Is it wrong that I am avoiding telling my boyfriend that I'm waiting until marriage to have sex ?
So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks, we are both virgins but I know for a fact that he dose not plan to wait until marriage, but I am. He has not said anything to me directly that he wants me to have sex with him, but we have started to go farther as we are making out, not super far, but starting to dabble in second base. I'm afraid to tell him because I know he will leave, and I hope that maybe if we have been going out for a while when he finds out, he might stay. I know some people will say that if he loved me he would stay. And I believe that, but I want to make sure that he is really committed and really loves me before I tell him. As far as he knows we are taking things slow, but I know a lot of teenage guys expect once they get a girlfriend, they will get laid. So /I already know he may leave, and a lot of guys won't stay with someone staying a virgin, but my question is, is it wrong that I am trying to delay as much as possible telling him that I want to wait until I am married. If you were a guy, and you found this out far a long in a relationship, how would you feel? Girls, if you were in my place how would you tackle it, regardless if you agree with me or not or if you are waiting, how would you deal? Please help me, I feel bad but I'm not ready to give him up just yet.
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