How to give a better blowjob to a "well-endowed" boyfriend?

I know any question even slightly related to penis size makes people on here flip sh*t, so try to focus on the issue, please :P I seriously can't open my mouth wide enough to fit more than 2-3 inches of his penis in there. Deepthroating was something I really enjoyed doing for my ex, and now I can't give my current boyfriend the same treatment... :/ Just to clarify, the issue is his girth and my small mouth, not his length and my gag reflex. I have no problem with length during blowjobs. Am I just going to have to get over it and keep using my hand so much when I go down on him? Or is there another solution that I'm just not thinking of?
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  • you know I don't get it with people who get upset at questions like these, can we literally get over ourselves? Everyone is different, physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. So what the hell is up with people bashing at other people because they might be better at something then the next. I don't get it, I'm not insecure about my body to the point ill be upset at everyone else who doesn't share the same problems as myself..Oh well. back to your Question though, ummm if its hard for you to get some of him in your mouth then its best to just make do with that. go to your limit and just move as fast as you can and try to apply as much tongue as well. Use the tongue and swirl it around the head and then go back to original motion. Mix it up so he doesn't get used to it, trust me, its better if he's not used to a routine. good luck tho =)

    • Yeah, I don't get how someone would see this as bragging when I'm clearly not happy with the situation and want help. Anyway, thank you so much :)

    • lol np.

  • That first 2-3 inches is what's most important, so it's no big deal at all. But I'm guessing you want to despite how good it already is. Like eithyy said, there's not much you can do.

    If you want to get that sense of accomplishment from deepthroating, try going down on him when he's not fully hard. If you start when he has a semi-boner, you'd probably be able to fit more in your mouth, even though it'll only be for a minute.

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  • I don't know that there's really much you can do. The wider girth is going to be more uncomfortable no matter what, since you can't magically make your mouth bigger, y'know? Instead try licking or sucking the sides more than you normally would. Focus on the head, especially the frenulum. That sort of thing should keep it interesting.

    • Thanks :) That's what I've been doing. It's not like he minds the lack of deepthroat, it's just something I wish I could do. Oh well.

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  • Check out Jack's Blowjob Lessons for some ideas.

  • all you can do is practice..thats it

  • man I'm glad I'm not endowed, I love deepthroat way too much

    • Haha seriously. +1 for having perspective.

  • we get it, your boyfriend is endowed

    • Thanks for your wonderful help, asshat.

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