Should A Drunken Mistake Be Forgiven?

Girls and guys if your partner got drunk and had sex with someone But after they said it was a mistake due to the alcohol Could you believe that and would you take him/her back Have you ever been involved in something like that
Yes, they should be forgiven
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  • No, being drunk is no excuse, and I would leave immediately. There is NO legitimate excuse for cheating. The pure and simple fact is that you don't respect or care for your partner enough to stay faithful. Selfish desires take higher priority than your relationship, and I don't want a partner who doesn't respect me enough to hold my feelings and our relationship above his momentary desire to f.uck some random bitch. If you have no trust, you have nothing. If it was that easy for it to happen once, I'm sure as f.uck not sticking around and taking the chance that it'll be just as easy or easier the next time he's got a few beers in him and some girl catches his eye anytime I'm not in the vicinity. I shouldn't have to babysit, I should be able to trust him to have fun with his friends when I'm not around.

    Don't get into situations where you'd be tempted if you know you have trouble controlling your impulses when you drink. Or ya know, don't drink.

  • I don't think people can use being drunk as an excuse to do bad things. If someone knows they end up in trouble when they drink, use some restraint and don't drink. It's pretty simple to me. I know I have friends who do that all the time, and then they come to me and say "I don't know what to dooooo!" And I'm like, well stop drinking then? How hard is that to realize. Why do the thing that creates the problems? If they know they are affected that way by alcohol, then its time to stop drinking. You can have fun without alcohol. There are lots of other things they can do at the party, drink pop or juice or water and have a good time just chatting with people and meeting new friends. You will remember more that way anyway :P

  • Maybe I'd "forgive" them, but I wouldn't stay with them. Alcohol isn't an excuse, it doesn't take away your deep convictions. If someone cheats while drunk, then being faithful must not be one of those deep convictions for them. And I don't want to date someone I can't trust.

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  • I've done my fair share of mistakes under the influence of alcohol. Random hitting on girls, get into fights for no good reason, total lack of respect for everyone else you get the picture. Once I lost a friend because of one of those situations and since then I never got drunk the way I used to.

    When I look back at the situation I don't blame him and I would have probably done the same if he did what I did to him... so to answer your question, drunken mistakes should not be forgiven... I mean, if you're an inexperienced drinker and you never get that drunk again maybe you deserve to be forgiven but only if that is the situation

  • drunk or not drunk it doesn't matter ... there's no drunken mistake in my eyes ... you accept making mistakes when you're still sober and not drunk yet ... imagine when you're with a hot girl and you two are drinking with no limit, if you'll sleep with her after some more shots so you'll have no right to say " it wasn't cheating it was a drunken mistake "

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  • Being drunk is not a free pass to do whatever you want without consequences. Having sex with someone else isn't just "a mistake". Losing your keys while drunk is a mistake. Forgetting to pick up toilet paper is a mistake. Those can and have been forgiven, but having sex with someone else and blaming the alcohol? Yeah right. Either own up to your own actions and take some responsibility, or don't drink in the first place if you're so untrustworthy with it.

  • All mistakes should be forgiven.

    • Drunk or sober.

  • Nope I'd dump them on the spot.

  • They chose to drunk, the consequences that happened while drunk are still theirs

  • It's very easy to blame the alcohol but I don't think whether someone is either going to cheat or not is dependent on alcohol. I honestly don’t know if I could forgive a partner who has cheated I think that this is a question that you can't really answer until you find yourself in the situation but I don't think the fact they were drunk would make me inclined to be more forgiving. .

  • no I wouldn't forgive them. being drunk is not a free pass to do whatever the hell you want.

  • no, only and idiot would forgive a cheater

  • nope. being drunk isn't an excuse for being a d***