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Women, why do you agree to anal?

I realize you want to please a man, & many males would like to have anal sex. But do you realize that anal sex has all sorts of negative side effects? You can get STDs from anal sex even if you & your partner do not have STDs because of the bacteria from the butt. You can also rip or ruin your rectrum, which can cause serious issues, one being having to wear a diaper because you can't control your feces. And not to mention most women don't even enjoy anal sex, it's just the male that get's enjoyment out of it. Why should women have to submit to putting ourselves at risk of infections & damaging our anus just so a man can have a few minutse of pleasure. Especialy when the man can just have sex with us vaginally, which is generally pleasureable for both genders.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well I would only do it in a serious relationship and we were both clean

    (i've heard unprotected anal is worse than vaginal as it is more prone to tearing and mixing of fluids this way

    I'd probably use a condom anyway to not get sh*t on my d*** so it'd stop the speading, I wouldn't be stupid and stick it in another whole afterwards

    A douche would get rid of a lot bacteria jyst sayin'

    Most problems with anal are because there is no lubricant which cause it to tear

    The rectum wouldn't be damaged as I wouldn't just stick it in, I'd make sure she is relaxed and start from a finger to a toy to my d*** which is average

    And it wouldn't be a common thing and do it like once a month

    So I don't forsee any problems if it's done like this

    And besides, do you really know of any gay men or p*rn stars who engage in anal regularly have had serious rectal problems and have had to wear a diaper, diseases aside which the instructions above cover

    I'm not going to go into guys and girls pleasure but I think it can be safe

  • i think your getting the roles mixed up here. women are the instigators here, and want men to jam it up their buttholes. they force men to do this disgusting act. its all womens fault.

    lol just kidding but lady your over simplifying things, its not a black and white thing, just like most sexual things

Most Helpful Girls

  • You are absolutely right. I am in the medical field and there is a lot of bacteria back there so you can easily get a disease or infection doing anal. It also causes damage to the tissues in your rectum which can cause cancer and many other health problems. Its common sense that God gave us an ass for withdrawals only. If a guy wants to put his penis in a sh*t hole then go ahead cause its nasty. I have read enough comments to know that some women do enjoy anal but just because something feels good, doesn't mean that you should do it if you know that its unhealthy. Your just increasing the chances of getting a STD and causing damage to your rectum.

    • Thank you so much

    • Wifey and I had tons of anal sex, she loved it and nobody ever got hurt. Oh, by the way, your ass is cleaner than your mouth, you aren't a doctor, you count pills... get out of here.

    • Shaun you beast

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  • I wouldn't personally have it because there is risk. The other day I was on youtube & I saw a video that had Sasha Grey on the Tyra Bank's show & they were talking anal sex. Dr. Drew was there, & he told Sasha, that at the rate she was going, she would be wearing a diaper at the age of 30. I decided to post a question on here because I couldn't find much info on google, & someone provided a great answer, which talked about the risks of anal sex. I don't have an issue with anyone else doing it, but I've chosen not to do it myself.

    • Thanks

    • Alright people, what's up with the vote downs... LOL, J/K, I couldn't care less

  • I like it and do get sexual pleasure off of it. Even full orgasms. Yes you can get STI's but that is a possibility anytime the man is not wrapped up even if it goes in the girl's mouth. Have safe sex and do it if you enjoy it.

    You shouldn't be against anal sex and trying to inform girls of its dangers. You should inform them of the dangers of unsafe sex.

    The biggest issue here is that the anus and vagina have very different pH balances. If you're gonna use one hole, re-wrap it for the other.

    • That's good for you, but I do think many women submit themselves to anal just to please men. And I don't think many of women understand there are risks involved, & mean look at some of these answers. I've got guys arguing with me that you can't get STI's from anal, & some guy up there is throwing a fit & I can't even understand what he is going on about. People just seem uneducated about this top.

    • True but men also subject themselves to oral when not all men like it. I understand doing something to please your partner as long as you are informed on the subject. As I said the issue here is people having ignorant sex, not people having anal sex. I don't mean to offend you but to be honest in the question you came off as bashing anal sex. So some of the guys are probably upset over that fact.

    • If you watch a girls face as her colon is being filled with semen -- right at that moment -- you realize it is all B. S. Anal is actually superior to vag -- if the guy does it right -- and makes sure she orgasms either first or right along with him. The rest is just education and clearing emotional hurdles. But as far as pleasure? Come on man!

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  • vaginally holds the same risk and yet women say yes to that when (cliche) men like it more. oh wait they do anal for the same reason: its pleasureable! and they want to!

  • She hates how It feels intensely
    She loves how much it turns me on that I am not gentle and like her disliking it she begs me to cummin her because she likes feeling used and slutty and I’d never came in a girls ass and she never had anal so it was a first I could leave owning and her as well

  • im on board with u. there is no point to the situation. that's an exit only

    • You are board with the truth, what is up with you idiots?

    • She agrees with you and you call her an idiot. hahaha

    • so mean

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  • You are one and the same as a male Anon and you spend most of your time fearmongering about anal sex. What the hell is wrong with you?

    • lol

    • What are you talking about? I'm just trying to inform women that anal sex is dangerous. Women generally don't get pleasure out of it, like males do, so it's pointless as far as they are concerned. Why use the anus, if you are having sex with a woman, when you have a vagina available? It is different when it two men, they don't have a vagina to use, & the males enjoy being entered, unlike women, through their anus. I think you misunderstood my question.

