How to help my girlfriend on her period.
My girlfriend is very bold about herself so I don't have to guess about her period. One day she wasn't feeling to well and I asked her what's wrong and she was having her period, that she didn't care who she told anymore. I gave her a back massage.
So, girls, are you open about your period to your boyfriends? What do they do to help you? I'm thinking about giving my girlfriend a belly massage next time but I'll have to ask her before I just rubbing her belly.
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Aww! You are so sweet!
I am definitely open about my period, but I don't think that my boyfriend would be.
A massage definitely helps, maybe offering her some advil too.
Belly massage helps, but not if she is cramping a lot.
Cuddling is definitely a must, so cuddle up with her.
I wish my ex-bf would of helped me out.
But massages and cuddling are a must.
If you have a heating blanket, offer her to use it.
Or to be romantic, you can set her up a nice bubble bath! I love bubble baths, with some rose petals or something in it. =]
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Very open, always have been. I always wanted to make sure the guy (now my husband) knew what he was getting into.I tend to get pretty horny during my period also. And I have found nothing that helps bad cramps better than a great orgasm. When you use a tampon there's no mess. And since I enjoy anal, that provides some fun too. But it's hard to beat a great cuddle/mutual masturbation session to ease the cramps and make for a great nap!
Whoops and I wanted to add more to my comment, but it wouldn't let me.
You're right about the stomach rub being intimate though because when my guy rubbed my stomach it was so romantic and cute, and it seriously gave me the butterflies (not the nervous kind, the kind that means that you are aroused!) lol. And I think that the stomach rub actually made me.might be weird to say, but it made me wet. lol
so that's what I meant by that the "belly massage works, but not if she is cramping a lot".
you'll be able to tell if she is having severe cramps though because she will straight out tell you, "don't touch my stomach".But if she doesn't, then the stomach rub definitely helps.
ouch a belly massage would hurt I think. Actually a warm compress or hot water bottle is nice and some pain releaver. A back massage would help much more than a belly massage, but then again you can ask her specifically if she would like that. Everyone is a little different.
My periods used to hurt a lot when I was younger, they lessoned with time. I rarely talked about it with anyone except for my mother or friends.