Why are some of the best looking men homosexuals?

[Anonymous]

Straight men you could really take some hints from these gay guys. They put effort into their appearance, and I'm not just talking about the flamboyant extremely feminine ones either. I'm not saying all straight guys are ugly slobs, but you do notice a difference in attractiveness in the average young gay man vs. the average straight man. Why is that? Straight guys, can you please get like these gay guys and start working on your looks too? As much as some women love to lie and say "looks don't matter", just know that we love and appreciate eye candy and it could really improve your success rate with girls.

[Anonymous]

Why are majority of girls/women so incredibly picky? I mean you women should take some hints yourself. The good guy is a good guy and will always stay a good guy, but the bad guy that you want to change so badly into the good guy, always goes back to the bad. I mean, some women put effort into the good guy, but most just want the bad. They want to be chased, they want us to read their minds, they need a challenge. I'm not saying that all women are picky fickle bitches, but I am saying most are. You do notice that girls with confidence are more attractive than girls who get all skanky to go to bars to fulfill some kind of attention that they never got growing up. I mean that is just the average early 20's girl there. Immature girls, can you please be more like mature women and start working on your outlooks and attitudes? I mean just as much as men like to say that you are a dime a dozen, you really are. Except men are at an advantage because good guys are very hard to find. Have fun with your gay arm candy and outlook on how men should be, I am positive you're not a "10".

[Asker]

Sooo I take it you're one of the "less attractive" straight guys I was talking about..

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely not. I am in shape, I have good teeth, my clothes are always cleaned and pressed nicely. I am just saying that you made a very general comment and stereotyped. Kinda sounds like you need to do some growing up.

[Asker]

I need to grow up because I have preferences on what I find attractive? Get over yourself. BTW glad you have good hygiene and take care of your body, I hope you have decent style and good hair as well.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks, I have absolutely no problem getting girls. Good luck in your search!

[Asker]

then stop complaining and ranting. if you have no problem getting girls why did you make that crybaby answer? if you can get girls why you mad?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not? I just think that a lot of you need to be taken down a few pegs. I have a friend who thinks she's the hottest thing alive and can just walk all over guys, and that's not the case at all. You all need to get down off the pedestal.

[Asker]

she probably thinks she's so hot because she's gotten positive feedback. probably thinks she can walk all over guys because its worked in the past. some guys ARE ridiculously easy to manipulate especially if you're pretty, so why be mad at her? that's their fault for letting her do it. why should I or any girl be taken down a peg when its these boys who let us run over them?

[kheserthorpe]

Obviously there are exceptions, but there;s some truth to this.

If women put out as fast and reliably as gay men do for in an shape well dressed guy, straight men would do it.

Yeah, you can now tell me that some gay men move slow and some girls are sluts, but there's some truth to that too :p

[Asker]

this is true. but the really in shape, well dressed hot guys get ass like clockwork. the stereotypical frat boys, douches, guidos, thugs..the ones that guys say are the "jerks that get all the girls" are usually the in shape well dressed guys.

[kheserthorpe]

Perhaps, but I think straight guy 'like clockwork' and gay guy 'like clockwork' is comparing the hour hand to the minute hand, knowwhatimean?

[Randomzzgirl]

Wow, what a load of crap. I have met gay guys that are slobs and straight guys that are absolutely gorgeous. Please stop stereotyping, you really didn't need to say that gay guys where better you could have just said that you want guys to make more of an effort, comparing never gets you anywhere :/

[Asker]

Oh please, guys do this sh*t all the time. Either way, whatever gets the slobs motivated is fine with me. If a little compare and constrast does the trick then the ends justifies the means. by the way I agree there are some great looking straight guys but unfortunately they're not in the majority, most guys seem fine settling on looking average or sloppy

[Randomzzgirl]

It depends on the guys, that's not the case with me but that's because I go to a snobby ass school where prada looks cheap so it's hard to find slobs there lol but yea you're right about guys pulling this kinda stuff on us. I'm just sayin that comparing just seems to make the guys angry

[Anonymous]

I think it's because guys care more about appearance, so gay guys will get no where looking the way most straight men do. Unfortunately, straight women all over the world would appreciate if straight guys DID take the hint and work as hard as we (and gay men ) do. It's unfair really.

[Asker]

I totally agree. as much as some of them complain about how picky women are for not wanting "good guys", they'd find if they improved their appearances, women would be more likely to pick them because we find them attractive

[goflipaburger]

Thats not true :/ I really disagree. I know plenty of gay guys who don't fit this category, and I know many straight men who do.

Let's not generalize.

[MrScTi]

Who would downvote such a cute little doggie?

[goflipaburger]

RIGHT!? Ugh, it's sooooooooooo cuuuuuuutttttttttttteeeee

[Asker]

maybe they're cat people?

