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Insecure about my small boobs, advice?

I have small boobs (I know, I know, so sue me...) My sister has big boobs. She won't shut up about them! I have a big ass but I don't talk about it all the time! She's always making comments about her boobs (we share our bedroom). So sometimes she goes like "Ouch, my boobs are sore, I think they're bigger now", or "Hmm this bra feels tighter, I think my boobs are bigger". Or she makes jokes about getting unwanted attention, or she'll make jokes about using cleavage to her advantage... especially when we're with our friends, who're also busty and also can talk about bras for hours on end, and how guys love their big boobs and whatever. Pft... they're adults, they sound like teens sometimes. I never talk about my boobs or make a big fuss about them. I know some busty women complain of backaches and pervs and I think that's justified but my sis and friends seem to have an air of arrogance when they make these comments or jokes about their boobs. Yeah, I'm jealous. My boobs are so unremarkable, they're like any other body part for me - I feel excluded from their "boobie club". I feel unfemenine. I can never get cleavage like them when we go out. I'm pretty too, but I receive way less attention than them. Crap, I'm an adult already, shouldn't MEN already have been weaned of the stupid big boob obsession? Women with small boobs are just as horny and sexy as busty women, so why can't I receive the same attention? Ugh, I swear I feel so excluded from everything, from bra talk to getting hit on.
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+1 y
Lol... I guess it'll always be like this... like we'll always be second class compared to girls with big boobs. I guess cyrus7 put it best big boobs are like a bonus. Gah... I hate my t*ts! Not only do they make me feel unwomanly apparently they'll never be as good as big boobs.
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  • My personal preference is the High A's to High C's, but there are men that just adore larger breast sizes, all men have different preferences. And don't be jealous, you still have breasts, so be happy with what you have, I know a friend who didn't his puberty until she was 18, that means no breast growth until she was 18 years old.

    Some women, but not all women, let their breast size go to their head, just like how some men let their penis size take over their Egos. I'm sure your sister may be an attention addict and brags to make you feel self-conscious about yourself, don't let it get to you, all she is doing it lowering your self esteem to make herself feel higher than you. so just ignore her comments and be proud of yourself.

    There are actually women out there that want smaller breasts because they dislike the attention, saw a girl going through that on an MTV show called. . .Real World? True Life? Something like that?

  • In response to your update, and a bit of the convo you had with Cyrus... You say you've seen plenty of tall guys that weren't attractive. Well, I've seen plenty of girls with huge boobs that weren't attractive, at all, either.

    Boobs aren't everything. If you're pretty, and you say you are, you shouldn't have a problem in receiving male attention, but if a girl is pretty and has big boobs, then yes, that IS a bonus, I won't lie, and many men would agree... Now I'm not saying it's right for your sister to be so vocal/arrogant towards you about her breasts, it's not, but truth is, there are plenty of attractive women with small breasts as well.

    Don't sweat it... There's so much more to attraction than boob size. Just be yourself, be confident, and most importantly, be a lady. :)

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  • Crap, I'm an adult already, shouldn't MEN already have been weaned of the stupid big boob obsession? If it has to do with sex or a woman's body most men don't get tired of it after all they're just single-minded sexual creatures.

    Women with small boobs are just as horny and sexy as busty women, so why can't I receive the same attention? You can with the minority of men who have a small boob fetish

    Ugh, I swear I feel so excluded from everything, from bra talk to getting hit on. Find some bra buddies

    • what about girls who like big penises? are they single minded sexual creatures too?

    • what about girls who like big penises? are they single minded sexual creatures too? ^ nope to be a single-minded sexual creature to me you must either be male or be a woman: with a sex drive as high as a guy who thinks about sex as much as guys who watches p*rn & masturbate to it as much as guys is able to look at a human being & see them as sexualized body parts just want sex not sex with someone you care about see a nonadult & sexualize them because all you care about is physical maturity

    • Basically for a woman to be a single minded sexual creature she must have a guy's way of thinking to sex. Not sure if that's possible since men's sexual pursuit area in the brain is 2.5 times as big as a woman's. Liking big d*cks doesn't make one a single minded sexual creature. Neither does liking boobs. It's the fact guys are single minded sexual creatures that most won't stop obsessing over certain female body parts.

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  • women do this a lot. I have a friend who is really skinny and always makes comments about women having huge arses... Another friend of mine is tall so talk a lot about short women vs taller ones... They are graced with the gift of cleavage and so this is what they flaunt just think about your beauty in terms of what you have . it's not all about beasts .

  • She's getting attention just based on the fact that she has big boobs, you don't want that! Just exude confidence and happiness and you'll attract the right kind of guy. Not saying that all women with big breasts get attention just because of them, it just seems to be the case in this situation.

    • But I also don't want to be with a guy who "sees past my imperfections" to like me for who I am and nothing else, I also want a guy who'll think I'm sexy head to toe and perfect just as I am, and not who thinks big boobs are better and small boobs are something to accept and overlook.

