A lot of drunk men tell me that I am very attractive and a few drunk and sober guys have been interested in sexual relationships with me. However sober men don't tell me I am attractive at all and infact look quite uncomfortable around me. And some men go out of their way not to look at me and to avoid me. Do you think I am only attractive to men when they are drunk and sober men don't like me at all? It seems that way to me. I personally would consider myself pretty but am beginning to question this.
It's possible. It sure sounds that way. We would need to do an experiment. Put you in a room with attractive men, have them rate your sex appeal sober, and then give them shots and see if it changes their opinion. I personally would like to volunteer for this experiment. :p
A sober guy is a lot less likely to throw a compliment around. This doesn't necessarily mean you are hot to sober guys, but it is quite possible that they are just shy without booze. I've definitely had way more drunk guys compliment me. I'm sure every girl has.