Do women want to get raped?

[Anonymous]

I am at the international u.s.-mexico border. I am at the American side and I will cross into the Mexican side in awhile. I am shocked at the American women crossing into the Mexico. They are dress very slutty and its obvious they are going to get drunk and go clubbing because why else would you go to a sh*t hole like Tijuana, Mexico. These women are stupid, they are going to get drunk at a foreign country. They are exposing themselves to a rapist. Why do women complain about getting rape when they put themselves in these situations?

[udolipixie]

Do women want to get rape? The ones who do usually want fantasy rape.

Why do women complain about getting rape when they put themselves in these situations?

Only guys would blame the rape on the victim.

Rape isn't like robbery or theft. It's an act of violence that someone does to another person.

Unless a girl is screaming rape me! she hasn't put herself in any situation.

Sadly a lot of girls are dumb enough to trust men & believe that most men are good. lol

I do like the wording 'put themselves in these situation' goes to show how men rarely have to face 100% responsibility of their bad behavior and that men are obviously not to be trusted if you have to be wary that being drunk or wearing etc means you're setting yourself up to be raped. After all being drunk gives men an opportunity and apparently most men will jump at that.

I do love how rape culture stresses on the woman how to lessen the risks instead of telling men not to rape and to take responsibility for their actions.

[Asker]

men that rape are mentally sick. The average man will not rape. This is why you can't put the blame on the rapist. Women are the ones that need to help themselves.

[udolipixie]

men that rape are mentally sick. ^ actually they're not most rapists are average men. Very few rapists are mentally sick. Women are more likely to be raped by a friend or family member than a stranger. Apparently most rapes are opportunity rapes aka ones where 'women put themselves in these situations' because they stupidly trust men are good people. Men are the ones who need to learn that a girl being drunk, high, passed out, or wearing 'slutty' clothes does not mean it's okay to rape

[udolipixie]

I agree women should be careful and learn how to defend themselves as most men can't be trusted.

[Anonymous]

No women want to get raped and I don't think outfits has something to do with it.If it is so, why would a rapist rape a 10 years old kid? Or maybe a 15 years old school girl?...Do they dress slutty? Yes maybe dressing over revealing might lead to this crime but I still think that men don't have the right to rape women.

[elements]

I agree that women do need to be more cautious, but dressing a certain way and drinking is no justification for someone else to force sex on them.

The amount of guys I see on this site blaming women for rape is saddening.

[AnonymousRussian]

I gotta agree with you, but in places like Tijuana there is very little safety, precautions really have to be taken seriously. I've visited there and my Uncle lived right outside it and said there were several tourists that had been enslaved/raped/ or prostituted. It truly is a bad place, and while it is saddening, people really need to think things through.

[madiocre]

want and rape is an oxymoron...

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

no you idiot no one wants to get raped

[Elisha22]

The women who do this are kinda stupid but no one would ask to be raped. I can't fully speak for these women because I find it that they are leaving themselves open to it. The way you worded this is horrible. but I get your point.

[Pancakes]

Of course they do, what kind of women DOESN'T want to be raped...wow.

[mattygfromtheMD32]

Just don't get drunk. Problem solved for everyone!

[Anonymous]

if a man did that to me id be more scared of them then i am at the moment in life from being born from rape kinda made me scared of men with a mild fear of men tbh it took my boyfriend months on talking to me to hear me say directly to hi and get excited when he was around me when we was friends for years but no not all women have a fantasy of being raped me id rather have sex with consent not against my will me since i have a fear of men if i don't know them or id be scared of the guy if they show me im safe ill give them a chance and speak but i dont want to be raped its why im scared of men with a mild fear of men so its just the women that have a rape fantasy tbh.

[Anonymous]

Nobody asks for rape and it is still not right. No means no and it's very easy for men to blame it on women instead of taking responsibility for their actions. This does not mean that every man is a rapist but all women want is for men to admit that other men who are rapists did something wrong and the woman isn't a ho who is asking for it, because no means no and nobody deserves to be abused. Yes sometimes women who are raped have put themselves in bad situations or used bad judgment but IT IS NOT THEIR FAULT THAT THEY WERE RAPED THAT IS THE MAN'S FAULT ALWAYS. Wearing certain clothes does not mean "STICK YOURSELF INTO MY VAGINA AGAINST MY WILL" sex is supposed to be a mutual and consensual act, if the girl says no it means no, and men who blame it on the women are just misogynistic a**hole pigs, and all rapists deserve to burn in hell. Rapists are just weak pigs. Real men don't rape.

[Asker]

rapist are mentally sick you can't expect them do behave morally right. Thus is why its up to women to not expose themselves to dangerous situations.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree women should be careful, somebody very close to me was raped and that's why I feel so strongly about the issue. I just hate when people outwardly blame the woman and call her a slut, but I guess that wasn't your intention.

[Anonymous]

I can see why you're Anon because you're an a**hole. Just because women dress a certain way does not mean they deserve it or it's their fault. It's pathetic men that can't control they're f***ed up urges and they all need to be chemically castrated =.=

[Asker]

im not saying they deserve it, I'm saying they expose themselves to these situations.

[Opinion Owner]

for asking this I should rape you with a dildo. you asked for it by asking this question. Fair? I think not