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I just had my world shattered to hell.

So yesterday my girlfriend's parents found out we have been fooling around. Her Dad was really pissed, and rightfully so. So I decided that I would call him and tell him sorry for disrespecting him. He told me he wanted to sit down and have a talk with me today. So I do, I go over and talk to her Mom and Dad. This is the part that gets me. I was told by her parents that, she talks to a lot of guys online, and that she shows her body off to them. Along with that, she had her number changed after we had dated for about 4 months. She told me it was because her ex wouldn't leave her alone. Her mom told me today that it was because she was texting/calling some guys from the internet late at night. The showing her body off part happened recently because her mom said that her sister(she is 10) told her that my girlfriend was showing them her tattoo. It's on her back, that doesn't bother me, what does bother is the fact that it would be so simple for her just to move her hand to show her boobs. And the fact that, if she would do that with her little sister sitting there. Who knows what she does when she is by herself in her room. Her parents don't want me to leave her, they said they want me to marry her because they love me, and know that I am a really good guy. They want me to help her. They said that she has always had a problem with wanting too much attention. That they have fought with her about this for some time now. Her dad even told her that he calls her "the internet whore" Which I think is terrible. I have a hard time trusting people to begin with since my last relationship. This is the first girl I have actually dated in 2 years. Meaning I was single for two years before we got together. I love this girl so much. But I feel like I will never be able to trust her again. It took me all this time to completely trust her. I have felt so great the past 3 weeks because I finally trusted her with all of my heart. I felt so close to her. Idk what to do. I don't know if I am over reacting, or if I'm acting right. I haven't talked to her yet, if I talk to her now I will just yell and swear at her. Her dad told me that, "If she finds somone that gives her even a little more attention than you, she will kick your ass to the curb and break your heart." All these things came from her parents. They said they loved me and kissed and hugged me. I don't know what to do or think!
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Do you think I am over reacting? About her showing her tattoo to people on the internet? I mean that's all I know that she has done, everything that I heard just hurts me so bad, and pisses me off.
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  • I don't think her parents are lying about this matter. She's putting herself out there.

    She shows her tattoo off to guys online. Sure, it may sound like it's not a big deal. But honestly, it really is. I bet she's gotten naked for at least one guy.

    This girlfriend of yours is an attention-wh0re. She gets it on the internet, and she also craves it at the workplace. Brian, this dude, that dude. You get what I'm saying. She's a natural flirt and she's drawing all kinds of c0ck. A good girlfriend wouldn't be doing this - she'd keep it casual with all the guys she meets, and she'd keep all the flirting and sexual interest on her boyfriend.

    My next question is - how many sexual partners has she had? I bet she's had quite a few, without you knowing. If not, she's bound to have flings due to her actions. I believe this girl is very sexual, and she'll take opportunities whenever they come. Might as well label her a sl*t, because she sure is acting like one. BIG RED FLAG.

    By the way, going over to her place and doing it when the little sister is around - ARE YOU THAT CRAZY FOR SEX? Yeah, I guess so. Do you have your own apartment to have her come over and spend the night with you? Doesn't sound like it. Get a job, move out and live by yourself, and bring back one girl at a time.

    You're being treated like you have to measure up to the plate to keep her. So now the pressure is on, to stop her from being a sl*t like this. I got news for you - YOU DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS CRAP. Why bother? It's not your fault she's acting like this. She's beautiful, and that's one main reason why you probably 'love' her.

    She's only 18 too, right? I don't think she's ready for a relationship yet.

  • I don't really think she has feelings for you, if she does you need a serious talk with her as her behavior is questionable

    Don't stay with her just because her parents want you to as thatt's stupid

Most Helpful Girls

  • She is 18. Why would you think you have to have a talk with her Dad in the first place? It is highly unethical of hr parents to be talking to you about her private life, her body & her future without her consent.

    SHE IS 18 18 18 1 8 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 1 8 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 18 18

    Even if she was underage, they have no right to talk to you about it. They would have a right to talk ti her. as she is 18, they are overstepping legal boundaries. And again, WHY would you go to chat about sex with an 18 year olds Father & mother. Why were you even thinking you are in trouble? She's legal.

    • I didn't think I was in trouble. It wasn't really that I felt a need to talk to him. I wanted to help take some of the heat off of her. Plus I do love her and her parents, I was trying to make the problem better. As it turns out I have been wasting my time though.

