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GUYS can you tell when your girl is fake moaning?

Ok so a few days ago I was having sex with this guy he was good but not that good so I faked moaned about half of the time. He's good if he's rough but if he's gentle with me I have to fake it. Any way we were talking a wile ago and he asked me how it was and I was like it was realllly good, y you ask? and he was like just wondering. SO that got me wondering if he could tell if I was faking it. so guys can you tell if and when your girl is fake moaning?
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  • I can definitely tell. Heck, by the time I was 17 I could tell. Women who are enjoying sex will give you a lot of feedback, mostly involuntary. They will shudder, grip the sheets or pillows, flex/arch their backs, pull you in with their legs, kiss you deep and hard, roll their eyes back in their head, etc. Just moaning isn't going to fool me if I'm not picking up on other signs.

    Anyway, I'm very against faking anyway. If it isn't good for you, then your guy should know that what he's doing isn't working for you. He needs to try something different, and you can help him by telling him "you know, I *really* like it when you ____." Be nice and don't crush his ego, but let him know that it isn't working and that you're interested in making things better for both of you.

    By faking, you're telling him that his lousy performance is exactly what you want, so you are the big loser. And if your guy isn't improving, or willing to work at improving, then you should break up with him and find someone who is less selfish or has more skill.

  • Can't tell and don't care.

    Honestly, if she wants to Meryl Streep her way through it, instead of telling me how to actually get her to an orgasm, more fool her.

    I'll just assume she prefers a nice game of let's pretend, to having an actual knee buckling spine trembling orgasm.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Usually they don't seem to notice unless you're a bad actress and instead of a moan it sounds like a dying animal in pain. From personal experiences, unless the guy knows you well and has had history of sleeping with you for awhile then chances are they don't really pay much attention to that. I don't think you should have to fake it though. If he isn't doing something right then tell him what you like.

    • THANKS! ive told him what I like but he says I'm to 'frail' to be rough with so that's y. The only reason I faked it so much last time was because he felt so bad that most of the time it was VERY short and he couldn't last.

  • I've had to fake before too just so he would finish & get off. It's annoying.

    • the only thing that annoyed me with him is that he couldn't last that long with me and he said that he normally can last but with me he can't. Ugg like he's get it in thrust for a min and then he'd be finished b4 I even relized that he was inside me lol

    • annoying when girls fake it.

    • No it's annoying when you want to go to sleep but you have someone on top of you thrusting away

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  • Yes I can tell. Not that I mind, it means she is trying to please me (even though she is pretending to enjoy it more than she is) and that is exciting.

  • Probably not. My wife can't tell when I fake moan to excite her.

    Does your guy only like gentle? I'd suggest you if anything moan even more when he's rough and be silent when gentle

    Unless you tell people what you want, they will infer it from what SEEMS to get you off.

    • He's not with me anymore we split but I would tell him I liked it rough but he always told me I was to 'frail' to be rough with that he would snap me. He was like way bigger than me my head didn't even come up to his shoulder so I guess that's y lol. Him and I didn't have sex that much anyway so he probally didn't know.

    • Bahhhhh. (my wife doesn't like rough. Pains me to hear of girls who want it and don't get it)

  • I cannot make out if the girl is a good Actress :P..

    But other than that we can ..

  • I can tell if a girl fakes an orgasm, there is an actual physical sign when a girl really has one.

  • Not really, unless she's really bad or moaning when there is no friction. But, what's the point of even faking it? Isn't the purpose of have sex (besides procreation), to give each other pleasure and express your love? By faking, your not doing either, your just teaching a young guy bad habits that he will eventually repeat over and over with you thinking "he's making the right movements".

    • well he;s def not young and he brags all the time how he's going to pound me and how he's so good at sex when he's really not that good . he's only been good one time we had sex.

  • im sure most can't tell and really don't care

    • Most can tell and really care.

  • lol if he was going gentle on you you should have told him to get more serious id say its kind of easy to tell if a girl is fake moaning I could tell either from her face expression or ill just ask her if I'm doing her the way she wants me to do her

  • Plain and simple answer: YES, not that it has ever happened to me! lol!

    • LOL cause I thought I was doing a pretty good job of making it look real , I faked it a lot with my ex and he thought he was a 'sex king' lol SO how can you tell your girl is faking ?

    • Well I'm sure that at some point you learn when a girl is faking...if your boyfriend doesn't have much experience maybe that's why he doesn't know...

  • You do realize that you don't give any man an orgasm, right? You are aware that every man reaches climax due to work he's done, correct?

    You've never 'brought a man there' in your life.

    Any time a man makes you feel like it's something you've done, he's stroking your ego.

    Think about that.

    • so bitter...

    • The question is highly offensive. Address that.

  • yes we call tell if a girl is faking it because if we as guy are not doing it right you girl leg won,t shack a little and the same with your body,s and the moooooooo is not as deep so yes we can tell all most ever time.

  • Can you tell if this is a real yawn?

    • reading that made me yawn. :l

    • I'm sorry, are you siding with the faker?

  • Nope.

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