't bother me too much, I think it's funny.

[selfishstars]

No, it doesn't make me uncomfortable.

[queenofpeen]

Haha nah, he's only human.

[Tentacle_Therapist]

What? No, not at all. The thought of my partner getting aroused is not uncomfortable at all, it's hot. :)

[Asker]

I guess because 1)He's getting aroused by another woman in front of me, which I understand is natural and realistic, but kind of uncomfortable for me and 2) it's this unspoken thing he has to hide... he's not open about being aroused by things like that. For instance, it's hard for him to admit liking p*rn even though I am open that I watch it. I tried watching p*rn with him and it seemed to freak him out as he doesn't like to see other men in p*rn, only solo women, which is not interesting to m

[Tentacle_Therapist]

Hmm I guess that's true, about him feeling that he needs to hide that from you. But you say you find the idea of him getting aroused by other women to be troubling, so what choice does he have but to hide? You've created a kind of catch-22 with your feelings. :(

[Asker]

I think it's mostly that it's literally like every time anything remotely sexual happens... just surprises me he could be that 'sprung'. I love sex, need an orgasm once a day, but I don't think I get wet every time I see sex on TV (on the other hand, most TV sex scenes cater to men and not women). Still, I guess I'm wondering if it's typical to be that easily aroused in your 30's for a guy who has sex almost every day or if it means I'm not meeting his needs somehow.

[Tentacle_Therapist]

You should talk to him about it. Communication is good. Don't ever make assumptions like that, it's not healthy.

[Anonymous]

... I think id'd kick him in the ****

that would piss me off