Why do women like buying big dildos?

I work at a sex shop and I've noticed that most women buy 8-12 inch dildos. I thought women were alright with 6 inch dildos. Also, they always buy black dildos. So, do women secretly want big black penises?
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  • I don't even own one, but with dildos and toys like that, the more extra you have to hold onto, the better control you can have with it. You need a bit to grip onto. It doesn't mean those girls are shoving the entire thing in there. And even if they were, that only represents the women YOU see who buy toys, lol, not the whole female population. Color is irrelevant. They also have neon ones and every color of the rainbow, and we'll never find a man with a penis any of THOSE colors, so it really makes no difference.

  • ofcurs :) who in the world want small penis? that would have been a waste of money to buy small dildos :)

  • i don't know cause I would buy a 6 inch flesh colored

    • That's what I would get. More realistic!

Most Helpful Guys

  • well, that's only the girls that actually but dildos, doesn't represent all women or even the majority.

    plus consider this, if a girl wants to have 6 inches inside her, she needs something to grab onto in order to push those 6 inches in, so they need at least an extra 2 inches on it just for grip.

    • Yup

  • maybe they like the black dildo's because it matches their dress, purse or lingerie. It could also be because they like to do it with the lights off and like to pretend they are having sex with an invisible man because they don't see the black dildo in the dark.

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  • For me it was from my husband asking me about past lovers sizes I’ve had been with my husband is 6 1/2” long and 5 1/4” thick around. Very average from my personal experience most wasn’t much bigger or smaller a couple was much longer one of those was much thicker. My husband obviously wanted to know how the experience was with a bigger man, I felt awkward telling him. It was embarrassing I regretted telling him that I been with one bigger now confronted with describing the encounter. But I knew I couldn’t lie to him about it I said it was very intense and I enjoyed it to my surprise he wasn’t hurt jealous or offended by it. He was more curious as to what I liked about a longer cock I laughed saying the thickness was more intense. It just was constantly stretching me and had a continuous pleasure the best I can describe it to him. He was quick to say he needed to get me a dildo big enough to give me that pleasure, I was embarrassed and didn’t want him to believe he needed to buy one. We talked a lot about I was uncomfortable about it he seemed so confident and excited to give me this pleasure. It was very sweet and I loved the fact he was so persistent about it and agreed to letting him get me one to use on me. We never talked about what size or anything I gave him a general reference about the guy I had sex with was about 7-8”long and much thicker than my husband using my fingers as a reference. I had never measured a guy till my husband that would be later after he got me the dildo that size became something important to me. He didn’t go cheap on quality and was very generous on size a bit to intimidating me with ( 12” long 10 1/2” insertsble 6 1/2” thick around very firm silicon dildo. The color was light skin tone we are white and while I’m not prejudice a black dildo or man isn’t appealing to me to each their own. I admitted this was intimidating and I didn’t think that much length was nessary the girth was enormous. My husband said you said you liked being stretched I laughed saying that’s more stretching than I did. We started having sex first together he had me sucking my new toy it hurt my jaw lol but turned me on. Just holding it while my husband fucked me even made sex better it was just naughtier forbidden like to me. He started pressing deep and hard and grunting cumming inside of me filling me with needed lubricant to accommodate this toy. He slipped out and we both held the toy and pressing it at the entrance of my pussy I was nervous for some odd reason my pussy lips was in the way and would rip. I have very long and thick pussy lips something I had always been embarrassed about till I met my husband. He pulled them apart for me and I pressed hard and surprised my self as it slipped inside stretching me. I was going to just go slow he shoved it about 9” deep in a second it felt full and I was embarrassed about accommodating so much so easily in front of my husband. This thing is enormous compared to him he started licking my clit and I started to feel intense pleasure and let him take control. He had me taking every inch of it and was slowing fucking me with long strokes making me orgasm. I had to take a break it got so intense we laid together kissing telling each other how in love with each other we are. My desires to be filled again took back over and I threw my legs open pulling toy in his hand to enter me. He went slow and I told him a little faster and kept asking to go faster. Suddenly he was slamming in as fast as he could and I squirted across the bed rolling into a ball my body was like jello. I couldn’t even let him touch me even his breath was to intense to feel my body was so orgasmic. I giggled when I caught my breath saying I was so happy he did really really good getting the perfect choice. We kissed and cuddled and he fucked me and after I cam I grabbed the dildo and started fucking myself with it. I enjoyed pulling it all the way out and ramming it all the way in till I was completely satis.

  • Color doesn't matter does it? Seeing as there are purple, blue, or clear ones lol

  • Black guys don't really turn me on anymore. I don't know why.

    • anymore huh?

    • Yeah, like, I used to big them up but now, I really am not that attracted to them.

    • any black guys at all?

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  • i don't need the sex shop.

    my Boyfriend has the real thing.

    who wants plastic ?

  • Because women are fairly size centric.

  • Because it's better to have a bit extra, especially with dildos. They can stick as much in as they want, and leave the rest out. With a penis on the other hand, it's pretty much always completely in, which is where size can be a problem.

  • Because they feel better, they hit all the right spots and never cum to soon. A woman gets a great cock without the problems that come with a real cock.

  • Because that's story is not true lol.

  • A longer dildo gives you something to grip when you're using it.

  • I like this 9 inch dildo.

  • Much of the length is a handle. But thick black dildos are very popular.

  • Speak for yourself I get bad dragon so mine don't even look human let alone black I get mine more girthy than tall because I like the streatched feeling don't get me wrong I like average dick to and it's not like it makes you lose because my fiance still manages to tare me from time to time and he has the average

    5 inch penis but keep in mind some of that length is just so we have something to hold on to while still getting dick

  • whats the difference between Dildo and a penis?

    • Dildos don't care who you have sex with.

  • Mine is bright yellow and the size of my pinky finger. so BLAH! *pokes out tongue*

  • black guys don't turn me on but I guess they want huge?LOL

    • ...

  • I'm fine with 6 inch penises, but with dildos if I have the option to go bigger I will. I don't have a black dildo..hmm.

  • lol great question. I don't own a dildo and if I did it would not be that large and it would be orange roflmao and I don't secretly want an orange men's penis xD

    • Makes sense.