First: Make dates to get away from family. If he's willing, then there's no problem. If he doesn't want to be alone with you, talk to him about it. Tell him what you want, "You know, I would be happier if we were alone more often" or " I really like it when it's just us." If you both want to, then you just need to agree on activities/dates that get you alone. A car backseat is your best friend for making out, but if you don't have one, can you put a lock on your bedroom door, or his bedroom door so that no one can bust into the room? That would be a good start. Then you guys can be "listening to music" or "studying" or "doing art" or "having a private talk" etc. You can get a sliding "bolt lock" from the hardware for $5, and all you need is a screwdriver to install it.
If you aren't allowed to have the door locked at either of your houses, try talking to your or his parents. Mention that "a psychiatrist wrote an article about how teenagers need privacy to develop and mature properly". If there is no way to get private space, then you gotta find a nook in the city. Every city has a nook. It might be at the waterfront near an abandoned building, or on a hill at a park, or a corner of the library, or on a rooftop of a building (fire escapes help with that) get creative. Start looking around for a nook where you can be alone and chill.
The most important thing is that you are relaxed. Whether you're at home with the lights turned low, and music playing, or you're in some nook, making out starts with being relaxed.
Try to breathe slowly and deeply through your nose (quietly!). This will slow your heart rate.
Remind yourself that one day you'll have made out thousands of times, and you won't be nervous any more, and you'll laugh about how nervous you were. Try to laugh at the situation, and remind yourself of how much he wants you. He does, inside he feels just like you "damn I wanna make out with this girl, why god, why can't you just give me the strength to jump on her right now?!" I freaking promise you he wants you so bad it hurts. Think of it like you're doing him a favor, forget about what you want, because if you think about how you're helping him, you'll be distracted from being afraid. Remember, making out is EASY. Starting is the hard part. Once you make contact, you'll both know what to do. Once you're relaxed and having a good time, wait for a silence in the conversation, and that's your time to start. There is no wrong way. Honestly in my experience if you start by holding hands and snuggling, sure it will lead to making out eventually, so nothing wrong with it, but what do you want to do? You wanto make out. What does he want to do? He wants to make out. You can just climb on top of him, put your hands on him (chest, shoulders, thighs, back). Lean your head in close, not all the way, but so your lips are 1-2 inches apart, tilt your head, give him a second, then gently press your lips together and go from there
You just gotta go for it when you two are alone after the intial kiss it'll come naturally as you go. And since this is both your first no one can judge there's no expection from you partner so just go for it.
.you've been together for eight months but you've never made out?
I know from experience that most if not all things are scary before you do them and great afterwards. With my current boyfriend I've been through that worry over several things and now that it's happened it's just natural and fun.
You should both trust each other and be comfortable enough around each other (especially after such a long time!) to be relaxed and nonjudgmental of the other person.
Maybe you could try telling him that you want to but are nervous. Honestly and openness always seems to work!
JIST KISS HIM! one thing will need to another, if things start going to far, stop him its easy, trust me, just relax
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!eight months! and you guys still haven't made out?! :O I would have had sex with her by then. anyways just go to a very quiet and dark place (possibly a park) with him and then after chatting for a while, lean your face close to his lips and he will surely respond by moving closer to you ('cause you said he wants to make out too) and then just wait for the magical feeling! good luck!
f***! I miss my girlfriend :'(
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