How can I make our sex into the best he's ever had?

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Me and my boyfriend have had sex two times, and he's a lot more experienced than me. (He's at about 15 girls, he's my second. (: ) I love having sex with him, because he knows exactly where to touch me, kiss me, how fast and how hard to stroke... It's amazing. He makes me beg for more, and it's just such great sex. But when we're texting, he says the next time we have sex, he wants me to "f*ck him back"... I guess that's just what he likes, but that just worries me that I'm not doing it well enough for him... He understands I'm not as experienced as him, but I can understand how it gets frustrating that I'm not doing what he likes...And he doesn't complain about it, he just adds that I should learn some new things...  Well, I just want to give him back what he gives me, so guys and girls, what can I do to give him the best sex he's ever had, to make him come back for more, like I do? THANKS (; xoxox(And if it helps, he likes it 'from the back' the best, he goes crazy fast, his turn ons are: "you being loud and moaning, f*cking me back when I'm going fast, sayin' my name and callin' me daddy and sh*t" -His Words haha. I hope this helps! Thanks again!)

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Stroke his ego, tell him how good it feels. My man loves it when I say "mmmm daddy your making your pussy feel so damn good." He'll ask who's pussy is it and I'll say "it's your pussy daddy" while moaning and I'll repeat it louder and add in fuck your pussy harder daddy or make your pussy cum daddy. He loves that even duetting phone sex. Dirty talk is great, men love it. Tease him to. Start out dirty talking through text, but don't be super fast to respond. Make him wait just a bit so he's sitting there thinking about what else your gonna say & go into detail. Just be really into it. Try to be a kinky even a little nasty, like tell him how yummy he tastes. Try sending him a pic of your wet panties. Even take charge. While he's lying down climb on top and start kissing him. Make your way down south and actually take your time and let him see how much your enjoying it. Sit on his face then ride him and if he tries to take control shake your finger and head at him and say not this time, you didn't ask permission. Hope that helps, my man loves all of that especially dirty talk. If your not sure what to say there's all kinds of articles to help you learn how to talk dirty to your man. Whatever you do don't be a dead fuck, always be involved in some sort of way other than just taking it. Good luck girly

bkay_87 · Accepted Answer

hhhmmm...don't be weirded out when I say this but you should watch p*rn. Look around and see what kind looks like what y'all enjoy. That's honestly what I did when I started dating my boyfriend now of 2 years and now I always have him turned on. He has been with roughly around 12 women and I've only been with 4 guys so I knew I had some catching up to do. OOO and another thing is like to read a lot so I would go to cosmopalitan.com and always read up on there tips they had. One of the first things I ever did for my boyfriend when we got together was give him head and the first things he said to me was "wow..you just f**ked me with your mouth" lol he said that it was the best bj he ever had.

Also, Try doing it in front of a mirror or try this... if you are on top of him...lean back and put one hand behind you, take your other hand and rub your cl*t while you ride him hard...it will drive him crazy! you can do whatever you want with your legs just make sure you are comfortable. I usually put my knees and chins on the bed versus squating because you can wear yourself out quick with squat up and down.

Hope that helps!

eurochick · Accepted Answer

There is a good site called sex positions 101 that gives you a lot of possible positions to try out. I guess for me and my boyfriend sex toys have aided our relationship. So we have a butt plug that we use during vaginal sex that makes it tighter for him (and for me) so he cums faster. If you haven't tried anal it is nice. Just use lots of lube and go slow. Other than that just practice, practice and practice some more which is really nice.

DrLover · Accepted Answer

Well, maybe he wants you to ride him hard, that can be a lot of fun for a guy in many ways. I could tell you more things that you could do to drive him crazy or make him feel really good but don't know what you do all ready. Send me a message and I will give you some Ideas.