A: practice using an intense form of masturbation, learn to be aware of arousal, when to slow down, and practice relaxing all the muscles around your genitals.
B: if you're actually dating, not just hooking up, tell her. If hooking up, tell her after perhaps. I think if you're dating and she's not experienced she might be flattered the first time, as long as you improve after that.
C: positive thoughts. Don't think about 'not ejaculating'. Think about 'long relaxing and enjoyable sex'. If you think 'don't come don't cum' you'll come in seconds. Focus on the goal, not what you want to avoid.
D: relax relax relax. Breath deep, be in the moment, relax muscles (yeah, I' msaying it again).
Probably no more then 7 or 8 minutes once we got past foreplay and into the sex. You get better with practice and comfort through familiarity. If she more experienced then you my best advice would be to communicate with her. She knows what she likes. Ask. Listen. Learn. Also don't just ram away at her till you climax. Vary your speed, angel, depth, and position constantly. If you feel yourself about to climax stop, pull out, do a minute of oral, then dive back in.
very your angel. because we all have one stored away in our pants.
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just do what my friend did his first time, keep on going after you get off.. His girlfriend after 15 minutes was like "Didn't you say you were a virgin? When are you gonna get off already?" and he was like "Baby, that was 10 minutes ago"
XD Seriously?
Only lasted about 10 seconds until I had an ejaculation!!!
around an hour
Just my personal experience, I get off FAR easier alone than I do with an actual girl. I can have serious problems coming to orgasm when someone else is involved, even when it feels fantastic. So if you're never done anything that far with someone of the opposite gender before, you may be surprised at how long you last.
My girl and I were both virgins till yesterday. I went down on her and ate her out for about an hour. if not longer. I absolutely loved the taste of her puss. She came 3 time. When I put it in I was able to thrust her for 35 minutes before shooting all over her. My girl loved it so much she is already trying to find a day we can do it again.
Like 2 minutes lol don't judge.
Dude I'm not judging, that'll probably be me the first time
haha I know I was mainly saying that to the other guys who might see. Don't worry though if the girls worth your time she will be understanding.
Oh come on guys, smart girls know virgin guys don't last long. It's not a big deal. I'd be perfectly OK with it if a guy lasts 2 mins... Don't worry about it. If the girl doesn't understand then she doesn't deserve to be with you anyways... If she can't understand that you don't want her in your bed :)
Be calm and jack off before you go for sex.
Maybe ask her to wear a bra or a nightie so you don't get too aroused .
Also, do lots of cuddling before you get inside her.
Give her oral sex ... because you won't last long.
Also, think positive (that you may last long).
don't think about lasting long. that's going to f*** you over right there.
I think that would make him last long because the most powerful sex organ is the brain and you need to have confidence before you have sex.
Beat off beforehand, wear a condom and maybe get a little drunk and you'll last as long as you need to. Spend more time working her up BEFORE you get into her and less time letting her suck your c0ck if you're going to f*** her. Also, you could just have her blow you first and then f*** for round 2.
i was really drunk and was wearing a condom so I lasted for ever. it was actually hard for me to finish. again, I was hammered and wearing a condom (which I can never come with now)
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