    • LOL. If you go down to the creek today you're in for a big surprise

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  • So that's why you do it properly and on rare ocasions ;)

  • Because they enjoy it. Simple as that.

    I thought you must have been a big fan of it considering how far your head seems to shoved up your own ass.

    • I didn't realize trying to spread awareness about the dangers of anal sex meant my head was up my own anus... I'm trying to help you women, why do you feel the need to argue with me?

    • Because you asked a QUESTION. You asked why women 'agree' to anal. I answered you question for you - because they enjoy it. If you just wanted to make a statement, then write an article.

  • I'm just not into it right now.

  • u can't get a std if your partner doesn't have one. your full of sh*t. done reading after that one. go back to school

    • Oh, yes you can. Looks like you need some sexual education.

    • okay

    • Actually, you can get STIs from anal sex, even if neither partners have STIs. I read about it on an education site, but I can't find it at the moment, so I can't provide you a link.

  • Cause its awesome

    • what what in the butt...

    • To my mind, a girl's colon is a natural sperm bank. You make a deep deposit, and it stays put.

  • im pretty sure all that applies to vaginal sex too. and how do you know anal sex it's pleasurable if CLEARLY you've never had it? and you cannot speak for all women because I know some that do enjoy anal sex

  • i smell a troll nearby!

    believe it or not lady, some women DO enjoy anal sex purely for their own satisfaction.

  • Some girls enjoy it and if it's done carefully it doesn't hurt or do damage

    • Some girls -- like Anonymous aged 30-35?

  • I totally agree with you girl. I've never tried it and never intend to. People are so stupid and will continue to do it. I throw my hands up and say eh whatever. Let them find out the hard way. Let them keep doing stupid anal. People will always do stupid things despite the warnings and then cry when it all goes wrong. So let the idiots find out for themselves. They won't get any sympathy from me.

  • I enjoy anal more than regular sex. And it's true what someone else said, the only way to get an infection is putting the penis in the vagina after anal sex without washing it.

    I do it cause I like it, not for my bf.

    • I get that you like it, but there are many risks that come from anal sex. Read the best answer, she gave some great information.

    • This is the real truth. Anal can always be superior to regular for both -- provided there is education, communication, and skill. But don't try to go at it all at once. It is a gradual process of discovery. All the other stuff is just societal and emotional hang ups. But as far as the anus, rectum and colon of a woman? Wow. So much pleasure at every level. Your ass can do things you never dreamed of. First off, there is a fist-sized muscle in there that can actually suck and milk a dik like a mouth. Second, with practice, you can shoot a butt plug halfway across the room -- and an enema all the way across. There is no END to what a girls ass can do.

  • I think this is a great question, & I'm happy a woman finally had the balls to say this. Women constantly lower themselves to make men happy, & it's about time we stopped doing that.

  • People make their own decisions. Just because you have a bleeding anus and got AIDS doesn't mean others will.

    • Funny. I've never even had sex, so you can shove your ploy for an insult up your anus. Also, it's real easy for males to encourage anal sex when they are the ones getting the pleasure out of it. You guys don't care that we don't like anal, that it hurts us, & that if we weren't so nice, we wouldn't have wanted to do it in the first place. I'm trying to encourage women to do what is best for them, & say no to the anal.

    • I'm sure gay men DO exist. Ignant beotch.

    • women only do if if they want to, its their choice to say yes just as much as it is your choice to say no. women (all people) do what's best for them anyways, which is why I'm surpirsed you haven't slit your wrist open yet

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  • I agree with you

    • Thank you

  • I won't do anything for any guy no matter how much I am in love with him, that would cause me discomfort. Anal feels amazing, if you are into it. If not then don't do it. Anal sex cannot cause an STI if neither partner has one. What you are thinking of is a non STI infection when the man pulls his penis out of the anus and puts it in the vagina. I never do that, unless he washes thoroughly first. The tears you talk about are only caused when the female is not into it and the guy does not know that he has to take it slow at first to loosen the rectum. Anal sex is not to be entered lightly but can be incredibly enjoyable for both parties if they are both willing.

    • That's not true about the STIs. Many people get infections from anal if they don't use condoms, even if both partners did not have an STD before hand. Search google, I know you'll find it.

    • "A VENOMOUS SNAKE BIT ME, IF YOU DON'T SUCK THE VENOM FROM MY ASS WITHIN A MINUTE I'LL DIE!" "EEEEWWWWWW get the f*** out of here." "Can you at least call an ambulance?" "Ugh, but my phones in my bag, I'm too tired to go and get it"

    • Infection yes but not an STI. There is a difference, an STI is an infection that one partner has and passes it to the next parnter. It's like Bacteria Vaginosis, intercourse can cause it because the mans seman is more acidic then the woman's vagina causing a bacteria that every woman has present in her to become over grown, hence an infection but it is not transmitted from one partner to the other so does not make it an STI.

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  • Simple, they like it.

    • Did you read my details, I explained that more often than not women don't actually enjoy anal. It is men who get pleasure out of it, & women are just submitting themselves to it for the male's sake.

    • Did you read my answer? They like it.

    • your answer is wrong

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