Why does he insist on me sleeping naked?

I don't like sleeping naked, I feel vulnerable and uncomfortable. He sometimes sleeps naked and sometimes not, I don't care. I don't get why he wants me to be naked though


Most Helpful Guy

  • Usually you two will fall asleep after sex cuddling. It is a much nicer sensation to be up against a naked woman, and to be able to touch her naked body and cup her naked breasts. And when waking in the morning, it is great to be able to cuddle with a naked body and enjoy the view, too.

    Many people argue you should not sleep naked because there might be a fire and you have to rush out. A robe next to the bed solves that.

    You are probably more comfortable sleeping with something on because that is how you grew up with family around. Things are different now. It is just you and him, and he could see your not wanting to sleep with him naked as you hiding your body from him.

    Others are right that you have to do what you are comfortable with, but perhaps you could adjust that now that you are with him and not your family.

    • that's a good point, I've actually never thought about why I don't feel comfortable with it thx

What Guys Said 5

  • I always want my Girlfriend to sleep naked. I enjoy her body and feeling it against me, and I like having the freedom to move my hands over her at night. And occasionally, one of us will feel horny and initiate sex in the middle of the night, and that makes it so much easier. But more than anything, it just makes me feel closer to her.

    A couple of GFs have been apprehensive/uncomfortable with this at first, but they all got used to it and mostly enjoyed it. And the others were completely fine, with some of them practically insisting on it.

  • So you don't sleep naked after sex with him either? The sight of a naked girl sleeping next to you is awesome.You're at your purest and most vulnerable and that's really enticing.

    Plus having a nice pair of breasts to look at while awake and bored is a nice way to kill some time.

    • No I don't, we usually cuddle a bit and then I put a shirt an panties on. How is being vulnerable enticing?

    • Because men have protective instincts towards women.

  • Probably because it's a turn on, and visually exciting as well.

  • Sleep how ever you are comfortable. I would take a guess, that he likes the idea of spooning naked. It increases the chances of another round of sex. =P


What Girls Said 3

  • probally cause he wants to have another round with you. Or wake you up to sex. Or maby take pix of you naked wile you sleep. Maby he just wants to feel your warmth wile you too sleep and wake up to a naked chick. I don't know as him. If your not comfy then don't do it

  • if you don't feel comfortable, don't do it.

    it's your body.

    maybe he thinks it'll be easier to lead up to sex if you're naked.

  • He likes your body, just tell him you prefer to wear PJs, it's just your thing.