Sex dream about someone sparks a major crush - has this ever happened to you?

Sometimes I randomly have a sexual or romantic dream about a guy (friend, acquaintance) whom I hadn't previously been attracted to: and all of a sudden, I find that I have a major crush on him! I start thinking all sorts of dirty and sappy things about possible future encounters between the two of us... in short, my night-dreams spark day-dreams. Has this ever happened to you? Who did you dream about? What happened in the dream? Did you ever date/hook up with the person? Did it work out? Why is it that a dream can spark attraction? It seems so random! ADDITIONALLY: Have you ever had a sexual/romantic dream about a guy/girl who you made up in your own head? I am talking about someone who was imaginary but showed up in your dream. This happens to me all the time, and then I get a crush on someone who *doesn't even exist*. WTF, so frustrating.
YES - this has happened to me with someone random I knew.
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YES - this has happened to me, but it only increased a crush I already had.
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YES - but it was a dream about someone imaginary. WTF, subconscious!
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NO - this has not really happened to me.
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NO - this seems really weird...
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  • Yeah it happened to me before, it was sort of a crush at the time. I liked her and wanted to tell her my feelings but wasn't ready to take that leap of faith. Anyways I had this dream where I was basically laying down and that girl called me on my cell, so as I grab it and talk to her for awhile. She said she wanted to come over for awhile , I said sure. She arrives, we walk to my room and sitting on the bed while she was talking about some guy she loved. I was a little sad because I thought I had no shot, then she told me I was the guy she was referring to. I turned over and kissed her on the face, and from own there things got a bit too heavy. All of sudden I was watching myself from another angle on top of her , making romantic love/ a p*rno scene. ( I honestly couldn't tell the difference, it appears romantic then again, its not a romantic love scene that should be shown in a movie, too graphic. ) So basically after an hour and a half of fun, she lays there with her head on my chest while holding hands. I close my eyes for a second, then she climbs on top of me and rides me again. When I open my eyes, I woke up. I was really really sad, then I turned over to my phone for the time and find out that same girl send me a text. Ironic huh?

    • woah that is crazy !

    • lol I know

    • lol thanks.

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  • I did once, sort off. I had a classmate I always thought of as attractive, but nothing more. Then I had a romantic but steamy dream about her. It didn't immediately made me desire her. But it got me looking at her differently which eventually led to lust.

    To be honest, it's more physical attraction, though I would try committing if I had the chance.

    • so weird how a dream can change how you look at someone

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  • i have sex dreams all the time. and its mostly with my boyfriends friends, or my best friend ( he is a guy) and it does make me have a crush on them or want to actually make that dream come true. most of the times dreams like this mean your not bein pleasured enough or your body is wanting to be pleasured. its not that you have a crush on them, its how you felt in your dream that made you feel great and feel good about yourself that's why you "crush" on them :) get yourself some and maybe thatll help with the dreams lol

    • oh god... how awkward is this when you always have sex dreams about guys who aren't your boyfriend? unfaithful subconscious lol. then you want to f*** these other guys, haha... oh its bad. so you're saying its just an indication that you're feeling "lonely" lol?

    • either your lonely or your not getting enough. no I don't pursue my dreams, I'm not unfaithful to my boyfriend, but it does happen to me alot. lol

    • oh I was just speaking generally, not you specifically. used to happen to me a lot, I felt guilty about it. i meant like... lonely in your pants... lol its my euphemism for horny cause I don't like that word lol

  • My ex had dreams about me, and he told me it was the reason he wanted to start dating me :P

    • oooo

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  • very interesting, I've had a dream about me having a pet baby tiger and tarantula last night and I had to go through special requirements to find them food.

    my setting seemed like I was at my college but stone age style. I even had my nice warm cave and I sucked on Ice ickels, when they got thirsty.

    • dude, so not relevant to the question asked

    • hey I just wanted to tell you about my dream since you told me your story! player!

    • lolz

  • Nope. I've only had one sex dream my entire life.

    • they are pretty rare I think

    • Probably. I don't care about sex so if I dream about being with a girl it's usually only dates, cuddling, or kissing. Or some combination of those.

    • when the first one happens you will be like WTF lol

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