Why did his balls hurt?

My boyfriend and I made out recently at my place after which he headed back home. After he reached his house which is like 15mins away he tells me that his balls are paining badly. He is my first boyfriend and I don't have any idea why it is happening. He said he'd drink lots of water and will leave "them" free ( as in not put on his underwear ) that night so as to ease the pain.

Why did his balls hurt ?

And what has water got to do with easing the pain down there ?


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  • He was horny from making out and needed to have an orgasm to relieve the tension and calm himself down. Lots of guys say it hurts to get really turned on and then not have an orgasm and they call it blue balls. I myself personally have never felt physical pain from getting turned on and not having an orgasm but I admit it's very frustrating and I feel anxious and can't stop thinking about sex until I have an orgasm if that happens.

    • This is blue balls ^

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    • I guess you could call it blue balls but it doesn't hurt like a lot of guys say it does, it's mostly like a mental thing that just won't go away until I have an orgasm.

    • Oh..so you mean to say this "pain" is individualistic and not the same for every guy out there ?

What Guys Said 10

  • Well, when a man is completely aroused but doesn't ejaculate, he starts feeling pain in his testicles during and after he loses his erection. A slang for this is "blue balls". (here's a link to the Urbandictionary definitions for "blue balls")

    • Ok..Thanks for the link..

  • Probably the most concise AND plain (non-medical terms) description I have found. It DOES vary from guy to guy... but, I can say it has happened to me and it does hurt quite a bit.


    • Haha..

      Thanks for your link.. but hey does water help in such situations ?

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    • water played no part in my particular case. I mean... it's good for you anyway, so never a bad idea... but I don't think it would do anything to relieve that. either you cum, or just wait it out.

    • Oh OK .

  • Definitely blue balls. This happens when a guy is extremely excited, and then stops without having an orgasm. Pretty common among men, I had it once or twice, but not more than that. :)

    • So did you have to drink water to reduce the pain ? I'm still baffled about the water part..does it help to drink water when you have it?

  • That's probably blue balls. He'll know what to do.

  • blue balls

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What Girls Said 4

  • Its called "blue balls" and happens when a guy is aroused but doesn't get to the point of ejaculation.

  • Prob blue balls..

  • I think it was blue balls

  • you turned him on without sex