Labia minora size?

I know there are different Labia sizes... some are relatively large - look stretchy and hanging- and others are really unnoticeable - they are not hanging and are inside surrounding the opening. What do you think about women who has it large/small? which one do you prefer? and what do you think about them? I have heard that some women who have it large go through surgery to cut them short.... why? is it bad looking if it is sticking outside?

Women and men, I want to hear your opinion... thank you.


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  • Large. Bigger the better. I have had all sizes and shapes in my 40 years. Personally, I prefer those that are puffy with a good "angle of the dangle". My wife's are average (a slight disappointment when I first got a good look, but her beautiful naturally elongated nipples made up for it! ), and by average, I mean the minora protrude slightly past the majora about 5 to 8 millimeters. Also, when aroused, they engorge and fatten up a little and naturally begin to protrude a little more (up to a centimeter or so total) and are easier to suck on (which is great for both of us). I often try to get them bigger by sucking, pulling and tugging (gently and with love, of course! ), and they do elongate somewhat, but unfortunately, they always go back to their original size. I cruise the large labia fetish sites now and then and get my thrills there, but overall, I am very happy with my wife's and would never trade her in for a bigger "meaty taco". Besides, as I mentioned earlier, her nipples beat ANYONE's hands down. They naturally are about 25millimeters long and as big around as a dime. That is not including her aureolas (aureolai? ), which are nice too. They are sometimes (depending on temperature and/or arousal level) as large as 3. 5 inches across. We have been married for 7 years as of the 10th and honestly, when I first got to see her nipples sans bra, I thought. This may be the one. Just kidding, I knew she was "the one" after we had spent the last 3 years getting to know each other as best friends, but her nipples pushed me over the edge. The deal sealer was her oral talent. I have never had a bad bj. All bj's are good and they should be more liberally handed out, but of course, some are better than others, and she is (by FAR! ) the best. Before her, there were about 30 others who awarded me for good behavior and NONE could compare - I even had one that could deep-throat my 7 and have enough room left over to slurp a nut in and out, but the technique was not good. Before me, she had bestowed the honor upon only 2 others, so it didn't come from practice. She learned through watching good instructional porn and reading good instructional sex technique books. Ahhhh, but I digress. Back to the labia. Yes. Big is better. When my wife gave birth to our first son (she brought a beautiful daughter to our marriage from a previous relationship), while pushing during delivery, I got very aroused because of the size and swelling of her vulva and labia. Of course, when the baby's head was crowning, I lost the arousal and started falling in love with my baby, but before that, I almost asked the nurse to "give us a minute". Just kidding, but it was a nice sight to look at and I can still vividly picture the memory. Women who are upset about large labia and want to get surgical reductions, should only do so if they are PHYSICALLY uncomfortable. If you are mentally uncomfortable, then find yourself a man (plenty out there) who worship big!

    • I thoroughly enjoyed reading this are hysterical!!!

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What Guys Said 32

  • Funny you asked... I have never ever really noticed the difference in sizes of the labias, so I guess from my perspective, I don't give a damn about that...

  • I would say I like it shorter, but I have met guys who said they liked it larger. Like sexwiseman I never paid attention to it or gave a damn (I still don't really, truth be told) until a woman pointed it out to me. I don't know about surgery though, I think there are natural exercises that women can do to enhance tightness, called Kegel exercises (google or wikipedia it)

    • Just for clarification, the size of the labia minora have nothing to do with how tight the vagina is. Kegel only works on the muscles inside the vagina, not the skin outside of it.

  • I prefer the larger ones that stick outside, however the best sex I ever had was with a girl who has small ones but the reason the sex was so good had nothing to do with the size of her pussy lips or the size of her breasts.

    It is sad that some women go through surgery to cut them off (if you want to see just how horrifying this is then watch "The Perfect Vagina"; a free online documentary).

    It is NOT bad looking if they hang outside, in fact that is what most pussies look like when a woman is aroused. It is perfectly normal.

