What does it mean when a guy says he has plenty of condoms? and other stuff...

[Anonymous]

Ok so I'm a virgin but I was just teasing a friend. My guy friend texted me and asked me to hang out at the movies. I asked him if he wanted to f*ck but I put jk in the text, I guess he got excited and he said sh*t I can't say no and hell yeah and stuff like that. Why would he say stuff like that if were just friends? Then just incase something does happen I asked if he had condoms and he said of course and (plenty). LOL what does he mean by that I thought you only needed one condom for sex. Then he kept telling me how he had his house free all night lol I'm so naive HELP ME!

[Contrarian]

You seem to be testing the waters and probably think this guy might be the one to get you out of your childhood virginity. Guys will stick it in anything they can, so don't be flattered. On your side of things, is it public knowledge you're trying to end your virginity? Parents, friends, neighbors, teachers, God? If you believe no one should know about what you do in privacy, and don't think God does, or don't care if He does or doesn't, there could be a more important problem of living life godless. Think about the miracle of your reproductive system and your responsibilities to your future family and your ability to respond to your new husband, other than an over experienced, blase' slut. Wanting to grow up is natural, but still a childish notion. Condoms are among the worst ways to be anything close to 100% safe, being slightly more effective than a guy timing it, to pull out of your vagina just seconds from his ejaculation, by the way, even pre ejaculate, that starts before penetration most of the time, can carry more than enough sperm to make you pregnant. So you might as well be prepared and buy a pregnancy test while you're at it and pray that God closes His eyes.

One more thing, and this is something more and more, in our country, wish to ignore. Men should step up to many responsibilities they should possess for women and pretending to have no control over their libido is simply a lie and a way to deny personal responsibility. It makes it your fault for being "sooo sexy", as if. On the other side of the coin, women reap what they sow. Keep sexing up every guy on earth by the way you dress, act, speak, the entertainment you enjoy and then forget anyone should take it seriously and we will be left with no morality. It has already happened, so party hardy and forget worrying about pregnancy, STDs, pedophilia, whoredom, p*rn, lost nuclear families and Church influenced communities. Today, many young girls believe they must perform like p*rn stars, just to please some thoughtless, filthy guy and to what end? His pleasure in exchange for family values?

[Contrarian]

Dress modestly, act responsibly, be offended by low morals, praise God and PROTECT YOUR VIRGINITY TO THE BITTER END !

[l-hedoniste]

When a guy has a lot of condoms, it means he doesn't want to get anyone pregnant or catch anyone's disease. It's a reasonable way to live, I think, it's why I buy them in bulk. (At 20 cents per, not stocking up is just plain foolish.)

[missxbrightside]

Don't talk so seriously about sex with someone who's a friend if you wouldn't f***. And if he says he has plenty of condoms it means he is thinking that you plan on having sex with him. Don't be a tease and talk about stuff like that if you don't plan on following through :/

[diamond3]

he would need more then one condom so he could come multiple times.. not rocket science sweetie.. I don't think you are ready for sex

[Phoenix52]

You asked for it.

[TurbulentDan12]

He's prepared or posing as someone who has lots of sex. Either way he's trying to have sex with you. If you don't want to have sex with him just say no and don't go with him to his house.

[Anonymous]

Don't joke about sex with boys. They get really, really, really angry. They can tease about sex all they want, but if you do ... they pout.