[goflipaburger]

D:! Fair enough hahaha

[rest11]

They tend to take better care of their appearance, where as most strait dudes dont. I like my scruff and ripped jeans. dirty boots/converse. whatever but from what I know of homosexuals they like to take better care of themselves, where I'm just a little lazy haha

[AdamBH]

its because they are so good looking they just have to get with each other XP

[AdamBH]

@update, thumbs up XD

[Habakkuk]

i'm straight and I beg to differ

[TrickyNickn]

Most girls I know wouldn't want to date an effeminate guy who spends more time working on their apperance than they do.

[Asker]

Okay yeah, I agree there is a balance. not into effeminate guys but a guy should take care of his appearance and try to look as good as he can. I should have specified I meant the gay guys who still look masculine but put effort into their look

[TrickyNickn]

Well straight guys are not really into fashion and shopping, they just wear what's comfortable for them.

[Asker]

that's a problem. not saying you have to sit at front rows in fashion shows lol but try to be on trend. go shopping at least once a month, pick up a few items and see what's on trend and what's out. why complain about girls overlooking them if they aren't doing what it takes to appeal to us anyway?

[TrickyNickn]

lol that's like asking a gay guy to watch football every Sunday. and besides, I wouldn't be interested in a girl who only likes me for what I'm wearing.

[Asker]

Girls do it and we don't complain. If I were giving a girl advice, I'd tell her to wear cute girlie or sexy clothes instead of baggy tshirts and blue jeans and beat up tennis shoes. We diet, do our hair, etc. Why is it that guys can accept that looks matter for women but are repelled at the thought it might matter for them too?

[TrickyNickn]

I think people should just be themselves and wear what they like instead of trying to please superficial morons.

[Ezmotts]

Most gay people I've met are pretty damn ugly. You're watching too many movies.

[cyrus7]

They looked at you and turned gay? I don't know lol

[Asker]

yeah that's exactly what happened lolololol

[cyrus7]

:) good thing you're anonymous, I'm really not into dudes

[cyrus7]

im jking by the way relax lol

[Asker]

*gets in touch with her zen*

[Anonymous]

I take good care of my body and I care about what I wear.

The good: I notice a lot more girls and older women hurting their necks as I walk by.

The bad: Some of my closer friends, girls included, think I might be gay...

Conclusion - Don't worry about pleasing everyone because in the end you'll never win.

[Anonymous]

I happen to put a lot of effort into my appearance, thank you very much. I usually won't even leave the house until I've done my whole routine:

- Swap my glasses for contacts.

- Shower.

- Do my hair.

- Trim goatee/scruff (if I need to).

- Moisturizer/acne stuff.

- Brush my teeth/floss/etc.

- Dress nice (usually some kind of button-up).

- Put on deodorant.

- Put on cologne.

- Dentyne Ice/chapstick in my left pocket.

- Out the door.

None of that really matters though since girls don't ay attention either way :(

[Anonymous]

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[Asker]

oooh I must have touched a nerve!

[Opinion Owner]

No, compassion's are not constructive criticism. This whole post is a generalization, I put plenty of effort into my looks without making people think I'm metro sexual. Assertive men get girls. Beauty is subjective. I won't change myself, hobbies or the way I dress for anyone but myself.

[Anonymous]

I really don't care enough what women think to spend the time to shave/wax, style my hair, and match my clothes. I care if I'm fat or not but that's about it. If women didn't cave in to what the media and their girlfriends say they should look like and went all natural us guys would be forced to like it just like you ladies are forced to like us men in our natural state.

Now go out and find yourself a metrosexual lol.

[Asker]

Are you gay? If you're attracted to women and want to get with women you SHOULD care what women think, it would probably help you get girls. I'm not saying a guy should be completely metro but some of you look slobby and disgusting. That should not happen

[Opinion Owner]

I'm attracted to women but that doesn't mean I'm going to spend hours in the morning transforming myself into something I'm not. If you can't handle it find a guy that is willing to do that, they're out there and they're called metrosexuals. I can picture you and your future boyfriend fighting over the mirror now lol.

[Asker]

a couple hrs in the gym, stylish clothes, white teeth, good skin and you're good to go. am I asking you guys to pluck your brows, go tanning and eat salads all day? no. still look like a man but don't look average either

[Opinion Owner]

I'm in shape from lifting heavy metal parts all day (I build robotic machines for a living) so I don't need to go to a dirty smelly gym, I wear my style and don't care what's popular, I brush my teeth and my skin is rough manly skin with scars from doing stunts, working, and wrestling with my friends. If that isn't good enough for any women out there then I'm happier being single.

[Asker]

ok cool

[Anonymous]

Even though you asked nicely, no, I will not be taking style tips from our homosexual brethren. You'll just have to deal with it.

[Asker]

Don't you want more women to be attracted to you?

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not changing myself to appease even more of the opposite gender. Not to sound arrogant, but I don't struggle to get women. I don't see a point. I am who I am. If someone thinks I don't meet their requirements, that's okay. No sweat off my brow

[Asker]

cool

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not butt hurt if that's what you were thinking. I was just answering a part of your question. Also, I don't think the guys that complain about not getting girls on this site aren't getting them based on the way they are dressed. It is because they completely lack confidence. You can feel the low self-esteem when you read some of their questions or answers. What do you consider stylish anyway?