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Does my husband secretly like my butthole? (weird question I know)

well he's always joking about buttholes and kidding around about them and I know he's joking and we both laugh but sometimes I think he overdoes it. last night me and him got drunk and we were laying in bed together. he was asking me if I could feel him touching me since I was so drunk and almost passed out and I could barely feel him. then he touched my butthole and started laughing. then he stuck his whole finger in there and he did it about 5 times. he's never done that before. I'm starting to wonder if he likes my butthole? like wtf
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Looks like intoxication makes him sexually experimental.

    And there's other subtext that may not make this a bad thing. If he's anything like me, that means he loves you. I have a fascination for kinky things with the partners I've fallen in love with. Without being in love with a particular girl I can feel repulsed by a thought, only later to be compelled by the thought after I've fallen in love with her. (Three times in my life and I'm >35, so it's not something I do too often.)

    • he's in love with me a lot and he's never done anal before

    • In your case, it may just be the alcohol getting him over that barrier. (My view...) Doing anal (penis-->anus) is more sexual experimentation than a kinky love fascination. Putting fingers in there is closer to a kinky love overture, and a rim job (tongue-->anus) is much more love related because it puts him in the inferior position. Though this is just my feelings about it. Some guys are just freaks and will do that to nearly any gal.

  • some guys have never expiereinced doing anal before so its like a new frontierre to them . they may have even heard buddies talk about how their girlfriends or wives may like it and just curious about it

Most Helpful Girls

  • It isn't uncommon for both men and women to enjoy anal play (either giving, receiving, or both). My guess is that he's probably curious about trying it with you, but is too shy to ask you or is worried that you won't be interested in trying it.

  • Yes, I'm sure he does.. its extremely common for people to like other people a**holes.. Not my thing but its a huge hit.. Post a Q about it you will see.. he is not at all unique..

  • My husband loves mine, I guess yours loves your ass. Most guys do don't they. Have you done analnyet?

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  • my partner and i play with each others butt.
    we don't put anything inside.
    but we rub it from the outside a lot.

  • LOL I think he probably does. Are you against it? If not, you could really make his day...

  • No. He loves your butthole. He watches it do this with each thrust in doggy:

    * O * O * O

    If you had a penis, you'd see the attraction. It is almost saying -- come hither.

  • God, I love these question titles.

  • AHHH...Ya.

  • LOL of course he does. He wouldn't stick his fingers in their if it didn't turn him on

  • its nothing a secret nor a sin

    even I like my girls butt hole but I never got a chance to feel her butt hole

    but I dream of licking her butt hole dear

    few times I felt her bums but not her ass hole

  • Ummmm...Hello? I guess guys could be more mature about it, but ya. If he jokes that much about it, he is sending you a message. And why would he touch it if he did not like it? Read up, lube up, and prepare for a hole new relationship. Learn from the Anal Advisor at www.puckerup.com. Tristan is so good about giving her take on the hole anal thing. She is smart and funny and very helpful. Good luck!

  • I don't think it's a secret anymore...

  • I swear laughed my arse off when I seen this question. I don't even think I should dignify this question with an answer. lmfao.

  • hahahhhahahahahaahaahahahahahahahhahahhahaaha

  • Of course he likes it. I think he is a bit shy to be really open about it and do it without the nervous humor. Let him enjoy it if you can also enjoy it or tolerate it. Give him the limits of what he can or cannot do with your butthole(lol)

  • Could be. I love buttholes. Lol.

  • sounds like he does like it, a lot. Ask him if he would lick it for you

  • He probably does, many men find female buttholes extremely attractive. You should ask your husband.

    I mean, it's tight, and it's the center of the butt, what's not to like?

  • He totally loves your butthole, let him keep experimenting with it and you will have yourself a really happy man!

  • Hot.

    • I'm wondering if maybe he wants you to try it on him ha ha "monkey see monkey do"

  • Yes, he likes your butthole. Don't let him give you anal though, there are sorts of side effects tot hat.

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