How to help my girlfriend on her period.
My girlfriend is very bold about herself so I don't have to guess about her period. One day she wasn't feeling to well and I asked her what's wrong... Show More
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Aww! You are so sweet!
I am definitely open about my period, but I don't think that my boyfriend would be.
A massage definitely helps, maybe offering her some advil too.
Belly massage helps, but not if she is cramping a lot.
Cuddling is definitely a must, so cuddle up with her.
I wish my ex-bf would of helped me out.
But massages and cuddling are a must.
If you have a heating blanket, offer her to use it.
Or to be romantic, you can set her up a nice bubble bath! I love bubble baths, with some rose petals or something in it. =]
What Girls Said 10
Very open, always have been. I always wanted to make sure the guy (now my husband) knew what he was getting into.I tend to get pretty horny during my period also. And I have found nothing that helps bad cramps better than a great orgasm. When you use a tampon there's no mess. And since I enjoy anal, that provides some fun too. But it's hard to beat a great cuddle/mutual masturbation session to ease the cramps and make for a great nap!
I always get really horny on my period! But I don't think I would ever let my boyfriend touch me while I was on my period, I know some people do.
Whoops and I wanted to add more to my comment, but it wouldn't let me.
You're right about the stomach rub being intimate though because when my guy rubbed my stomach it was so romantic and cute, and it seriously gave me the butterflies (not the nervous kind, the kind that means that you are aroused!) lol. And I think that the stomach rub actually made me.might be weird to say, but it made me wet. lol
so that's what I meant by that the "belly massage works, but not if she is cramping a lot".
you'll be able to tell if she is having severe cramps though because she will straight out tell you, "don't touch my stomach".But if she doesn't, then the stomach rub definitely helps.
ouch a belly massage would hurt I think. Actually a warm compress or hot water bottle is nice and some pain releaver. A back massage would help much more than a belly massage, but then again you can ask her specifically if she would like that. Everyone is a little different.
My periods used to hurt a lot when I was younger, they lessoned with time. I rarely talked about it with anyone except for my mother or friends.
I'm open to everyone about my period. Why wouldn't I be? Every girl gets em. And honestly, I prefer not to be "helped" while on my period as I seem to be irritable and on my own. But maybe that's just me.
To be honest some girls are open but some are not. If the girl really trusts you then yeah she is obviously going to tell you. So I guess your girlfriend does trust you are a very luck young man. But hey at least you know when she as her period. Good luck.
Oh yeah I forgot about that. Sometimes that can be nice and sometimes it can make it worse, so just be sure to listen to your girl and not force it.
when I'm having my period either I don't want anyone touching me because I feel gross or I want to be All over my boyfriend and I'm really horny. I THink this is the case for some girls so find out where she is at before you touch her stomach but STay romantic as I can tell that you are!
wow, when I'm on my period it isn't have as enjoyable as that, a lot of guys get weird if you mention periods.
well done, your a good boyfriend.
What Guys Said 1
Well these are all good answers and periods should not be a taboo!