  • Hi, misses janelov

    well everyone has their own perferences, but I thinks is a bad thing, that women that do have it large do labiaplasty, which I don't get. for breast, you enhance it, for vaginal lips, you reduce. why is it that it has to be like that, because maybe when they look at magazines or the media or even nude magazine they don't see it, well I know playboy will not feature a woman with big ones, and of course,that discrimination but anywhoo, let me tell you what I think! because I'm a lover of the cooch! not because the small size, because of the larger labia minora. I just think, they are beautiful, it enhances penetration for me, now they have a lot of misconception for women and men, I'm not sure why women don't know, but from my experience most women don't know their own body, especially downstairs. having a large, or spongy.or thin longs ones versus the small ones or non existent ones, I thought before I did my research, that it had to do, with more sexual activity and as you get older, it gets longer or bigger. wrong! When a woman goes thru her puberty stage starting as early as 11 or 12, their body changes. and the changes occur with the pubic hair and the increase in the breast area and vaginal lips inner and outer! now, most women are undeveloped, but most women don't know and men, so they misconcept the idea of how a woman should be, its either developed meaning, large lips,thin , long or spongy or not, and that's what a woman will have until she dies, it doesn't shrink or get better unless you play with it, and for most women, the ones that are active sexually and explore found ways to enlargen it, but first you got to have a certain size to enlargen it, if you have tiny to non existent, your chance to increase the size is slim! so, here is the catch. for men, that love to go down, they love the bigger ones, the ones that dont, like the small ones, because, they don't like giving anyways, and there are the small tiny percentage, that really don't care. soo the critics will be if they love to go down and orally please! its that simple, if a man likes it big or not, I talked to many men, from both sides! I hope this can help!

  • No dude will ever care

    It's really not an issue

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What Girls Said 14

  • i have a very small clit and small inner labia, but my outer labia is very puffy. my husband finds it a total turn on. I have yoyo'd with my weight over the years but that has remained the same. sometimes I could just lay there and pretend to be asleep naked, and have found him directly above it gazing lustily at it,:) and he always likes to initial oral on me! yay! whatever your size is just be comfortable with yourself and confident and that is always super sexy to a man!

  • Mine are small and don't hang low. But honestly, love what you have. I think thats crazy to have surgery to cut them short.

  • It doesn't matter they wouldn't complain at that.

  • I recently had a guy tell me my p**** looked like a little girls and it was a total turn off for him. I have practically no inner lips and fat puffy outer ones (no surgery all natural). Because of what he said I decided to look into it and I was disturbed to discover that most women are worried about their inner lips being too big and are thinking of surgery! What disturbed me every more was a it was obvious most guys feel like the guy that got turned off by my nonexistent lips. Now I'm very uncomfortable showing any guy and I used to be very confident nude. I would aslo like to clarify something that was frequently said. Big lips do not make you more sensitive or more likely to orgasm or whatever. I think it more depends on the girl because with my no lips I certainly have no problems and I can orgasm with clitoral vaginal and anal stimulation and have multiples.

    • i can imagine what you said ;) I call it innocent cute pussie.. I personally feel like u got it all my perfect Dream pussy. )) but i like to mention here that it should be waxed neat ummmh ;) mouth-watering flashbacks are coming to my way;)) smooth and slippery,, wow i'm lovin it...

  • I have large labia and did not think much about it until a sexual partner told me when I was a teen. I was embarrassed and saw in most p*rn movies and mags they all seemed to be small and perfect looking. I have slept with a few guys who don't really care and others who say that they are beautiful.. Never the less I think each to there own you get sum who like, don't and those that don't give a sh*t. Well for me I love having sex and always have loved it. If they don't like me down there then they can go have a hard one.. hahahaha

    • Ooh nice, I am also not interested with the small size. However, my girlfriend has small minora I had no altenative because I love her. Otherwise if possible I wish to stretch it.

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