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Why do guys like to hear a girl gag?

I don't get it, my boyfriend facef***ed me so hard one day I honestly couldn't breath and the whole time he kept saying how good it feels. I was to the point of tears and trying to push him away. I had to bite him a little to get him to stop. (no he wasn't huge he was 6 or 7in). He was pissed at me and I smacked him for not paying attention the fact that I couldn't breath. Now I won't give him a bj and he thinks I'm being a bitch for it. What do you all think? And guys why do you like doing this sh*t to girls?
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  • I'm sorry that happened to you :S

    To answer your question, a lot of guys like to hear girls gag (although consentually). The whole point is, to get deep in there, and when they hear the girl gag it's like a testament to how big their d*** is. Guys will deny it, but it's the feeling of masculinity, control and sexual prowess.

    Tell him he went too far last time and that if you do oral on him again you want to control how far it goes in. Its a very vulnerable position to be in and you should be able to decide on what you do yourself.

    My guy does like to go fast, but I can control his pace and depth of thrusting in my mouth by "tag teaming" with my hand. I put my hand around the base of the shaft, and my mouth stays on the upper portion of his shaft and his glans head. Thus the entire penis is stimulated and I don't puke all over him.

    But more importantly, it sounds like you need to talk to him.

  • What a f***ing jerk - tell him to suck his own d*** if he wants to be a bitch about it.

    My friend let her guy do this to her and she threw up - like legit gagged so hard she vomited a little. He felt so terrible for doing that to her, apologized and like did whatever he could to make it up to her.

    See the obvious difference?

    Your dude should be respectful of how you feel during intercourse - it f***ing takes two to do it, so for him to disregard you is absolute bullsh*t.

    Man - some people are so f***ing lousy.

  • Oh.. well my ex and I used to have a "tap out" thing.. I think that should have been established before he tried that. It's his own fault, he's a d-ck. Choke him and see how he likes that!

    The guys that do that (my ex and your current) like the power and control.

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  • Honestly, you should ask him if he wants to be tied up some day. When you get him in that position, get a giant strap-on and facef*ck him with it until his eyes start watering and turning red and hold his nose at the same time so he can't breath. Then slap him in the face with it and spit on him and start punching him in the nuts and that. Asking him who's my bitch...

    He'll get the picture.

  • F*** this a**hole. I'd like to see him get his throat f***ed by a horse. F***in douche.

    • Bite his d*** off if he tries to make you do it again.

    • Good one man I agree.

    • That's just a total a**hole move. Total disrespect to her and everything.

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  • I'm sorry :( that sucks, I wouldn't give head again after either, especially since he is getting mad over it. Sounds like he is not caring about you, only himself. Try talking to him about it and see if he is more sensitive about it. Once he is acting better and you feel better about doing it, have him sit and go on your knees so you have more control, if he continues to be selfish stop doing it again. Good luck!

  • Must... not... link

    • I think you're right not giving him a BJ.

  • He sounds like a d***head.

  • ...have you dumped him yet?...

    • See I'm trying to figure out why he is acting this way. He hasn't been this way about anything else. He is the perfect gentlemen except for this. So I was holding off until I could actually just talk to him about

    • *it

    • sigh. well I really hope he has a good explanation... I understand that sometimes people get carried away with things...but if you're about to cry and he isn't stopping... that's just sickening :/ that would probably kill anything I felt for the guy. good luck...

  • i'm pretty sure it's only jerks that do that.

  • I would never do anything to a girl she wouldn't want me to do first... that guy sounds like a giant douche.

    • Well that's good. This has been the only thing he does that is f***ed up

  • I do NOT like to hear anyone gag...I don't care for bjs...guy sounds like a total a$$hole...time for a new bf?

  • Sit on his face sometimes. Full weight. It's the same thing.

    • He usually likes that...

    • Don't go soft though. Really sit on his face.

  • Im sorry that happened to you! My guy lost control once but it wasn't til where I couldn't breathe and I was comfortable with it! I wouldn't give him head if I was you and I would have bit him too! You're not being a bitch you're protecting yourself until he learns the boundaries

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