How do I get a guy to touch my boobs?

I've been with this guy for like 10 months and we make out all the time and he'll put his hands through my hair and rub my back but I want him to go lower. and I don't want to verbally tell him that. and I don't want to put his hand there either. how do I get the message across that I want his to go for my boobs?
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  • Geez, if you've been together for 10 months & he hasn't tried by now, I doubt that he will. Have you two spoken about sex? Maybe he doesn't believe in sex before marriage? You should ask him. You need to know, don't you think?

    If he says that he isn't waiting, then he might be gay. You could find out for sure by just putting his hands on your breasts while you are making out. If he removes them, I think you'll know.

    He may be wondering why you haven't touched his penis yet. Ever thought about that? Or maybe you have, I don't know.

    Sometimes you have to either talk about it or do it. Or it just isn't going to happen. Get it?

    At your age, if you can't talk about it, you shouldn't be doing it.

    • LOL! Debi, how much do you charge for Sex Ed? :D

    • Well, do you have insurance or medicaid? lol

    • Alas..I am on SD's Risk Pool!

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  • The easiest way is to put his hands there while you are making out. Then you are not making eye contact when you make your move & you are getting what you want. You can also spray whip cream on your breast & other places & tell him to lick it off. What you should really do is communicate with him, if you can have sex with a guy, you should be able to talk to him. You could say in his ear during foreplay, "I love when you tuoch my breast, it feels so good." That might get the point across to him. I don't know hwy some guys don't just grab their girl's boobs during foreplay, but maybe he needs some lessons on pleasing you. Find fun ways to show him what you like, you might enjoy it.

  • well, I guess, if he puts his hands on your stomach or waist, just move his had up a little at a time until he gets it. he might be trying to be slow about it, or something, afraid you won't like it. but you are old enough that you should be comfortable talking about your feelings and stuff with a guy.

    • so how would I move his hand without being too noticeable?

    • just put yours on his and slide a little bit upwards.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Touch his d***. If you do that it will (hopefully) be pretty clear to him that you want more, so he won't be worried about touching your boobs or other parts of your body anymore. Basically just be more aggressive to show him you are OK with going further. Or, like others have said, just put his hands where you want them, it may seem like a big deal to you right now but after the first time it won't be at all and you'll be glad you did. I was a lot like this with my girlfriend at first (worried about going to far, which it sounds like he is unless he's gay) so if you have any more questions just comment on this response. Good luck.

  • I'm sure if you suggested it in any way he'd go for it. I understand you don't want to literally tell him, but you just might if he doesn't get the hint. He may think that you'd be angry if he did that because I'm sure there are many girls who would.

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  • If you don't want to tell him and you don't want to move his hand there, then there isn't really much you can do. You'll just have to get over your embarrassment and do one or the other.

  • Wear something low cut and push them against him while you're making out. Look at them and look at him. Smile and giggle.

  • move your boobs to where his hands are..

    • =D Great Answer!

    • well if you jut keep wiggling u'll hit the jack pot at some pint, id imagine.. ;) Or rather.. "If the mountain will not come to Mahomet, Mahomet must go to the mountain."

    • Great solution! More than one way to get a boob squeezed!

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  • 10 months! He's way more patient than me.

  • You don't want to tell him verbally, and you don't want to tell him nonverbally. That leaves psychic powers and voodoo curses. Good luck.

  • how old is this guy?

  • take boys hand.

    place hand on boob.

    second base! success!

    • You said it before I could :P

    • lol well you still have a great mind for thinking it up!

    • A winner is you! I've always thought it was super-hot when my girl took my hand and put it on her girl-parts. One simple action is worth a thousand words at least. I still have trouble wrapping my mind around guys who aren't ANXIOUS to get to the boobs on their own, though.

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  • Maybe be more touchy and feely with him

    touch his chest and do things you haven't done so he knows you want to advance thing's up a bit

  • is he gay?

  • Cant give advice to a person who's not willing to take it. What's so hard about speaking up about it to him, or placing his hand against your breast when making out ...

  • you are 25 to 29 and ten months has gone by. If he has not touched you anywhere then I am not sure if he ever will. Are you both wanting to stay celibate?

  • Touch his dick and tell him to touch your boobs

  • This fellow has severe performance anxiety. I say inch you hand toward his package and see what his reaction is.

  • Girl don't wear a bra and make it noticeable. If he doesn't respond to that then...well he doesn't like boobies.

  • Tell him! Duh tell him what you want and how!