First time sex-fast, hard, and rough or slow and sensual?

The first time you have sex someone new do you prefer sex to be wild, rough, and naughty or slow and sensual like lovemaking. Do you kind of let the guy decide how it goes. What type of lovemaking will likely want you coming back for more. Also if you really like a guy and find them irresistable I suppose rough naughty sex would make more sense, right? Do you girls also worry about how you will be pereceived as first time sex. For example if you screw him like crazy and rough do you get concerned about being seen as a hoe as opposed to girlfriend material. Do share your thoughts and own past experiences. Later.
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Most Helpful Guy

  • I was 18.
    Now mind you we been dating for a little bit. No sex or nothing. But I was really trying. She kept saying not now time is not right.

    We were doing some heavy petting for days. Then one she came to me with a box all gift wrap. The works you know.

    I ask what with the gift box. She goes it time now. I go huh. I was dumb I didn't catch her clues and hints.

    She said "open it come on open it" So I opened it. Guess what was inside. It was a bunch of lingerie and panties. I was lost and confused.

    I go whats with this stuff. I kid you not this next part is going to be word for word. She said "These are are for you the wear tonight. I want our first time to be super special. So I went Fredricks and with your sizes. Got you some of these things I thought you might like."

    Here is what going through my mind. This girl is freaking nuts and at the same time I was getting super turned on. By the idea.

    I was like. No fucking way I'm wearing that shit. My mouth was saying and my brain was saying. Shut the fuck up mouth your going to blow your chance of getting laid.

    Well needless to say I wore it and had the best sex of my life. She turned me into a lingerie wearing crosadresser.

    We were together for 3 years. In those 3 years. I became real comfortable in lingerie. So after 28 years I still wear lingerie. I may not be with her any more. But her affect on me is still active.

    Women after her think I'm fucked in the head. Maybe they are right, but at least I'm happy with my brainwashing from 28 years ago.

    Would I change this event if I could? I thought about that. And answer is always the same. No way because I would have missed out on some great memories and lifetime of enjoying ladies lingerie.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I definitely prefer wild, rough, naughty sex for the first time. I think that the sensual vibe mixes a lot better with someone you're really in love with, or at least have something other than great sexual chemistry.

    I do tend to worry that if I have sex the way that I actually like to (which I guess is more whore-ish than usual) that they will think differently of me.. like "you can't turn a ho into a housewife". Which I don't necessarily agree with anyways lol

  • why man, why? you must be a perv or just super horney. shame

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  • It was slow and sensual, building up speed as we went along.

  • He was gentle at first, but it got pretty hard.