Girlfriends parents found out we had sex, what should I tell them?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so during my shift today my girlfriend calls me and tells me that her dad was sitting at her car when she got off of work. she said he knows that we have been locking her little sister out of my girlfriend's room when her parents aren't there. Among some other stuff, anyway, ends up with him knowing that I have fingered his daughter. We have had sex many times, but that's all she told him. He got really mad and was threating kicking her out of his house. So when I got a chance during my shift I called him to tell him that I was sorry for disrespecting him and his wife. Just to try to lessen the heat on my girlfriend. So at first he didn't answer, so I left him a voice mail telling him that. He calls me later telling me he wants to sit down and talk to me. He didn't sound mad at all. I thought he ment tonight so whenever I got off of work I called him back, but he was lying down. So he said that him and his wife will sit down and talk to me tomorrow. I don't mind sitting down and talking to them, I brought this on myself and I have no problem doing whatever I need to, to make things better again. Her whole family loves me, or they did. I'm sure that will change for a while, but I love this girl so I am willing to do anything I have to. Do you guys/girls think that me calling him first and saying that I was sorry for disrespecting him gave me any extra brownie points for tomorrow? What do you think that will say? Or do?

[slipslender]

it definitely did...you're being amazingly pro-active, kudos. very few guys would do what you're doing now. I'm not sure what they'll say or do...but good luck :)

[Asker]

So do you think that I might have saved some of the respect he might have had for me before?

[slipslender]

yup.

[siquetumeamaste]

It sounds like you're acting respectful and apologetic to her parents, so it should be fine :) Good luck

[Asker]

I know it won't be fine because they probably feel like I corrupted their little girl. But both of her parents have talked about us getting married, and both of her parents have told me that they love me before. Actually when, our parents met her dad told my dad "This is the house your son will get married in" So, I don't know what to think about what will happen tomorrow.

[siquetumeamaste]

It sounds like they really like you and agree with big future plans for you two (marriage), and things for now might be a little awkward, but I think after a while her dad will cool off. But maybe find some other place to be alone for a while! :P

[Allix93]

Yeah that was the right thing to do. Keep us updated on what they say and do. How old is your gf?

[Asker]

Yea I should have told that before...She is 18 and I am 21...

[Allix93]

That's cool, my dad would be pretty pissed, but you did a good thing calling and trying to apologize. That should help