How to satisfy a girl with oral sex

how to give the best oral sex to a woman? I need tips please!

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  • Enjoy it. Take your time (less is more). Fingering at the same time is great, (use the "come hither" motion on her g spot) but wait until she's warmed up first. Remember rhythym is everything, but don't cling to the same rhythm for too long, she will want you to start slow and build up gradually (very gradually! only speed up when she starts squirming and panting and moaning more than she already was) and remember to stay steady. She will be losing her mind if you're doing it right, so you need to be the one in control who sticks to the rhythm. She might even be flying around a little and you gotta keep at her wherever she goes (as long as she isn't trying to get away because she's overstimulated - you have the responsability to remember that less is more, so don't rub too hard, and even when you're going fast and finishing her, it's helpful if you learn how to give her little pauses to let her chill for a second without her losing the wave of orgasm - this takes time and practice)

    Also, a great trick: If you can curl your tongue to make a You in the middle, also called folding your tongue, you can use that like a straw to suck her clit (gently!) in a pulsing way. Remember that your tongue is more bumpy than your lips, so it's easy to overstimulate with the tongue, try going slow and soft at first, and increase the pressure until it seems like it's working. She will start moving or making noises when it's working.

    The lips aren't that sensitive, but it's good to tease them. The action is in the clit and g-spot, and since your tongue is too short to get the g-spot, focus on the clit with your mouth. Remember before starting you need to warm her up with foreplay and teasing, you know, nipple sucking (again less is more) etc. Also, her tinner highs are sensitive, so before you start, try gently brushing them with your hands.Where you feel that super soft skin, she is sensitive. After oral though she won't be sensitive there any more, it's similar to how you can't be tickled very easily after sex, so don't bother once you start eating her out.

    Remember to tease her a lot. After you brush her thighs, try to cup her c*nt in your hand gentle, feel her warmth, this will excite her and it will give you an appreciation of how soft she is, so when you go down, you'll have that in mind and you'll be more gentle, which she likes. Girls are more like cats than dogs. Dogs you can wrestle with and pat hard. Cats will not put up with that. You don't go after a cat. You let it come to you, and at first you just barely pet it so it wants more, never give it all you got until the cat is in your lap, lying on it's back, purring with that squinty cat smile on it's face, and then you let it have it and after that, the cat will always come running over to you when it sees you, and it might even hunt you down.

    • This is exactly what my boyfriend does to me......you hit the nail on the head...so to speak :)

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    • Thx ya'll. Pleasing a woman is the manliest thing we can do, and there's nothing sexier than a woman moaning and writhing around orgasming. Plus girls can tell when they first meet you if you're confident about your ability to please them. It's like playing guitar. At first, you're embarrassingly bad, but once you learn and you've got experience, you don't even need to be playing for girls to find you sexy, they can smell the music on you. Animal instinct.

    • Very nice use of cat metaphor =D

      very nice overall =D

      thumbs up, great advice! =)