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When on the receiving end of oral sex, do guys get nervous?

do guys get as nervous as girls do? I know I can't speak for all the ladies, but the thought of a guy putting his face all up in my vagina makes me kinda uncomfortable. I'm always worried about what he thinks about how I look/smell/taste etc, and what to do when I come so that I don't like break his neck lol. it makes it difficult to enjoy sometimes because I can't turn my brain off. I was just wondering if guys ever feel similarly when they're getting a blowjob
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  • A guy who is giving you oral isn't worried about any of that, so you can stop worrying. If he's giving you oral, his entire goal is to cause you to react, as intensely as possible. He WANTS to you moan, scream, shake, roll your eyes back, shudder, grab handfuls of bedsheets, etc. He's not doing it so you lay there quitely and don't react.

    You are cheating yourself of a lot of pleasure becasue you are over-analyzing and not letting yourself get lost in the moment.

    • Totally agree with you

  • I don't give a sh*t about blow jobs...but I would never have a long term relationship with a female that doesn't like to receive oral...And let me assure you...your taste is inconsequential to me...while your smell would not phase me in the least...and, when you come, the best communication you could send me is to pull my hair push my face into your flesh and grip my head with your thighs...got it? (:

    • Haha it's not that I don't enjoy receiving oral sex, I just know I'd like it more if I wasn't as self conscious. That last part definitely turned me on a little haha, guy slike you are definitely not the norm :-P

    • yeah..well..we ae not totally rare either...<3<3<3<3<3<3 =D

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  • No, we don't. Most guys I know can't even come from a blowjob. And we don't really have to worry about the smell or taste if we're hygienic.

  • If she's sticking her head in my crotch, it's because she wants to be there; I've never forced a bj out of anyone. I wish more girls would remember that.

  • Don't worry about it. He wouldn't be doing it if he didn't enjoy it, you're fine

  • Maybe talking with your partner about it will help? I'm saying because it looks like you don't feel secure enough when you're with him.

  • I was dating a girl a little over 3 weeks when she asked me if I had ever gone down on a girl or vice versa. Her inquiry must have shocked my system because one evening she probably would have done it for me, but I was nervous or cared about her too much to ask her. If she initiated it, I wouldn't have stopped her.

  • No way.. I relax and enjoy every second of it. I've tasted myself before and I know it's not bad so when I cum, I warn her, and I really dont' care if I come in her mouth or on her breasts, but I definitely prefer in her mouth.

  • Absolutely not. I think in general guys have a better relationship with their penises than ladies have with their vaginas. Besides she's already down there and most ladies (in my experience) like the look, feel, smell and taste of penis... Up until the point of blowing a load in which the opinions vary.

    But a lot guys (myself included) like the smell, taste and feeling of vagina. So relax and let your man do his job.

  • i just like bj from girls

  • Yeah I do but I'm not that experienced. The only time I ever had a girl down there I was really nervous and could not have an orgasm.

  • No, most males have sort of a dominant bent to our psyche. So if we do think 'god it must be so nasty for her having a penis shoved in her mouth and getting come burst out ...' it just turns us on.

    Then we might feel guilty.

  • while getting blown I'm pretty much just thinking about how go it feels and how sexy see looks

  • na, I think all d***s are a little different, but not so much taht a girl would be like "omg, wtf is that!?" haha

  • dont be so self conscious. just enjoy the pleasure. I'm sure your vag is fine.

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