How do I give my boyfriend head?
My boyfriend is coming home from college in a week and he really wants me to give him head, but I haven't had that much experience.
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1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone.
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ----> link
What Guys Said 5
If you really want him to enjoy it, do your best to make it sexy. Don't attack, work your way to it. Use you tongue and apply plenty of pressure. Sucking is a pleasurable sensation from a guys perspective. Use your hand to touch his body in other places while you do it. You can always just ask your guy, if you do it how he says he like its, you know your for sure to please him.
What Girls Said 2
have you ever done it before!? its really not that hard.
suck with lots of pressure.
change your speed
focus on the head!
lick the head in rotation and then go back down
press your tounge with lots of pressure on the shaft & at the base of the head'
use your other hand while giveing head. ex: like jack him off while giving head
suck for a while and then suck on the head and then go uo and down and the suck the shaft slowly and foucs on the head area using more pressure
he may not beup for this part, but try stickn your finger in his anus. not to far just up to the first crease of your skin and dont do it dry!
and your jaw will be sore! lol
I would say just be relaxed. If you stress about it, he'll notice and won't really feel comfortable with you doing it. Just go with the flow really, but if you want, there are websites you can look up. link