    • Hmm, I still think its odd, that it should have been an issue. she's 18, she can f*** who ever however much she wants. Sorry you're upset -but they should've let her tell you. its Wrong of them. & You. its inappropriate.

    • She never would have told me

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  • I read your first post yesterday and this is certainly a change in events that I didn't forsee. I was thinking a safe sex talk, or saying that you're not allowed over when parents aren't home.

    A few questions:

    1. How old are you and your girlfriend?

    2. Have you talked to your girlfriend about this yet and what has she said?

    3. Does your girlfriend send you nude pictures or has she shown her body to you on webcam?

    • I am 21 and she is 18. I haven't talked to my girlfriend about it yet because I want to do it face to face and she doesn't get off until 8 tonight and I work from 6 to 12 tonight. She used to, but she hasn't since like the first two months that we dated.

    • Well, I would wait to make any decisions until after you hear her side of the story; but of course, it will probably still be difficult to know what to believe. She may come clean and admit to doing more than just showing her tattoo (I don't see anything wrong with showing her tattoo to people, by the way). She may lie and say that she hasn't done anything, or she may tell the truth and really hasn't done any of the things that her parents suspect. The fact that she's sent you nudes or gotten

    • nude on webcam for you does't necessarily mean that she'd be willing to do that for other guys, but it does say that she's not opposed to getting naked on camera (If she was too shy or otherwise against doing it for you, then I would have said that it's probably unlikely that she'd do it for others). Though, I don't think there'd be any reason for her parents to lie about her talking to guys online on the phone late at night. That itself might be reason enough for you to not want to be with

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  • You are not overreacting...But, I am not sure her parents are telling the truth. I have had instances where my Bf's parents lied...big time lied just to break us up..because they were afraid he would get me pregnant..and sadly, I was 19 & he was 23. wtf? anyway, I would confront her about it. Tell her what HER parents told you. OR create a fake account and see if she will get naked for you...

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  • If she is how her parents say she is, she will have no problem leaving you for the next guy. Once she gets bored of you she could either cheat on you or go see who's willing to talk over the internet. When girls start chatting online, it's not to talk about what happened today or what their feeling. They like to chat about what their not wearing...

  • If you love her, you will be able to move on from this. You have talked to her parents, now it is time to talk to her. Be calm, she may respond in anger or tears, but you have to be calm, that may be the hardest and most important part. You need to talk to her about her problem and help her move on from it. It will make your relationship better in the end. Just make sure you do not yell and stay as calm and accepting as possible.

    • her getting mad at me would a really bad idea for her.

    • What is that supposed to mean? I'm just saying when people are confronted, their autoreaction is to deny and get angry, and as her boyfriend, you should try to stay as calm as possible and help her though it.

  • Dude, that situation sounds like complete sh!t. Do what you want, but if it were me I'd dump her @ss faster than you could blink an eye.

  • First of all, her parents are trying to help but they are kind of meddling in your guy's relationship which is both you and gf's business not theirs. Secondly if you want to break up with her that is your decision and you are totally in your rights to do so. If you don't want to break up with her that is also your decision. Neither one is right or wrong, because it's really up to you to decide what feels right... Hope you follow your heart on this one

  • Too early to get married just for that. That bitch ought to get her issues sorted before she dates you. Come on, you're better than that!

  • well maybe her parents are lying to you so you would stop liking her therefore tslking to her

    sdk her all that .. don't depened on her parents ralk nor on what her sis saw, she might b lying to .. she's only 10

    • Well how the hell am I suppose to know the truth? If she denies it, I mean, I won't know what to think.

    • well I have an idea, it might be bad tho add her from a fake email and ask her to get naked or whatever .. and watch the truth.. but well is she like a trust worthy person? have she ever lied before ?

    • i agree. great idea.

  • Yikes! Sounds like a bad situation. How often are you having sex with her now? Sounds like you need to keep up or she'll ship you out.

    • Thats the thing now, I can't go over without her parents being there...I would sneak over no problem but her father's parents live right next door. We have been f***ing 3 or 4 times a week. About twice a day. I always make her come twice before I do. If I even get to at all...

    • Well if you can't get over there anymore, what do you think she's going to do? When they're saying she wants "attention" what do you think that means? She's not looking for someone to listen to how her day has been. Methinks she's looking for a VERY SPECIFIC kind of attention.

    • I don't think that they were talking about that kind of attention. They still think that she is a virgin, and they only think that I have fingered her a few times.

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