Slow and Sensual or Rough and Hardcore? (ladies)

OK I got a good one. This question is more general based as the situation will change things. But I wanted to know what kind of sex do you enjoy? Do you enjoy the kind of sex that makes the headboard rattle or is the kind sex you would expect from "The Notebook" your cup of tea? Does it matter who you are with? One night stand vs 3yr relationship. A mix of the two- whatever the circumstances. Just curious.

 

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  • It really all depends. While in a relationship, a mix of the two would be nice depending on the mood. My ex never would go for the rough and hardcore so that part of our relationship kind of sucked. It was hard for me to get him to do ANYTHING out of the ordinary sweet lovemaking. It was nice, but still it lacked that animalistic lust you sometimes need. A few months after we broke up, I met this guy and we slept together twice. It was purely about the sex and it was a mixture of the two. At first it was slow and sensual, then rough and hardcore, then back to slow and sensual, with a good rough ending. The second time it was rough with a little sensual thrown in here and there. Now, I've only been with two guys, my ex and this other guy. I'd still say the other guy beats out my ex in that department any day. He can do both, while my ex couldn't. When my ex calls, I get annoyed, when this other guy calls, I get excited. Lol. Hope that answers your question =)

What Girls Said 6

  • First of all, did you see the scene in the Notebook where they first have sex? When Ryan Gosling has her up against the wall?Jesus... If I so much as meant a man that good looking with that much passion I'd freaking rip my clothes off like they were on fire and would never put them back on. That sex scene gets me hot just thinking about it... Maybe you mean sex like 'Meet Joe Black' sex instead of 'Notebook' sex. I vote Notebook sex in that case. For a one time deal...rough and exciting would be my choice... Long term better be mixed up though cause I have a short attention span. Not saying I'd ditch him cause he wasn't keeping my attention in bed (at least not at first) but mixing things up means you have a connection and want to keep it going.

  • Rough.

  • :o) I like it rough

  • In LTR, I would like to have my cup of tea and switch tempo to hardcore and head board rattles if not more, I like change of rhythm, makes me entertained.

  • Probably 50 percent of the time I like the in between, not putting a hole through the headboard with my head but not "notebook" sex either. About 45 percent of the time please put my head through the headboard, pull my hair and spank me. I am like this after spending the day fantasizing, after talking dirty, or when we are in a room full of a million people and we undress each other all night with our eyes. Also if we go two or more days without it then rock my world baby!Every once in a while when I have had a bad day, when I am emotional, or when I am feeling extremely close to my man (more so than normal) I want him to slip in and out slow while he kisses me.

  • It definitely goes with who your with and how long as well, For me, depends on my mood, if I just got home from a night out with the girls, I may feel pretty kinky for rough headboard sex but if its just a night home with my guy and we just watched the notebook, well I guess its notebook sex then!.:)

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