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How to avoid hitting my cervix during sex?

My boyfriend is...haha, well, very gifted, and I'm an extremely small girl. Together, the sex is amazing, but a bit too often he hits my cervix. We try many different sex positions, but we both like it from the back the most... As much as I like it, he often hits my cervix from the back, and in missionary sometimes... It doesn't hurt too bad to the point I can't take it, but I'd like to enjoy sex without pain... Anything I can do to avoid the pain or lessen it? THANKS(; xoxoxo
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Most Helpful Girls

  • OMG I thought I was the only one going through this. you should probably friend me so that we probably start up a page or something. anyway I had just posted a question about my situation and my man is pretty gifted too but it has become a problem for me. it hurts like hell in that I end up dragging myself away and he thinks that maybe I do that out of pleasure like when am about to come or something. I have to say that the sex is AMAZING before that position which turns out to be his best. I can't take that away from him since he really works hard for my pleasure

    • That is exactly what I'm going through!

  • Let him know this is happening, so he can stop pushing himself in too far. What does it feel like to be hit in the cervix? Just curious, I've never had sex with a man who is, very gifted.

    • I'm not sure how to put it, but it feels like he's hitting something very sensitive... Like, sex is supposed to feel good, so it's odd to have a painful feeling. Usually it just makes me squirm forward. Like he's at the end of the road, haha. thanks for the answer(:

    • It almost feels like they are hitting your stomach...

Most Helpful Guys

  • While you can vary your position to adjust his angle of penetration, the only REAL solution is for him to not go all the way in. Guys who are longer often have this problem (most girls can't take the full length during full-strength intercourse without pain/injury), and they have to learn to control themselves to prevent hurting their girl.

    It isn't always better to have a big penis...

    • I agree. And when I say "ow" or pull away, he does go slower & not as deep in, but he loves it as rough and and deep as possible, and I try not to take that away completely. Thanks!

  • jockey position wastes some length, I'd try that over doggie or other ones where your thighs are not in a straight line with your torso.

    • He does tell me to lie down sometimes when we're in doggie style... You're right it does feel better (: thanks!

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  • Stay on top, and don't let him go too deep.

    • I do get on top, but he says he doesn't really like it because of the condom, and we're not ready to do it without a condom. but thanks (:

    • You can also steer him with your hands, if he hits too deep you give him a little "ouch!" and a little push, until he can regulate his depth himself.

  • Hit him with a newspaper and say "No! No!"

    • Hahahaha, will do!

    • :D

  • remove your cervix before intercourse

  • only bj

    • I haven't done that yet. (:

  • Stop bragging

    • Sorry, totally bragging.

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