Difference between just sex and sex with someone you love?

[starbucksaddict14]

For girls I know there is a difference between just sex and having sex with someone you love. Hell, I've felt the difference. I was wondering if it was the same for guys. For a guy who has sex with a lot of girls and views sex as "just sex", what is the difference between having random sex and having sex with someone you're in love with?

[Johno]

Sex with people you meet on the street or anywhere else for that matter is just sex.

Sex with people I love is not just SEX its something far more than that! Even the women I've loved in the past! You never forget...

Now thisof course is not the same for all men starbucksaddict14! I know loads of men who see it all as the same. I have one guy that works for me who truly believes that sex is JUST sex with anyone! and I mean anyone.

I once bumped into an old school friend and she told me that this is the difference between a guy you go out with or a guy you'd MARRY...

Makes sense doesn't it when put like that...

Regards,

Paul

[dudeman]

just like there are girls you marry and girls you date

[TwistedLogic]

I've answered a similar question on here before.

Sex :: A biological and physiological urge.

Just sex :: A social function that we slake our lusts (sexual urges) in.

Sex with someone you love (AKA Making love) :: The physical translation of your love towards that person.

:)

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

well sex and love are two different things and to me sex is just sex , considering I've never been in love. Its easier I don't feel emotionally attached it feels good and I don't feel bad about it. Now the thought of making love sounds not so fun to me considering all of the cheesy annoying stuff you hear on the movies. To me its just shut up and move boy

[Misty_04]

If it's just sex it's good, fun even but maybe in a few hours or even days I'm going to feel empty or not myself. Sex with someone I care about is different, I pour more of myself into it.

[Vasillilaw]

To me guys I've been with are just numbers...except for the one I love. He'll never be a statistic and I hope he feels the same way.

[FlightAuror2]

I've been with two gals, one I loved and one I didn't, and I can easily assure you that I felt a huge difference... Thus I can't do NSA... It just doesn't do it for me.

[DrLover]

Sex, with someone you love is so much better, the intimacy level is huge so you are both in tune with each other and will pleasure each other in ways that are not present in a one night stand, or a casual sex situation. With out love generaly, people just don't care as much about the other persons satisfaction

[dudeman]

sex with a girl you don't love is just sex I don't even find it fun anymore sex with emotion involved is on a whole new level, I can't even maintain an erection for a girl I don't love I'm just bored with it and feels stupid

[Blaxican619]

Sex with someone you love is way more intimate and sensual. Plain sex is just for pleasure period.