Small breasted girls-- do you find it hard to feel sexy?

[Anonymous]

Even though most guys (I hope) don't judge on breast size alone, it's evident that most of them would prefer a girl with larger breasts given the choice. I am a small breasted, A cup girl. On top of that I am skinny with almost not curves and a flat butt. That's just how my body naturally is. I find it hard to feel sexy because sexy girls are supposed to have large breasts, round bottoms, and curves. Even when I dress up my best I still feel like there's something lacking because my body is too skinny to be desirable. Are there any other girls with a similar body who feel this way? Any girls with a similar body who found a way to make themselves feel sexy?

[clichequeen]

Girl, I know exactly how you feel. I'm the same way -- I find it hard to feel sexy in many types of clothing and whenever I date or hook up with a guy I always feel like I'm majorly disappointing them. It f***s with my self-esteem to no end (as I'm sure it does yours), but just know that you're not alone. I've noticed that guys seemed to pay more attention to me when I was at my most confident and didn't care about body type. Now that I've been fixating on it, I seem to project this, like, negative insecure energy that seems to be a turnoff. Confidence (even if it's fake confidence at first) seems to be key for us petite girls.

Still looking for a way to make myself feel sexy (it's hella hard, I know), but just know that you're not alone and you're probably gorgeous and have nothing to worry about. There are guys out there for petite girls like us, it just may take a little more searching to find them.

[Anonymous]

Sexy is not a body type. It's a state of mind, an ere of confidence about you.

I'm a 34A (but I have a butt, hips and thighs) and I have no problems feeling sexy in the right outfit or the right Victoria's Secret bra and panties, whatever. :)

I know girls with that body type similar to yours, and I find thin to be beautiful. I could never wear outfits and pull them off like these girls can...

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My point is, you have no reason to be self-conscious about having small breasts and a slender body type. You're beautiful just as you are.

[Domaday]

Think about beautiful women like Kira Knightly A-cup Claire Danes A- cup, Sandra Bullock A-cup, Meagan Fox B-cup Olivia wild, A-cup. Hollywood's got the whole woman sexy thing wrapped up in a Barbie suit sweetie. All of these beautiful actresses were asked to wear stuffies for effect.

If the women of Hollywood were allowed to be their own selves you would feel like one sexy doll face.

Watch the movie Domino with Kira knightly. I'm a B cup and it took me 15 years to let myself feel sexy. Don't hate your body. It will love you back so good! ...Your body is hot especially if you feel like it is.

[Phoenix1991]

Its not the breasts that matter, its the face and how they carry themselves determines how they are sexy to me. So don't let media or anyone tell you different, my best friend actually prefers girls with small breasts. ( he has some sort of a cute or small fetish on females) Well whatever works for him, Your still as beautiful as the next girl, Keep your chin up and look yourself in the mirror naked and tell yourself your beautiful and an attractive woman. ( I tried that tactic it started to open my eyes and begin to appreciate my body, I hope it works for you too) =)

[WoIIie]

You might not feel sexy, but at least you aren't constantly battling with obesity either.

There are guys who LOVE petite girls. Some people have called the girls I like "fat" but I personally don't see them that way.

As for you, just don't try to be "sexy". Don't try to show off goodies that you just don't have. Embrace your petite body, be adorable. Be the girl who is so cute you make a grown man blush. That's your niche, so build on it.

[malekoniky]

Most of them might. I hate big boobs.

If you are going to feel bad about that all the time. You won't be confident and good company. And you are not going to get a good man.

Stop worrying. You'll get a good guy who will find you very sexy maybe just because you have small breast. Or he just wouldn't mind.

Get comfortable with yourself. And peace within. There is nothing as sexy as that :)

[tohrment]

I agree with Enchanted, being sexy is about confidence and how you present yourself. NOT breast size. I'm a DD and I rarely feel sexy - so boobs don't cut it. I've seen plenty of petite girls who are complete bombshells because of the way they carry themselves. Just learn to be confident in your own skin and people will see the sexiness that you have ;)

[sourpatchchik2]

Nope not at all.(:

I didn't "find a way" I'm just confident in my body. I know that doesn't help much but it is what it is.

[SuRpRiZeD]

a lot of victoria secret models don't have big asses or big t*ts, I'd still f*** them

[taster]

I prefer small breasts, I like skinny & I don't care about curves...so...was there a problem?

[Minimelhj]

i don't know lol I guess you just find ways its really hard though cause most gys do like big boobs and guys can be asses like that I was talking to one of my guy friends and he wasn't listening to me and he said id listen to you if you where a double d and I was like a**hole ha ha lol

no but you will find you own thing that makes you feel good everyone is different

[skinnyriblover1]

Forget the other girls.

Wear tight clothes, show off your skinny body and guys will come...with that you'll realize how sexy a petite skinny body is!

[Anonymous]

yeah I feel like my small boobs make me just feel like breaking down and crying because I don't feel sexy enough. =(

[Anonymous]

You're still growing. Give you boobs a chance to come in.

[Opinion Owner]

Really? We're going to disagree that a girl who's under 18 still has growing t!ts? You people are f***tards.

[skinnyriblover1]

Ur a d***. Why even comment that?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe because she's still growing and her boobs are too? Jackass.

[Asker]

why do you think I'm under 18? I'm in my 20s. and I'm pretty sure my boobs aren't still growing.

[Opinion Owner]

Probably because when you first posted it said under 18? I don't know, but that's why I asked. I've known girls who continue to develop into their early 20s. Don't sweat it, I'm sure you look gret.

[Anonymous]

get over it you can't change it

[IncubusFan]

Nah, you can get breast implants hun.

[Opinion Owner]

most people wouldn't go that far so