    • Small boobs are sexy though! It's your attitude that makes all of you sexy, including your small breasts. They are in no way an imperfection. I honestly prefer small boobs, they're my favorite (not just saying that, seriously). I think they're way sexier than big breasts, don't know why they just are.

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  • I have always preferred smaller boobs. And there are many others like me who have that preference. Larger boobs are more obvious, and guys will certainly look at them. It is easier to notice larger ones and maybe even stare. But if a woman is in a swim suit or nude, I will be drawn to the smaller boobs. To me they are far more sexy and interesting.

    • "I will be drawn to the smaller boobs. To me they are far more sexy and interesting." Thank you for proving my point. Big boobs do suck ass.

  • I fucking hate my big boobs, they're not great at all. If I could cut them off and throw them in the garbage, I would. Guys and girls who think big boobs are great are delusional.

    • Are they painful?

    • @brandon1122 No.

  • tell her to shut the f*** up, and go to a club and learn to shake that ass.

  • I adore smaller boobs as many on GAG do also.. Petite is sweet ! Don't worry about the other girls that may be a different size. They only get attention because their "billboards" are larger, but not necessarily better.
    I think that smaller is way more feminine than larger.. Go out knowing that there ARE guys looking for your size and beauty.

  • You need to realize that yes guys like boobs, but there's so much more to a woman's worth then that. For example you mentioned that you have a great butt, who needs cleavage when you can wear clothes that emphasize your curves. I can guarantee now that while your sisters breasts will attract people, your curves will drive them crazy.

  • Don't you ever feel like you have to compare or compete with women with differing cup sizes. Cause you don't have to. We like what we like. Some like boobs. Others like butts. Hell, I have a friend who likes necks of all things. Don't get caught up in what everyone wants. Own what you have, love what you have, and you'll start to notice all the ones who want what you have.

  • Your boobs are fine; trust me, your boobs will be more than satisfactory. It's just natural for guys to be drawn to girls with big hooters. You will get the attention of a lot of guys with your big butt. There are also guys who don't really care about boob sizes. The face is the most important part. Besides, it's easier for girls to have big boobs than guys having a small penis.

    • But no one can easily see your penis through clothes, like at a club for example. I have to compete for attention because as you said "it's natural for guys to be drawn to girls with big hooters". Like screw the face, big knockers trump face, right?

    • No, big hooters do not trump face. I would rather have a girl with a pretty face and small boobs than a girl with an average face and huge boobs. The objective for guys is to get laid; the fear of being small and not satisfying f***s with a guy's self esteem.

  • Some men, certainly, do like big boobs. I think these men will lose their obsession with big boobs when women lose their obsession with big penises. Until then, it seems like more of the same.

    • By the way, what do you consider small?

    • Let me clarify that. Do you think your breasts are small compared to the big boobie clubs breasts or are they statistically small?

    • They're small on both cases. They're small compared to my sister's and friends', and they're statistically small, like an A cup. And penis size has nothing to do, at least guys have their penis conveniently hidden in their pants. And the clit is where it's at, guys should know that and you don't need a penis to hit the clit right.

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  • you and me both honey

  • The grass is always greener on the other side. Girls with big boobs complain about them being too big for various reasons - and girls with small boobs complain about them being too small for various reasons.

    The key isn't your boob-size though, but your self-esteem. Something your sister clearly doesn't have when she needs to boost about her boobsize in order to make herself feel better.

  • Girl just work with what you have and be proud.

  • I've never been attracted to big boobs. Chances are, if I were to see you and your sister next to each other... it would be you that I'd notice first. A cute face and a cute ass is what I find most attractive. Hell, you'd get bonus points just for being an A or B cup

  • You don't need to be insecure about it just if all.
    And think that you are attractive. You said you have a big ass so use it as a attractive element

  • Give me a message, I know how you feel. I have small boobs and had similar experiences

  • Well I just love boobs, doesn't really matter what size they are. Sounds like your sister is just being a bitch and trying to rub your face in it.

    If you want more attention just dress to the parts of you that you like and make them stand out more and should give you more confidence. I certainly don't think you need to "make up" for having small boobs or anything.

  • I never said they make you less womanly or anything like that... never said they wouldn't be as good as big ones either

    some guys have preferences, I'm sure you have preferences of your own

  • hey it's life, I'm sure an endowed guy would get more attention than a non-endowed one too

    • But how? The day guys wear see through clothes maybe, but guys don't do that! We can't see through guys' pants, stop using the penis analogy IT'S NOT THE SAME!

    • hey, rumors and stuff get around ok compare it to height then lol, I'm sure a taller guy gets more attention I'm just trying to say that it is what it is, so get over it

    • But there are always shorter girls than the shortest guy. And me personally I prefer a guy to be around my height, maybe just a bit taller though I've been attracted to shorter guys, and I'm only like 5'5" But whatever :/ I guess t*ts are more important than face, what a stupid thing.

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  • Go to Japan

  • I actually like any boobs from SMALL all the way to 'average big' not gigantic but let us say, around DD type of thing. I find smaller boobs are more sensitive, great to massage and suck and lick. not to mention playing with the nipples

  • Mine are small too, be happy

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