I'm falling for a guy online, sex chat... HELP what do I do?

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sounds odd I know, but sometimes I cybersex chat and this one guy I have started talking to on skype just for fun... we've been talking for a month now almost everyday and it's usually sex related, but we also chat about life, what we do in our day, our likes etc. I've seen him and am very attracted to him, but I'm also starting to have feelings. possibly it's just infatuation or confusing lust with like? He's educated, funny, sweet when he talks to me, and has similar interests. I told him today we may have to stop since I have feelings and he said he likes playing and chatting with me, so would rather not and then asked if it was such a bad thing that I like him. He obviously doesn't feel the same way, but also isn't alarmed that I like him. Why is that? Should I end it? He said he doesn't want me to do it if it makes me unhappy, but he rather I not stop talking to him. He talks about making love to me, but that's all sex talk. And when I tell him how sexy I find him he asks me why like he doesn't believe me and thinks I tell all the guys that. He calls me baby and cutie a lot

shelbiperry · Accepted Answer

I think your getting lust and love mixed up or mixing them together maybe crushing and lust. But I think love is very powerful and very truly rare and if you never met him I don't think its love.

Guys talk like that to get you to like them and want them more, they know how to attract women. If it's going to hurt you to know that he won't ever want a relatinship from you then id stop talking to him. But if not, then don't stop, have as much fun as possible.

Shreya123 · Accepted Answer

At times chatting on the internet is fun, but if you are faraway then it is not that worthwhile, if you are close then meet to know if things are for real, I did have my share of fun with guys I met on MeetOutside. com, but it was mostly on my mobile for adult chat and all so it all depends.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's not odd. I had a huge crush on one of my online sex chat buddies.  If you are falling hard then I suggest you break it off but if it is more of a crush then ride it out, it will pass and you will have fun at the same time.

NothingGoldCanStay · Accepted Answer

Just from personal experience don't take anything on the internet to seriously, it is easy to lie. It is hard to know if someone is genuine. I guess you could take a chance of meeting him but it seems all he would want is sex so well go for it if you want but don't be mad when he tries to unzip you cause I told you so.

immortalsoul · Accepted Answer

I suggest you please stop it here .. Or else you should just talk and nothing more .. You may do it today but will repent it later in life .. So its better to just talk if it makes you happy ..

CuriousEddie · Answer

Why do you think he doesn't have any feelings for you, other than sexual ones?  What's different about the things he says than what you say?

RedThread78 · Answer

Hmmm I think you could get schoolgirl crushes on people online but that is most likely all it will ever be.. I mean unless you meet but then people usually only show a certain side of themselves online. I guess it all depends...